Going on a first date to a bar with i guy i met at a party. any advice on conversation, where to take them (they dont know the area well - the bars i went to were where ex hangs out). we dont know each other at all and im a bit nervous as I was in a long term relationship from a young age and haven't dated much.First date advice?
Just let it flow, trying to plan a conversation never worked for me. I just listen and talk about things that interest both of us.First date advice?
could you maybe text him and suggest that ye grab a coffee or a bite to eat instead as you overindulged on the alcohol over the weekend and are feeling a bit peaky when you think of having more tonight?
xx
don't drink any alcohol before you get to know the guy and bring another friend that doesn't drink either. A bar or hotel is not a good date unless you want to be rapped.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Movie date advice helpppp?
Okay, so i am going to the movies with one of my friends. We are just friends but she knows i am attracted to her. she told me she used to like me. So on the date i dont want to be to pushy because i dont want to ruin the friendship%26gt; is there any small things i can do to hint that i wouldnt mind some more. like small flirts.Movie date advice helpppp?
use those cheesy lines so u can get ur arm around her
ex: like if theres a fat lady in front, be like omg that lady is HHUUGGEE and put your arms aound her...u get the idea
hope it helps..good luk
use those cheesy lines so u can get ur arm around her
ex: like if theres a fat lady in front, be like omg that lady is HHUUGGEE and put your arms aound her...u get the idea
hope it helps..good luk
Where can a guy get really good dating advice?
I am a pretty average guy, but I really am attracted to really attractive girls, but they always seem out of my league. How can I get some good advice on not being rejected and maybe getting one of them to go out with me. A friend of mine told me he had success at a site called 7datingsecrets.com. But that site only shows you how to get girls into bed and I am looking for a long-term relationship, not sex with lots of girls.Where can a guy get really good dating advice?
You cud always just get to noe them
talk to them and show them what
your looking for and what you are aboutWhere can a guy get really good dating advice?
i know what you mean it really sucks when you like a girls but there are out of your league i get frustrated when that happens to me only to find out that she taken
You cud always just get to noe them
talk to them and show them what
your looking for and what you are aboutWhere can a guy get really good dating advice?
i know what you mean it really sucks when you like a girls but there are out of your league i get frustrated when that happens to me only to find out that she taken
First date advice please?
So I finally got the nerve to ask out the guy I've liked for a while. He said yes! So soon we'll be going out on a date and I wanted to know what would be good for the first date. And if we get dinner or something, should I be paying for my things or should I let him pay? Any helpful advice would be great!First date advice please?
awww. well the guy should always pay for th first date its the proper thing to do. but just incase i would bring extra money just incase.
and i would go to the skateing ring or do something funn and show him your romantic side on the second date.
well good luck!!!First date advice please?
If i were you i would pack food and go on a picnic, then you wouldn't have to worry about paying. Then go bowling cause its fun and you wont get sweaty or nasty, and you can have him help you bowl.
well technically, u should because u invited him but NO WAY he would let you pay. he should pay for it.
Like when u pull out ur wallet he will say allow me or I'll get this then u can pay for the ice cream...
btw, u r brave...
Try something fun-- like movies... but no chick flicks or drama something funny and humerous would be good.
keep it light and fun, arcade or movies, dinner is kind of formal for a first date
awww. well the guy should always pay for th first date its the proper thing to do. but just incase i would bring extra money just incase.
and i would go to the skateing ring or do something funn and show him your romantic side on the second date.
well good luck!!!First date advice please?
If i were you i would pack food and go on a picnic, then you wouldn't have to worry about paying. Then go bowling cause its fun and you wont get sweaty or nasty, and you can have him help you bowl.
well technically, u should because u invited him but NO WAY he would let you pay. he should pay for it.
Like when u pull out ur wallet he will say allow me or I'll get this then u can pay for the ice cream...
btw, u r brave...
Try something fun-- like movies... but no chick flicks or drama something funny and humerous would be good.
keep it light and fun, arcade or movies, dinner is kind of formal for a first date
Any advice for a first date with someone?
I'm a girl going on my first date with a friend tonight, any advice?Any advice for a first date with someone?
Shower
Brush your teeth,
Curl your hair,
Wear your favorite dress.
A dab of makeup.
Be nice,
Be yourself.
Go to a public place.
NOt his house or yours. (unless parents are home)
Bring money (just in case)
Take a cell phone for emergencies.
Keep your clothes on.
NO touching.
NO kissing
No nothing on this date but a hug and a kiss on the cheek (MAYBE).Any advice for a first date with someone?
now i need that advice and it makes me sad at the same time...
Don't be, you are young, and have your whole life!!!
Be happy, and enjoy yourself, just don't get into what you know is trouble! You can still have fun and stay out of trouble. I wish this for you and all young persons!!!
Don't expect much. Don't put out.
Have fun, and be fun too, if you like him, dont let on too much, dont put out, and if you are nervous try to focus on relaxing and having a good time.
Always have extra money with you, in case things go bad.
Go to a public place, and most of all have fun...
Remember you are in control and not him....
Don't go on a ';date';. That whole paradigm implies scripted behavior and leaves you haunted by thinking you must act a certain way and do certain things. I just like to go have fun and if something develops fine. BTW, I have been the worst date for more than one girl, yet I have been told I was also the most fun ever on a first ';date';.
Be yourself. I mean yourself. Don't do anything to impress him that you wouldn't normally do.
Stay true to your values and upbringing. While the first date doesn't define you, it should be a pleasurable experience for you and your date.
Be yourself.
JUST BE YOURSELF, DONT BE SO STIFF
Be you and have fun and dont rush things.
Just be yourself coz first impression is the last impressionoil companies
Shower
Brush your teeth,
Curl your hair,
Wear your favorite dress.
A dab of makeup.
Be nice,
Be yourself.
Go to a public place.
NOt his house or yours. (unless parents are home)
Bring money (just in case)
Take a cell phone for emergencies.
Keep your clothes on.
NO touching.
NO kissing
No nothing on this date but a hug and a kiss on the cheek (MAYBE).Any advice for a first date with someone?
now i need that advice and it makes me sad at the same time...
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Don't be, you are young, and have your whole life!!!
Be happy, and enjoy yourself, just don't get into what you know is trouble! You can still have fun and stay out of trouble. I wish this for you and all young persons!!!
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Don't expect much. Don't put out.
Have fun, and be fun too, if you like him, dont let on too much, dont put out, and if you are nervous try to focus on relaxing and having a good time.
Always have extra money with you, in case things go bad.
Go to a public place, and most of all have fun...
Remember you are in control and not him....
Don't go on a ';date';. That whole paradigm implies scripted behavior and leaves you haunted by thinking you must act a certain way and do certain things. I just like to go have fun and if something develops fine. BTW, I have been the worst date for more than one girl, yet I have been told I was also the most fun ever on a first ';date';.
Be yourself. I mean yourself. Don't do anything to impress him that you wouldn't normally do.
Stay true to your values and upbringing. While the first date doesn't define you, it should be a pleasurable experience for you and your date.
Be yourself.
JUST BE YOURSELF, DONT BE SO STIFF
Be you and have fun and dont rush things.
Just be yourself coz first impression is the last impression
DATE ADVICE (Fairfield/Vacaville area)?
i planning to take a girl out tomorrow, and i just not really sure what to do... i mean dinner or movie sounds fine but seriously i'm thinking something more exiting for this one, gimme some ideas peopleDATE ADVICE (Fairfield/Vacaville area)?
If your looking for excitement you wont find it in Fairfield or Vacaville! Take her to Napa Valley and go wine tasting ( assuming your of age ).DATE ADVICE (Fairfield/Vacaville area)?
i have no idea where that area is... but why not have a dress up party with a couple of mates in the early avo, then take her for a romantic picnic on the beech or near the river... or even just by the park and maybe get her a nice braclet :)
maybe you should take her to sausilito...margaritaville..after that take her to the headlands overlooking the golden gate bridge..thats an awesome date ..I have done it before..she will love it.. I know its a little far from fairfield but it is worth it if you can
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If your looking for excitement you wont find it in Fairfield or Vacaville! Take her to Napa Valley and go wine tasting ( assuming your of age ).DATE ADVICE (Fairfield/Vacaville area)?
i have no idea where that area is... but why not have a dress up party with a couple of mates in the early avo, then take her for a romantic picnic on the beech or near the river... or even just by the park and maybe get her a nice braclet :)
maybe you should take her to sausilito...margaritaville..after that take her to the headlands overlooking the golden gate bridge..thats an awesome date ..I have done it before..she will love it.. I know its a little far from fairfield but it is worth it if you can
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Where to go on date? Date advice? Please help.?
I want to take out a girl that I really like but i don't know where to take her the park is kind of boring and movies feel too awkward and dinner is too forward. Please give me advice on where to go and why, I also want to know what we can talk about and stuff. If any girls answer please tell me where you would like to go and your age because that might influence your opinion. I'm 18 so think like if you were around my age. Please explain.Where to go on date? Date advice? Please help.?
I'm 26. Some kind of activity that you can both be doing if there are moments of silence. I suggest miniature golf or bowling.
I'm 26. Some kind of activity that you can both be doing if there are moments of silence. I suggest miniature golf or bowling.
First dinner date advice!?
I'm going to lunch with my boyfriend tomorrow and its the first time we've eaten properly together!
Any tips for manners, knife and fork, conversations?!
ThanksFirst dinner date advice!?
manners...
put your napkin in your lap and pull it up to dab after a messy bite
eat with fork and knife and spoon only, do not pick something up with your fingers
do not clean out gunk between your teeth at the table, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom
do not slurp or smack while eating
don't ask to try his food or share yours unless you have brought it up previously (dessert may be a nice exception...nothing says fun like a chocolate cake split two ways)
Knife and fork:
traditional american is cutting with knife in right, fork in left and then switching the fork to eat (don't switch the fork in european eating) but basically just cut small bites that will only take a few chews to swallow, don't clang them against the plate, don't lick them clean...
conversations:
pretty much anything if you are already comfortable talking to each other...stay away from ';gross'; topics like bugs, bodily fluids or noises, etc
if you don't like what he ordered, don't say it in a rude way
lunch dates can be great fun since they are more relaxed than dinner and a good way to get to know someone's more intimate habits (like ice in milk or salt on pizza)
one more tip: don't wear anything you might get freezing cold in, restaurants can be cold and you don't want that to ruin your date
have a great time!First dinner date advice!?
Just BE YOURSELF,laugh,have a good time...
be urself, dont change ur self for no body.
Conversation: 9/11/01
sorry but that is what got me with my guy.
it got into a very deep conversation.
It was %26lt;3
Just make sure you swallow.
Don't order spaghetti! It is really difficult to eat spaghetti without making a mess or having strings hanging out of your mouth. It's ok at home but not in a restaurant unless you've perfected the twirling the fork in the spoon thing.
Seriously relax and enjoy yourself. Cutlery if its formally laid start at the outside and work in. Coverse during the meal about anything you're interested in, but not with your mouth full. If you have a roll you should break it open with your fingers then butter it with a knife. Don't cut it in half. If you order meat on the bone its ok to pick it up with your fingers.
Oh and dont lick the plate!
Hi, ohhhh I used to be terrified of first dinners LOL.
It's really simple, first make sure your dressed in something comfortable otherwise you'll get nowhere. secondly, keep your elbows off the table ( as you already know) and chew with your mouth shut LOL. They're ll the manners you need, for conversation, keep it light, no gory talk or past ex talk as your both eating - talk about things you have in common, good films you've seen, how embarrassing your mum is or ask your boyfriend his favourite football team LOL he'll love you then! Theres no set rule of what to talk about, but it's alweays a start complimenting the restaurant your sat in, that lead your conversation into something
Good Luck
Use utensils, %26amp; a napkin %26amp; chew slowly with your mouth closed. Dont burp.
Just be yourself and enjoy...don't put on airs or behavior that isn't your norm...you both need to learn who each other really is so you'll know if that is really someone you want to be involved with.
Okay,As far as manners that's easy...im assuming since your going out your mom or dad or grandma or someont taught you propper table manners. Use those, and make sureyou wipe your mouth a lot so you wont be covered in food, and take small enough bites that you can speak quiquly after them...also talk about music, it can mean a lot that you can jam to the same song on the way home
Drop the hinter on what he is going to order and know that he is setting the price range. Avoid messy foods or foods that require you to keep you head down. Sit across from him so you can talk face to face.
If u planing to go out with him again... i say u be urself , otherwise u only going make it harder on urself.
If you are nervous about what cutlery to use and all that sort of stuff then just wear something real low cut. Trust me he won't notice anything about how you eat, what you eat or what you gibber on about.
Of course that strategy only works if you got a decent top shelf. If you haven't, then look at the advice other people here are giving you.
.
first things first you dont need advice just be you be comfortable with it have funn
Order something simple like a salad....and maybe a coke and water with a twist of lemon. Its a simple meal....you dont have to worry about it being messy while eating ...and you will still be able to focus on him at the same time. Other than that just be yourself....talk about work,the weather,tv programs you watch,movies that are out now....regular stuff.
Do not eat broccoli it gets in your teeth.
Do not talk with your mouth full.
Keep the convo light and funny.
Don't use a fork for the soup but otherwise than that enjoy your meal!
No panites and wear some sandals and kick them off during the meal and use your toes to grab his thing and massage it gently!
Any tips for manners, knife and fork, conversations?!
ThanksFirst dinner date advice!?
manners...
put your napkin in your lap and pull it up to dab after a messy bite
eat with fork and knife and spoon only, do not pick something up with your fingers
do not clean out gunk between your teeth at the table, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom
do not slurp or smack while eating
don't ask to try his food or share yours unless you have brought it up previously (dessert may be a nice exception...nothing says fun like a chocolate cake split two ways)
Knife and fork:
traditional american is cutting with knife in right, fork in left and then switching the fork to eat (don't switch the fork in european eating) but basically just cut small bites that will only take a few chews to swallow, don't clang them against the plate, don't lick them clean...
conversations:
pretty much anything if you are already comfortable talking to each other...stay away from ';gross'; topics like bugs, bodily fluids or noises, etc
if you don't like what he ordered, don't say it in a rude way
lunch dates can be great fun since they are more relaxed than dinner and a good way to get to know someone's more intimate habits (like ice in milk or salt on pizza)
one more tip: don't wear anything you might get freezing cold in, restaurants can be cold and you don't want that to ruin your date
have a great time!First dinner date advice!?
Just BE YOURSELF,laugh,have a good time...
be urself, dont change ur self for no body.
Conversation: 9/11/01
sorry but that is what got me with my guy.
it got into a very deep conversation.
It was %26lt;3
Just make sure you swallow.
Don't order spaghetti! It is really difficult to eat spaghetti without making a mess or having strings hanging out of your mouth. It's ok at home but not in a restaurant unless you've perfected the twirling the fork in the spoon thing.
Seriously relax and enjoy yourself. Cutlery if its formally laid start at the outside and work in. Coverse during the meal about anything you're interested in, but not with your mouth full. If you have a roll you should break it open with your fingers then butter it with a knife. Don't cut it in half. If you order meat on the bone its ok to pick it up with your fingers.
Oh and dont lick the plate!
Hi, ohhhh I used to be terrified of first dinners LOL.
It's really simple, first make sure your dressed in something comfortable otherwise you'll get nowhere. secondly, keep your elbows off the table ( as you already know) and chew with your mouth shut LOL. They're ll the manners you need, for conversation, keep it light, no gory talk or past ex talk as your both eating - talk about things you have in common, good films you've seen, how embarrassing your mum is or ask your boyfriend his favourite football team LOL he'll love you then! Theres no set rule of what to talk about, but it's alweays a start complimenting the restaurant your sat in, that lead your conversation into something
Good Luck
Use utensils, %26amp; a napkin %26amp; chew slowly with your mouth closed. Dont burp.
Just be yourself and enjoy...don't put on airs or behavior that isn't your norm...you both need to learn who each other really is so you'll know if that is really someone you want to be involved with.
Okay,As far as manners that's easy...im assuming since your going out your mom or dad or grandma or someont taught you propper table manners. Use those, and make sureyou wipe your mouth a lot so you wont be covered in food, and take small enough bites that you can speak quiquly after them...also talk about music, it can mean a lot that you can jam to the same song on the way home
Drop the hinter on what he is going to order and know that he is setting the price range. Avoid messy foods or foods that require you to keep you head down. Sit across from him so you can talk face to face.
If u planing to go out with him again... i say u be urself , otherwise u only going make it harder on urself.
If you are nervous about what cutlery to use and all that sort of stuff then just wear something real low cut. Trust me he won't notice anything about how you eat, what you eat or what you gibber on about.
Of course that strategy only works if you got a decent top shelf. If you haven't, then look at the advice other people here are giving you.
.
first things first you dont need advice just be you be comfortable with it have funn
Order something simple like a salad....and maybe a coke and water with a twist of lemon. Its a simple meal....you dont have to worry about it being messy while eating ...and you will still be able to focus on him at the same time. Other than that just be yourself....talk about work,the weather,tv programs you watch,movies that are out now....regular stuff.
Do not eat broccoli it gets in your teeth.
Do not talk with your mouth full.
Keep the convo light and funny.
Don't use a fork for the soup but otherwise than that enjoy your meal!
No panites and wear some sandals and kick them off during the meal and use your toes to grab his thing and massage it gently!
NEED WEDDING DATE ADVICE?
I am getting married in Oct 2010 on Friday or Saturday. I want a Saturday wedding but Catholic Churches have mass at 4pm. So the latest I can be married is at 2pm. I will have to much of a time gap between the church and the reception hall which starts at 5:30pm. I do not want guests having to wait around to go to the reception hall.
Does anyone have any advice for me of what to do?NEED WEDDING DATE ADVICE?
Im glad I'm not the only one planning early, although my wedding is december 19th 09...
one option is to have your wedding after the mass or in the morning, you can then have a lunch reception, that would be rushed in prep tho.
is there another catholic church you could use (assuming you are catholic)
if you are not fully religious then find somewhere else to have it.
you could go for the friday night, would it be so bad?
i know its silly superstition and i am personally getting married on a saturday but here is an old wives tale that sort of amused me
Monday for wealth
Tuesday for health
Wednesday the best day of all
Thursday for losses
Friday for crosses
Saturday for no luck at all
good luck sorting this out :)
congrats too :)NEED WEDDING DATE ADVICE?
Why not have an earlier wedding with the reception being a lunch type thing? Or have your wedding at 2 p.m. then start your reception a bit earlier than 5:30. If you're planning this far out I doubt the hall is even rented or reserved, so you have time to play with the idea. No one ever said a wedding has to be on a saturday evening. You can, in reality, do any day of the week. Good luck.
make a check list so that you will not forget anything...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpJH3DK_V鈥?/a>
I wish all brides were so considerate! There is nothing worse than having to wait around for several hours - especially if you don;t know the town very well or it is too far to travel back home.
Perhaps you could have the wedding at the time as planned and open the reception hall for say 4pm for a bit of a happy hour/cocktail food and so on. You could provide a second photographer to take photos of everyone there and get them to write in a guest book.
If you are feeling really creative you could even supply other relaxing things - maybe hire some beauty students from a local school to give out foot massages things like that.
Its not up to you what your guests do!!!!!!!
i am having my ceremony at 12pm, going away for photos and the reception starts at 430pm but me and the bridal party + hubby will be there at approx 530.
Its not up to you what your guests do!!!!
In the time the guests are starting at 430 there is an open bar and canapes going around.
DONT WORRY ABOUT THE OTHER GUESTS, THEY WILL GO BAK TO THEIR rooms or find something to do whilst your getting your pictures done etc.
You are being very considerate...thinking about your guests and not only yourself on your big day! Congratulations not many brides do.
You could see if you could find a place that could serve drinks and finger foods not too far from your reception place.
My sister attended a wedding recently where the couple hired a house not only for their interstate family to stay in but also for those people who wanted to have ';drinks and nibbles'; before the reception started. Not all guests went back but those that did thoroughly enjoyed themselves...it was like a pre-reception just without the bride and groom. They had cousins and aunts welcoming everyone and it went done a treat.
But if you can't find anything close or can't afford to do such a thing people do understand and will make their own arrangements. After all they get plenty of notice and you could always put a note in the invitation about any 'places of interest' in the immediate area.
Good luck with your organising, hope all goes well. Most of all don't stress.
have a friday wedding unless you are dead set onsaturday. obviously the church isn't going to move mass, and you can't change the rules of your venue. ...
to the first poster, who wats to drive to a wedding, drive to a house for punch, then drive to a reception hall for everything else???
designate a house to go to with refreshments for them to hang out at.
Have a cocktail hour somewhere between the wedding and the reception.
Does anyone have any advice for me of what to do?NEED WEDDING DATE ADVICE?
Im glad I'm not the only one planning early, although my wedding is december 19th 09...
one option is to have your wedding after the mass or in the morning, you can then have a lunch reception, that would be rushed in prep tho.
is there another catholic church you could use (assuming you are catholic)
if you are not fully religious then find somewhere else to have it.
you could go for the friday night, would it be so bad?
i know its silly superstition and i am personally getting married on a saturday but here is an old wives tale that sort of amused me
Monday for wealth
Tuesday for health
Wednesday the best day of all
Thursday for losses
Friday for crosses
Saturday for no luck at all
good luck sorting this out :)
congrats too :)NEED WEDDING DATE ADVICE?
Why not have an earlier wedding with the reception being a lunch type thing? Or have your wedding at 2 p.m. then start your reception a bit earlier than 5:30. If you're planning this far out I doubt the hall is even rented or reserved, so you have time to play with the idea. No one ever said a wedding has to be on a saturday evening. You can, in reality, do any day of the week. Good luck.
make a check list so that you will not forget anything...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpJH3DK_V鈥?/a>
I wish all brides were so considerate! There is nothing worse than having to wait around for several hours - especially if you don;t know the town very well or it is too far to travel back home.
Perhaps you could have the wedding at the time as planned and open the reception hall for say 4pm for a bit of a happy hour/cocktail food and so on. You could provide a second photographer to take photos of everyone there and get them to write in a guest book.
If you are feeling really creative you could even supply other relaxing things - maybe hire some beauty students from a local school to give out foot massages things like that.
Its not up to you what your guests do!!!!!!!
i am having my ceremony at 12pm, going away for photos and the reception starts at 430pm but me and the bridal party + hubby will be there at approx 530.
Its not up to you what your guests do!!!!
In the time the guests are starting at 430 there is an open bar and canapes going around.
DONT WORRY ABOUT THE OTHER GUESTS, THEY WILL GO BAK TO THEIR rooms or find something to do whilst your getting your pictures done etc.
You are being very considerate...thinking about your guests and not only yourself on your big day! Congratulations not many brides do.
You could see if you could find a place that could serve drinks and finger foods not too far from your reception place.
My sister attended a wedding recently where the couple hired a house not only for their interstate family to stay in but also for those people who wanted to have ';drinks and nibbles'; before the reception started. Not all guests went back but those that did thoroughly enjoyed themselves...it was like a pre-reception just without the bride and groom. They had cousins and aunts welcoming everyone and it went done a treat.
But if you can't find anything close or can't afford to do such a thing people do understand and will make their own arrangements. After all they get plenty of notice and you could always put a note in the invitation about any 'places of interest' in the immediate area.
Good luck with your organising, hope all goes well. Most of all don't stress.
have a friday wedding unless you are dead set onsaturday. obviously the church isn't going to move mass, and you can't change the rules of your venue. ...
to the first poster, who wats to drive to a wedding, drive to a house for punch, then drive to a reception hall for everything else???
designate a house to go to with refreshments for them to hang out at.
Have a cocktail hour somewhere between the wedding and the reception.
Is it possible for an adult to get dating advice from a teenage since the adult has never managed to do it?
My step nephew has a girlfriend it seems, I have never managed it. (I have social anxiety disorder mixed with Asperger's Syndrome, not a good combination.)Is it possible for an adult to get dating advice from a teenage since the adult has never managed to do it?
I would suggest that you deal with one situation at a time. Develop coping skills to manage your social anxiety disorder and then move on to dating. Mature teens will have good advice for other teens, but if you want a mature adult outlook, seek advice from a mature adult.
I would suggest that you deal with one situation at a time. Develop coping skills to manage your social anxiety disorder and then move on to dating. Mature teens will have good advice for other teens, but if you want a mature adult outlook, seek advice from a mature adult.
Very first date advice?
im going to a movie. i dont rly know what i should do. i know i should offer to pay for my ticket. but im just rly nervous!!!!!!!!!! what should i do?Very first date advice?
be yourself....best way to continue for a long loving relationship. Very first date advice?
If he asked you then he should pay for your ticket, but its always nice to offer to buy the popcorn or candy. If you both agreed to go to the movie together then its not so much a date as an outing and you can pay your own way.
I hope that helps
giirrrrrrrllll if you wanna be gettin da business u gotta be given da business, dont be offerin to pay dat ticket wit money, make him pay then u pay him back wit love girl. it may be yo first date, but it wont be da last if u give him da business. dont be nervous just do yo thingggg gurl
YAYAY
--LaTeesha--
well one important thing i realised was that you just have to go with the flow..
it seems scary but just go and have fun and be ur self because that's all you need 2 do ..
just make sure you brush your teeth b4 ;)
heyy....watch out with what you eat..its not hot to have stuff in yur teeth!!!! if yur so nervous try makin it a group date its way easier if yur hangin with yur buds. it depends on how old u r 4 da rest!!!!!!!!!!!oil companies
be yourself....best way to continue for a long loving relationship. Very first date advice?
If he asked you then he should pay for your ticket, but its always nice to offer to buy the popcorn or candy. If you both agreed to go to the movie together then its not so much a date as an outing and you can pay your own way.
I hope that helps
giirrrrrrrllll if you wanna be gettin da business u gotta be given da business, dont be offerin to pay dat ticket wit money, make him pay then u pay him back wit love girl. it may be yo first date, but it wont be da last if u give him da business. dont be nervous just do yo thingggg gurl
YAYAY
--LaTeesha--
well one important thing i realised was that you just have to go with the flow..
it seems scary but just go and have fun and be ur self because that's all you need 2 do ..
just make sure you brush your teeth b4 ;)
heyy....watch out with what you eat..its not hot to have stuff in yur teeth!!!! if yur so nervous try makin it a group date its way easier if yur hangin with yur buds. it depends on how old u r 4 da rest!!!!!!!!!!!
A first date advice?
I am about to take out a very wonderful lady. I truly wish to impress this lady. We are in our late 20s and I am not interested in going to a club. I am going to start with dinner, then I thought about miniature golf, then hopefully I can get some pointers on other activities to keep our night fun. I don't want to seem like a stuffed shirt on our first date. This both of our first dates after divorce, so being that I do like her, I would love to do right on our first date, so maybe there will be a second. Yes it has been years since I have been out on a date. So anything worth while will be appreciated. ThanksA first date advice?
Complement her and make her laugh!!!A first date advice?
I know this is an old cliche, but be yourself.
enjoy yourself, if you look nervous or speechless, that lady will be so bored. share your interest, have funny jokes, if she laugh enough, you get the point, just move on guy!
If you are both coming from a divorce it's best to keep things light and relaxed. Dinner and mini golf is definitely a fun way to start off the night. If things are going well and you are enjoying eachothers company maybe you can go for ice cream afterwords and a nice walk or hit up a nice, low key bar for a glass of wine.
make sure you hit that dude
Well, since it is your first dates, you want to do something that will keep you talking and not get too close. I bet she would appreciate taking it slow. Mini golf is good, maybe go kart racing, it's fun and gets the excitement up so it'll also get the comfort levels up. hands on activities like the zoo or childrens museum are fun, when it's just adults they can have a new perspective and just let lose.
well, i think you guys should talk. like serious talk before ending ur activities, thats the best thing that can happen on a first date. knowing you date more
Complement her and make her laugh!!!A first date advice?
I know this is an old cliche, but be yourself.
enjoy yourself, if you look nervous or speechless, that lady will be so bored. share your interest, have funny jokes, if she laugh enough, you get the point, just move on guy!
If you are both coming from a divorce it's best to keep things light and relaxed. Dinner and mini golf is definitely a fun way to start off the night. If things are going well and you are enjoying eachothers company maybe you can go for ice cream afterwords and a nice walk or hit up a nice, low key bar for a glass of wine.
make sure you hit that dude
Well, since it is your first dates, you want to do something that will keep you talking and not get too close. I bet she would appreciate taking it slow. Mini golf is good, maybe go kart racing, it's fun and gets the excitement up so it'll also get the comfort levels up. hands on activities like the zoo or childrens museum are fun, when it's just adults they can have a new perspective and just let lose.
well, i think you guys should talk. like serious talk before ending ur activities, thats the best thing that can happen on a first date. knowing you date more
Girls: I need some first date advice?
I think that I will b dating this girl. Neither of us have dated before - she's 16, I'm 15 (yeah, we are kind of late bloomers). She is really pretty and I go weak at the knees when I see her and she is easily the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I wanted to tell her this on our first date but I don't know how to. I just need some advice on how to do this because I'm going to be nervous and I want to flatter her and I want her to know that i'm a sweet guy. Also, I wanted to know if it is okay to kiss her on the first date? And if we do kiss should i give her a light kiss on the lips or a gentle peck on the cheeck?Girls: I need some first date advice?
a peck on the cheek dont rush things and always carry breathmints we dont like it when our date smells like hell.....and always look in er eyes no where else.....otherwise she will think you are just using her for her body and always offer her food like do you want ice cream or pizza have like $100 in your [ocket just for emerganceys......always compliment her make her feel special and be flity....!
hope i helped.....=)
byeeGirls: I need some first date advice?
Relax. Be yourself. The end.
a peck on the cheek dont rush things and always carry breathmints we dont like it when our date smells like hell.....and always look in er eyes no where else.....otherwise she will think you are just using her for her body and always offer her food like do you want ice cream or pizza have like $100 in your [ocket just for emerganceys......always compliment her make her feel special and be flity....!
hope i helped.....=)
byeeGirls: I need some first date advice?
Relax. Be yourself. The end.
1st date advice ladies?
I am on my 1st date, and i am 15. What should we talk about? How should i bring it up? Were should we go? How do i not look like a lame?1st date advice ladies?
aww your cute! ha aright........
personally one of the BEST dates I have ever been on was with my ex bf. I'm 18 and so most people think expensive dinners and **** is good but I don't look for things like that and it actually makes me unconformable and I guss my ex new that at the time. needless to say we went to Chuck-e-cheese at he bought like 500 tokens and we split them. At 1st I was horrified to think i'm 18 and playing at chuck-e-cheese this sucks! but it brought back so many memories from when I was younger...we played all the games and had a blast! at the end he asked me if it was okay if he gave the tickets to a kid and of course it was fine with me and that's what he did. It showed how caring he was and I really loved that. We later went out for pizza and walked around a park near there and just talked until sunset. It was sooo romantic.
Now you don't have to do the whole chuck-e-cheese thing lol but Jillians or Dave and Busters would work just as well :] it's a cute and cheap way to have a lot of fun and be inside if it's crappy out. Plus who doesn't like that stuff...and think about it....there wont be to many awkward moments considering you will both be playing the games...so more laughing will be done then awkward silence and then you have something to talk about during dinner :]
I hoped that helped...it was just some insight. g/l :]1st date advice ladies?
REALLY! woot :] I am glad it was helpful and I'm glad it went well :]
Good question. I know the feeling myself and I asked myself the exact same question. OK, I'm not an expert on love and all that it implies, but I will tell you some common sense tools. First and foremost, hygiene/cleanliness. My mom tells me all the time to wash and be clean (because, like most of us teens, our bodies smell the worst in our lives) so I can look decent. If you have the same problem, find a good anti-perspirant/deodorant or either one separately. Anti-perspirant means that it will fight and/or block any sweat (or perspiration, hence the name) that comes from the armpits. Deodorant basically takes away the odor. I suggest getting Sure, Mitchum or Degree due to the high level of Aluminum Zirconium Tetrachlorohydrex (which is the active ingredient in these products, encompassing around 15-20% of the product, which is what you need for the problem of body odor). Second, the age issue. You're 15 and the girl could be older (which is no problem unless she has some issues). Don't let age be a stumbler in any sort of date. Third, topics. I would suggest asking the girl what she wants to talk about. Women feel more respected when they are listened to (I know, most of my life and in my family are women). If she has nothing to say, then you bring up something. Fourth, how you should bring it up is to do it in a nice but respectful manner. Don't be too serious or too nervous; women can almost always sense this. Fifth, where you should go to is to a nice restaurant. First, before you go to any place, ask her what food she likes. If it matches your food preferences, then ok. If not, then at least you could try out something new. Don't EVER do two things: go to a place YOU like and automatically assume that she likes it and don't take her to a fast-food joint (i.e. McDonald's), unless she likes fast food. When you go, you should dress formal or formal/casual. I find that going straight casual kind of ruins a date, but maybe that's just me. It could do it fo you. Hopefully, with luck and time, the girl might want you to be her boyfriend. Now here's a catch: NEVER, EVER assume that just because she accepts you as a b/f that you can have sex with her. Many a boy (and girl) do that and end up being parents at a young age. It may sound absurd, but I'm warning you now as a precaution. I hope my tips help you. These are really just simple tips mixed in with my own experiences (which are few and far between, but are there just the same). I hope that whoever you'll be with stays with you a long time. God Bless!
Just be you and tell him/her its your 1st date so he/she will understand. 1st dates usually take place at the movies then at a place to eat. Ask her/him what movie they like and kind of food. Talk about what you want to be when your older and whats going on in your life. To bring it up just say ';So what do you want to be when you grow up?'; or ';So whats going on?'; you wont look lame. I promise you that ;D
Calm down. You should talk about aanything and have a few jokes ready to fill in those awkward moments and break the ice. Just go along with what she says. byt make sure you are actually listening. Nod your head and pay attention. when you get a chance to speak take it dont make her do all the talking. Dont take her to a bowling alley with your friends that says you are not serious. You can take her to a movie and then just hang out or go to a restraunt but remember the night is all about her. Just be yourself.
okay well im fifteen too so basically heres what you should do:
go to the movies and maybe somewhere casual for dinner if you want
if you dont go to dinner then you dont have to worry about conversation too much. basically ask her how her hobbies/sports are going? dont be cheesy at all! when the previews are playing you can make conversation about those. once the movie starts put the arm rest up and put your arm her. take the initiative cause i know i like when a guy makes the first move. dont be scared that she wont want it cause she will. and actually wrap your arm fully around her dont just limp it around her shoulder. when sweet parts come up in the movie take your free hand and hold hands with her. play with her fingers a little bit if your comfortable. theres nothing better than a guy that makes you fell comfortable so dont be shy! hope your date goes well(:
for a first date go to the movies. dinner can be so awkward if you're not quite comfortable around each other yet. let her pick the movie too don't pick something she'll hate! and just take her for ice cream or something after, and you'll have the movie to talk about. talk about yourselves and school and all that bu don't talk to much about yourself!
talk about what you like, what she likes. try to keep it intersting. talk to them like they're your bestfriend. make sure you give a couple compliments too. try not to bring up sex though. could scare them away. haha and just dress nicely but dont over do it too much. just relax and have a good time. a first date is all about having fun, getting to know eachother and becoming closer.
-talk about stuff about you without being too open and ask stuff about her.
-well,go to a place where people socialize. not the movies.
-play it cool,don't look so eager,don't talk too much or too fast, break awkward silences, make her laugh, %26amp; smile:)
go to dinner then a movie, do not kiss her in the theatre. its only the first date. talk to her about funny stuff at school.
just be your effin self
he's going out with you because your yourself
so why change?
What does she like?
aww your cute! ha aright........
personally one of the BEST dates I have ever been on was with my ex bf. I'm 18 and so most people think expensive dinners and **** is good but I don't look for things like that and it actually makes me unconformable and I guss my ex new that at the time. needless to say we went to Chuck-e-cheese at he bought like 500 tokens and we split them. At 1st I was horrified to think i'm 18 and playing at chuck-e-cheese this sucks! but it brought back so many memories from when I was younger...we played all the games and had a blast! at the end he asked me if it was okay if he gave the tickets to a kid and of course it was fine with me and that's what he did. It showed how caring he was and I really loved that. We later went out for pizza and walked around a park near there and just talked until sunset. It was sooo romantic.
Now you don't have to do the whole chuck-e-cheese thing lol but Jillians or Dave and Busters would work just as well :] it's a cute and cheap way to have a lot of fun and be inside if it's crappy out. Plus who doesn't like that stuff...and think about it....there wont be to many awkward moments considering you will both be playing the games...so more laughing will be done then awkward silence and then you have something to talk about during dinner :]
I hoped that helped...it was just some insight. g/l :]1st date advice ladies?
REALLY! woot :] I am glad it was helpful and I'm glad it went well :]
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Good question. I know the feeling myself and I asked myself the exact same question. OK, I'm not an expert on love and all that it implies, but I will tell you some common sense tools. First and foremost, hygiene/cleanliness. My mom tells me all the time to wash and be clean (because, like most of us teens, our bodies smell the worst in our lives) so I can look decent. If you have the same problem, find a good anti-perspirant/deodorant or either one separately. Anti-perspirant means that it will fight and/or block any sweat (or perspiration, hence the name) that comes from the armpits. Deodorant basically takes away the odor. I suggest getting Sure, Mitchum or Degree due to the high level of Aluminum Zirconium Tetrachlorohydrex (which is the active ingredient in these products, encompassing around 15-20% of the product, which is what you need for the problem of body odor). Second, the age issue. You're 15 and the girl could be older (which is no problem unless she has some issues). Don't let age be a stumbler in any sort of date. Third, topics. I would suggest asking the girl what she wants to talk about. Women feel more respected when they are listened to (I know, most of my life and in my family are women). If she has nothing to say, then you bring up something. Fourth, how you should bring it up is to do it in a nice but respectful manner. Don't be too serious or too nervous; women can almost always sense this. Fifth, where you should go to is to a nice restaurant. First, before you go to any place, ask her what food she likes. If it matches your food preferences, then ok. If not, then at least you could try out something new. Don't EVER do two things: go to a place YOU like and automatically assume that she likes it and don't take her to a fast-food joint (i.e. McDonald's), unless she likes fast food. When you go, you should dress formal or formal/casual. I find that going straight casual kind of ruins a date, but maybe that's just me. It could do it fo you. Hopefully, with luck and time, the girl might want you to be her boyfriend. Now here's a catch: NEVER, EVER assume that just because she accepts you as a b/f that you can have sex with her. Many a boy (and girl) do that and end up being parents at a young age. It may sound absurd, but I'm warning you now as a precaution. I hope my tips help you. These are really just simple tips mixed in with my own experiences (which are few and far between, but are there just the same). I hope that whoever you'll be with stays with you a long time. God Bless!
Just be you and tell him/her its your 1st date so he/she will understand. 1st dates usually take place at the movies then at a place to eat. Ask her/him what movie they like and kind of food. Talk about what you want to be when your older and whats going on in your life. To bring it up just say ';So what do you want to be when you grow up?'; or ';So whats going on?'; you wont look lame. I promise you that ;D
Calm down. You should talk about aanything and have a few jokes ready to fill in those awkward moments and break the ice. Just go along with what she says. byt make sure you are actually listening. Nod your head and pay attention. when you get a chance to speak take it dont make her do all the talking. Dont take her to a bowling alley with your friends that says you are not serious. You can take her to a movie and then just hang out or go to a restraunt but remember the night is all about her. Just be yourself.
okay well im fifteen too so basically heres what you should do:
go to the movies and maybe somewhere casual for dinner if you want
if you dont go to dinner then you dont have to worry about conversation too much. basically ask her how her hobbies/sports are going? dont be cheesy at all! when the previews are playing you can make conversation about those. once the movie starts put the arm rest up and put your arm her. take the initiative cause i know i like when a guy makes the first move. dont be scared that she wont want it cause she will. and actually wrap your arm fully around her dont just limp it around her shoulder. when sweet parts come up in the movie take your free hand and hold hands with her. play with her fingers a little bit if your comfortable. theres nothing better than a guy that makes you fell comfortable so dont be shy! hope your date goes well(:
for a first date go to the movies. dinner can be so awkward if you're not quite comfortable around each other yet. let her pick the movie too don't pick something she'll hate! and just take her for ice cream or something after, and you'll have the movie to talk about. talk about yourselves and school and all that bu don't talk to much about yourself!
talk about what you like, what she likes. try to keep it intersting. talk to them like they're your bestfriend. make sure you give a couple compliments too. try not to bring up sex though. could scare them away. haha and just dress nicely but dont over do it too much. just relax and have a good time. a first date is all about having fun, getting to know eachother and becoming closer.
-talk about stuff about you without being too open and ask stuff about her.
-well,go to a place where people socialize. not the movies.
-play it cool,don't look so eager,don't talk too much or too fast, break awkward silences, make her laugh, %26amp; smile:)
go to dinner then a movie, do not kiss her in the theatre. its only the first date. talk to her about funny stuff at school.
just be your effin self
he's going out with you because your yourself
so why change?
What does she like?
1st date advice ladies?
I am on my 1st date, and i am 15. What should we talk about? How should i bring it up? Were should we go? How do i not look like a lame?1st date advice ladies?
aww your cute! ha aright........
personally one of the BEST dates I have ever been on was with my ex bf. I'm 18 and so most people think expensive dinners and **** is good but I don't look for things like that and it actually makes me unconformable and I guss my ex new that at the time. needless to say we went to Chuck-e-cheese at he bought like 500 tokens and we split them. At 1st I was horrified to think i'm 18 and playing at chuck-e-cheese this sucks! but it brought back so many memories from when I was younger...we played all the games and had a blast! at the end he asked me if it was okay if he gave the tickets to a kid and of course it was fine with me and that's what he did. It showed how caring he was and I really loved that. We later went out for pizza and walked around a park near there and just talked until sunset. It was sooo romantic.
Now you don't have to do the whole chuck-e-cheese thing lol but Jillians or Dave and Busters would work just as well :] it's a cute and cheap way to have a lot of fun and be inside if it's crappy out. Plus who doesn't like that stuff...and think about it....there wont be to many awkward moments considering you will both be playing the games...so more laughing will be done then awkward silence and then you have something to talk about during dinner :]
I hoped that helped...it was just some insight. g/l :]1st date advice ladies?
REALLY! woot :] I am glad it was helpful and I'm glad it went well :]
Good question. I know the feeling myself and I asked myself the exact same question. OK, I'm not an expert on love and all that it implies, but I will tell you some common sense tools. First and foremost, hygiene/cleanliness. My mom tells me all the time to wash and be clean (because, like most of us teens, our bodies smell the worst in our lives) so I can look decent. If you have the same problem, find a good anti-perspirant/deodorant or either one separately. Anti-perspirant means that it will fight and/or block any sweat (or perspiration, hence the name) that comes from the armpits. Deodorant basically takes away the odor. I suggest getting Sure, Mitchum or Degree due to the high level of Aluminum Zirconium Tetrachlorohydrex (which is the active ingredient in these products, encompassing around 15-20% of the product, which is what you need for the problem of body odor). Second, the age issue. You're 15 and the girl could be older (which is no problem unless she has some issues). Don't let age be a stumbler in any sort of date. Third, topics. I would suggest asking the girl what she wants to talk about. Women feel more respected when they are listened to (I know, most of my life and in my family are women). If she has nothing to say, then you bring up something. Fourth, how you should bring it up is to do it in a nice but respectful manner. Don't be too serious or too nervous; women can almost always sense this. Fifth, where you should go to is to a nice restaurant. First, before you go to any place, ask her what food she likes. If it matches your food preferences, then ok. If not, then at least you could try out something new. Don't EVER do two things: go to a place YOU like and automatically assume that she likes it and don't take her to a fast-food joint (i.e. McDonald's), unless she likes fast food. When you go, you should dress formal or formal/casual. I find that going straight casual kind of ruins a date, but maybe that's just me. It could do it fo you. Hopefully, with luck and time, the girl might want you to be her boyfriend. Now here's a catch: NEVER, EVER assume that just because she accepts you as a b/f that you can have sex with her. Many a boy (and girl) do that and end up being parents at a young age. It may sound absurd, but I'm warning you now as a precaution. I hope my tips help you. These are really just simple tips mixed in with my own experiences (which are few and far between, but are there just the same). I hope that whoever you'll be with stays with you a long time. God Bless!
Just be you and tell him/her its your 1st date so he/she will understand. 1st dates usually take place at the movies then at a place to eat. Ask her/him what movie they like and kind of food. Talk about what you want to be when your older and whats going on in your life. To bring it up just say ';So what do you want to be when you grow up?'; or ';So whats going on?'; you wont look lame. I promise you that ;D
Calm down. You should talk about aanything and have a few jokes ready to fill in those awkward moments and break the ice. Just go along with what she says. byt make sure you are actually listening. Nod your head and pay attention. when you get a chance to speak take it dont make her do all the talking. Dont take her to a bowling alley with your friends that says you are not serious. You can take her to a movie and then just hang out or go to a restraunt but remember the night is all about her. Just be yourself.
okay well im fifteen too so basically heres what you should do:
go to the movies and maybe somewhere casual for dinner if you want
if you dont go to dinner then you dont have to worry about conversation too much. basically ask her how her hobbies/sports are going? dont be cheesy at all! when the previews are playing you can make conversation about those. once the movie starts put the arm rest up and put your arm her. take the initiative cause i know i like when a guy makes the first move. dont be scared that she wont want it cause she will. and actually wrap your arm fully around her dont just limp it around her shoulder. when sweet parts come up in the movie take your free hand and hold hands with her. play with her fingers a little bit if your comfortable. theres nothing better than a guy that makes you fell comfortable so dont be shy! hope your date goes well(:
for a first date go to the movies. dinner can be so awkward if you're not quite comfortable around each other yet. let her pick the movie too don't pick something she'll hate! and just take her for ice cream or something after, and you'll have the movie to talk about. talk about yourselves and school and all that bu don't talk to much about yourself!
talk about what you like, what she likes. try to keep it intersting. talk to them like they're your bestfriend. make sure you give a couple compliments too. try not to bring up sex though. could scare them away. haha and just dress nicely but dont over do it too much. just relax and have a good time. a first date is all about having fun, getting to know eachother and becoming closer.
-talk about stuff about you without being too open and ask stuff about her.
-well,go to a place where people socialize. not the movies.
-play it cool,don't look so eager,don't talk too much or too fast, break awkward silences, make her laugh, %26amp; smile:)
go to dinner then a movie, do not kiss her in the theatre. its only the first date. talk to her about funny stuff at school.
just be your effin self
he's going out with you because your yourself
so why change?
What does she like?
aww your cute! ha aright........
personally one of the BEST dates I have ever been on was with my ex bf. I'm 18 and so most people think expensive dinners and **** is good but I don't look for things like that and it actually makes me unconformable and I guss my ex new that at the time. needless to say we went to Chuck-e-cheese at he bought like 500 tokens and we split them. At 1st I was horrified to think i'm 18 and playing at chuck-e-cheese this sucks! but it brought back so many memories from when I was younger...we played all the games and had a blast! at the end he asked me if it was okay if he gave the tickets to a kid and of course it was fine with me and that's what he did. It showed how caring he was and I really loved that. We later went out for pizza and walked around a park near there and just talked until sunset. It was sooo romantic.
Now you don't have to do the whole chuck-e-cheese thing lol but Jillians or Dave and Busters would work just as well :] it's a cute and cheap way to have a lot of fun and be inside if it's crappy out. Plus who doesn't like that stuff...and think about it....there wont be to many awkward moments considering you will both be playing the games...so more laughing will be done then awkward silence and then you have something to talk about during dinner :]
I hoped that helped...it was just some insight. g/l :]1st date advice ladies?
REALLY! woot :] I am glad it was helpful and I'm glad it went well :]
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Good question. I know the feeling myself and I asked myself the exact same question. OK, I'm not an expert on love and all that it implies, but I will tell you some common sense tools. First and foremost, hygiene/cleanliness. My mom tells me all the time to wash and be clean (because, like most of us teens, our bodies smell the worst in our lives) so I can look decent. If you have the same problem, find a good anti-perspirant/deodorant or either one separately. Anti-perspirant means that it will fight and/or block any sweat (or perspiration, hence the name) that comes from the armpits. Deodorant basically takes away the odor. I suggest getting Sure, Mitchum or Degree due to the high level of Aluminum Zirconium Tetrachlorohydrex (which is the active ingredient in these products, encompassing around 15-20% of the product, which is what you need for the problem of body odor). Second, the age issue. You're 15 and the girl could be older (which is no problem unless she has some issues). Don't let age be a stumbler in any sort of date. Third, topics. I would suggest asking the girl what she wants to talk about. Women feel more respected when they are listened to (I know, most of my life and in my family are women). If she has nothing to say, then you bring up something. Fourth, how you should bring it up is to do it in a nice but respectful manner. Don't be too serious or too nervous; women can almost always sense this. Fifth, where you should go to is to a nice restaurant. First, before you go to any place, ask her what food she likes. If it matches your food preferences, then ok. If not, then at least you could try out something new. Don't EVER do two things: go to a place YOU like and automatically assume that she likes it and don't take her to a fast-food joint (i.e. McDonald's), unless she likes fast food. When you go, you should dress formal or formal/casual. I find that going straight casual kind of ruins a date, but maybe that's just me. It could do it fo you. Hopefully, with luck and time, the girl might want you to be her boyfriend. Now here's a catch: NEVER, EVER assume that just because she accepts you as a b/f that you can have sex with her. Many a boy (and girl) do that and end up being parents at a young age. It may sound absurd, but I'm warning you now as a precaution. I hope my tips help you. These are really just simple tips mixed in with my own experiences (which are few and far between, but are there just the same). I hope that whoever you'll be with stays with you a long time. God Bless!
Just be you and tell him/her its your 1st date so he/she will understand. 1st dates usually take place at the movies then at a place to eat. Ask her/him what movie they like and kind of food. Talk about what you want to be when your older and whats going on in your life. To bring it up just say ';So what do you want to be when you grow up?'; or ';So whats going on?'; you wont look lame. I promise you that ;D
Calm down. You should talk about aanything and have a few jokes ready to fill in those awkward moments and break the ice. Just go along with what she says. byt make sure you are actually listening. Nod your head and pay attention. when you get a chance to speak take it dont make her do all the talking. Dont take her to a bowling alley with your friends that says you are not serious. You can take her to a movie and then just hang out or go to a restraunt but remember the night is all about her. Just be yourself.
okay well im fifteen too so basically heres what you should do:
go to the movies and maybe somewhere casual for dinner if you want
if you dont go to dinner then you dont have to worry about conversation too much. basically ask her how her hobbies/sports are going? dont be cheesy at all! when the previews are playing you can make conversation about those. once the movie starts put the arm rest up and put your arm her. take the initiative cause i know i like when a guy makes the first move. dont be scared that she wont want it cause she will. and actually wrap your arm fully around her dont just limp it around her shoulder. when sweet parts come up in the movie take your free hand and hold hands with her. play with her fingers a little bit if your comfortable. theres nothing better than a guy that makes you fell comfortable so dont be shy! hope your date goes well(:
for a first date go to the movies. dinner can be so awkward if you're not quite comfortable around each other yet. let her pick the movie too don't pick something she'll hate! and just take her for ice cream or something after, and you'll have the movie to talk about. talk about yourselves and school and all that bu don't talk to much about yourself!
talk about what you like, what she likes. try to keep it intersting. talk to them like they're your bestfriend. make sure you give a couple compliments too. try not to bring up sex though. could scare them away. haha and just dress nicely but dont over do it too much. just relax and have a good time. a first date is all about having fun, getting to know eachother and becoming closer.
-talk about stuff about you without being too open and ask stuff about her.
-well,go to a place where people socialize. not the movies.
-play it cool,don't look so eager,don't talk too much or too fast, break awkward silences, make her laugh, %26amp; smile:)
go to dinner then a movie, do not kiss her in the theatre. its only the first date. talk to her about funny stuff at school.
just be your effin self
he's going out with you because your yourself
so why change?
What does she like?
Dating advice on how to get a woman please?
I'm looking to try and get myself a girlfreind, I'm currently 15 and ever since adolescents has hit me I have had a really huge interest in females, so i wish to find a girlfriend now. But due to my shyness of the fairer sex. I need advice and best ways to approach a future girlfreind.Dating advice on how to get a woman please?
get involve in activities,meet new people(they might have the girl your looking for),try being friendly to girls or a girl,try talking to them(you can start my saying hi my name is ...).hope that helped.Dating advice on how to get a woman please?
Start talking to girls... every girl you meet increases the odds even if you don't find her attractive she's bound to have friends. It may help if you start out with having guys with you when talking to girls.. it'll make you feel less awkward... then give them your attention and look interested in what they are talking about
lol. The way you worded your question is kinda funny.
Okay, well one way to ';get girls'; is to get involved.
Since school is out for summer, that's out.
You could try doing some volunteer work.
You could meet tons of cool people (i.e. girls) %26amp; you'll also be doing it for school too.
It's all in the confidence and how you carry yourself...
Having a good sense of humor and a positive view for life helps a lot.
So no matter how insecure and shy you are inside never show that...just act cool confident and strong.. and also a gentleman
Step 1: Stop being a socially awkward nerd.
Step 2: Talk to girls.
get involve in activities,meet new people(they might have the girl your looking for),try being friendly to girls or a girl,try talking to them(you can start my saying hi my name is ...).hope that helped.Dating advice on how to get a woman please?
Start talking to girls... every girl you meet increases the odds even if you don't find her attractive she's bound to have friends. It may help if you start out with having guys with you when talking to girls.. it'll make you feel less awkward... then give them your attention and look interested in what they are talking about
lol. The way you worded your question is kinda funny.
Okay, well one way to ';get girls'; is to get involved.
Since school is out for summer, that's out.
You could try doing some volunteer work.
You could meet tons of cool people (i.e. girls) %26amp; you'll also be doing it for school too.
It's all in the confidence and how you carry yourself...
Having a good sense of humor and a positive view for life helps a lot.
So no matter how insecure and shy you are inside never show that...just act cool confident and strong.. and also a gentleman
Step 1: Stop being a socially awkward nerd.
Step 2: Talk to girls.
Second date advice needed?
I met this girl at a bar and she gave me her number and she's cute and I like her. We kissed a little and I called her this week and she seems interested in seeing me again but I don't know where to take her. I can really use some advice because I'm in a band and don't usually see girls more than once. Can anyone help me with ideas on what plans to make so I can see her again? Not related but my close friends call me Varg.Second date advice needed?
hey i don't have any advice but wow varg you're a legend i feel honoured to appear on the same webpage as youoil companies
hey i don't have any advice but wow varg you're a legend i feel honoured to appear on the same webpage as you
I need some dating advice from single mothers?
I met this Single mom online she's really wild, a hot little number and I think she might actually be the one for me. But I don't know the first thing about children and she already has 2 kids and she is pregnant
i'm not really the best at this whole dating thing can I get some solid advice?I need some dating advice from single mothers?
get to know mom first. when you are comfortable with her, ask if it's ok to have a ';date'; with the kids involved too. get to know the children. most often just being around children kick your instincts into gear. you may have to wing it for a little bit, but things should come naturally to you. the most important thing though is to take time. i was a single mom for about 4 years and last year got into a relationship. we're doing wonderfully, it helped that he has kids as well, but that's a whole nother story. i'm sure if you just let things happen when they're meant to and not try to rush anything, you guys will be fine. best of luck and i really hope that you all find your true happiness together and become a beautiful family.I need some dating advice from single mothers?
i'm a single mum too - and yeah she's right ^^ her kids come first, dont ask her to choose between her and her kids.
it would be good if u actually take some time to get to know her kids too, she is probably looking for a 'daddy figure' for her kids..
look i am a single mom if you want to date her just know that her kids come first and do not make her choose between you and the kids
i'm not a single mom but I am a bunny and I know a few things and you seem oddly familiar did we meet in a chat room recently ?
i'm not really the best at this whole dating thing can I get some solid advice?I need some dating advice from single mothers?
get to know mom first. when you are comfortable with her, ask if it's ok to have a ';date'; with the kids involved too. get to know the children. most often just being around children kick your instincts into gear. you may have to wing it for a little bit, but things should come naturally to you. the most important thing though is to take time. i was a single mom for about 4 years and last year got into a relationship. we're doing wonderfully, it helped that he has kids as well, but that's a whole nother story. i'm sure if you just let things happen when they're meant to and not try to rush anything, you guys will be fine. best of luck and i really hope that you all find your true happiness together and become a beautiful family.I need some dating advice from single mothers?
i'm a single mum too - and yeah she's right ^^ her kids come first, dont ask her to choose between her and her kids.
it would be good if u actually take some time to get to know her kids too, she is probably looking for a 'daddy figure' for her kids..
look i am a single mom if you want to date her just know that her kids come first and do not make her choose between you and the kids
i'm not a single mom but I am a bunny and I know a few things and you seem oddly familiar did we meet in a chat room recently ?
HELP NEED DATING ADVICE regarding hug from a guy on a date? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
really like a guy. He gave me a hug at the end of our date second date. He started it. But I have not much dating experience and I didnt know what to do. I hugged him back and I was the one to let go. Our cheeks touched and I think he bent his head down to reach my shoulder. I CANT remember where his hands were. I did not press my whole body into his? Was I supposed to? I didnt know that till after the date and I read about all these hug analysis stuff? Is the guy supposed to put his hands on your LOWER back? What is up with all this? All I remember is that he started the hug, and I like being close to him. What else should I do? Did I do anything wrong? What to do to get a kiss? I didnt know any of this stuff beforeHELP NEED DATING ADVICE regarding hug from a guy on a date? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
Don't rush it girl! Let him do the 1st move then acknowledge it if you like him alot :) just relax and chill out enjoy his company.HELP NEED DATING ADVICE regarding hug from a guy on a date? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
sounds like you were playing twister...
left hand green, right foot yellow...
Don't rush it girl! Let him do the 1st move then acknowledge it if you like him alot :) just relax and chill out enjoy his company.HELP NEED DATING ADVICE regarding hug from a guy on a date? Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
sounds like you were playing twister...
left hand green, right foot yellow...
Date advice? how hard to get to play?
when a guy asks you out on the first date how do you act (hard to get wise) compared to before he asked you out? what about the second date? Date advice? how hard to get to play?
In the hard to get way... if you like him that is
When you go out seem really intrested in meeting him and going out, avoid the cinima and let him take you for a meal, go for a meal, have some wine and a nice meal and flirt a little, let him know your intrested, use it as a fact finding date, what does he do, whats his job, does he drive, does he like the things you do, have a fun upbeat converation with some sarcasm aimed to make each other laugh. the end of the meal comes and he pays, offer to pay, he should say no. let him walk you home or drive you home etc and say ive had a really nice time, and he will say 'we should do this again if you would like to that is' you say ill check my diary while smiling at him and then peck on the cheek and quick cuddle then night.
that will have him, hard to get is overated its better to respect yourself, meet him, have a fun time as you would if you were on any date never mind that its the 1st, say good nite and let him know theres a chance of seing you again with the kiss and hug. because he didnt get the propper kiss he is gonna want you, he has nothing to brag about to his mates as all that happened is you said goodnite. that will make him want more. .... onto date 2 : )
In the hard to get way... if you like him that is
When you go out seem really intrested in meeting him and going out, avoid the cinima and let him take you for a meal, go for a meal, have some wine and a nice meal and flirt a little, let him know your intrested, use it as a fact finding date, what does he do, whats his job, does he drive, does he like the things you do, have a fun upbeat converation with some sarcasm aimed to make each other laugh. the end of the meal comes and he pays, offer to pay, he should say no. let him walk you home or drive you home etc and say ive had a really nice time, and he will say 'we should do this again if you would like to that is' you say ill check my diary while smiling at him and then peck on the cheek and quick cuddle then night.
that will have him, hard to get is overated its better to respect yourself, meet him, have a fun time as you would if you were on any date never mind that its the 1st, say good nite and let him know theres a chance of seing you again with the kiss and hug. because he didnt get the propper kiss he is gonna want you, he has nothing to brag about to his mates as all that happened is you said goodnite. that will make him want more. .... onto date 2 : )
I am 38 and about to be single. It has been a while since l have been on a date. Got any advice?
Like I said it has been almost 15 years and I am afraid I might be a little out of practice.I am 38 and about to be single. It has been a while since l have been on a date. Got any advice?
take your time day by day dont settle for second best and remember that there is always someone out there who will love you good luckI am 38 and about to be single. It has been a while since l have been on a date. Got any advice?
Don't rush into it, take your time and find the right guy. Don't think you have to hit the ground running. If and only if you should want to date, but don鈥檛 feel you have to鈥?br>
Bugjjo said to wait at least 3 dates, wait until you are asked, or if it's far enough along you can ask him if he wants to know.
If you enter a relationship with baggage you will leave with it very rapidly. No one wants to hear it, or be compared to...it鈥檚 history.
Dating hasn't changed...
First rule!! never talk about your X on a date. At least wait 3 dates before mentioning it. Focus on today and what your interests are and sound interested and complement!!!
YOU WILL ROCK!!! Good luck!
My sister has been in the same situation and trying to find someone around this area. At this age, everyone is married and the pickin's is slim! She went to match.com, I believe it was, and has met a very nice fellow who lives about 45 minutes away. Of course, you need to be very careful, but it's a useful tool. You can get to know them via internet at first which is easier than a blind date, for sure! I'm sure you'll fall right back into it!
Take your time. It is a BIG mistake to start dating right after divorce. You are not in good emotional shape for that. Take time to nurture your friendships and yourself. Get to know yourself again and try to be independent for a while. You will grow into a person who is ready to take on the world of dating with confidence. If you rush, you will probably just make another mistake! Or you might just cling to who ever you meet so you wont feel lonely--not good!
take your time day by day dont settle for second best and remember that there is always someone out there who will love you good luckI am 38 and about to be single. It has been a while since l have been on a date. Got any advice?
Don't rush into it, take your time and find the right guy. Don't think you have to hit the ground running. If and only if you should want to date, but don鈥檛 feel you have to鈥?br>
Bugjjo said to wait at least 3 dates, wait until you are asked, or if it's far enough along you can ask him if he wants to know.
If you enter a relationship with baggage you will leave with it very rapidly. No one wants to hear it, or be compared to...it鈥檚 history.
Dating hasn't changed...
First rule!! never talk about your X on a date. At least wait 3 dates before mentioning it. Focus on today and what your interests are and sound interested and complement!!!
YOU WILL ROCK!!! Good luck!
My sister has been in the same situation and trying to find someone around this area. At this age, everyone is married and the pickin's is slim! She went to match.com, I believe it was, and has met a very nice fellow who lives about 45 minutes away. Of course, you need to be very careful, but it's a useful tool. You can get to know them via internet at first which is easier than a blind date, for sure! I'm sure you'll fall right back into it!
Take your time. It is a BIG mistake to start dating right after divorce. You are not in good emotional shape for that. Take time to nurture your friendships and yourself. Get to know yourself again and try to be independent for a while. You will grow into a person who is ready to take on the world of dating with confidence. If you rush, you will probably just make another mistake! Or you might just cling to who ever you meet so you wont feel lonely--not good!
Going on a date,advice required please .?
Im going on a date with a guy ive fancied for a bit.
We've spoke on the phone for about a month %26amp; we're going on a date (for dinner) I tend to speak a bit in general lol but everytime he speaks i get all giggly and get the feeling im not going to be able to think of anything to say!!
To save the convo goign dry,anything i can ask im about if it gets that way??
Much appreciated :D
xGoing on a date,advice required please .?
easy, talk about somthing that you can stand hearing... Let him talk if you are nervous but be sure to say enough to let him know that you are paying attention to the topic at hand. That will work for any situation, peaple like talking, moreover they like knowing that what they say is being heard. O yea, smile pretty :)
Goodluck,
DannGoing on a date,advice required please .?
Ask about him and what he is interested. then drill down into that stuff. Be genuinely interested in him and the things he is into. Be his friend. Flirt just a little.
We've spoke on the phone for about a month %26amp; we're going on a date (for dinner) I tend to speak a bit in general lol but everytime he speaks i get all giggly and get the feeling im not going to be able to think of anything to say!!
To save the convo goign dry,anything i can ask im about if it gets that way??
Much appreciated :D
xGoing on a date,advice required please .?
easy, talk about somthing that you can stand hearing... Let him talk if you are nervous but be sure to say enough to let him know that you are paying attention to the topic at hand. That will work for any situation, peaple like talking, moreover they like knowing that what they say is being heard. O yea, smile pretty :)
Goodluck,
DannGoing on a date,advice required please .?
Ask about him and what he is interested. then drill down into that stuff. Be genuinely interested in him and the things he is into. Be his friend. Flirt just a little.
Why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?
a lot of male dating experts giving advice to men about how to avoid gold-diggers and how to get casual sex with women without making commitment and how to be the guy women really want etc, are considered to be MISOGYNIST.
women often express their discomfort over such dating experts....
but if female dating experts can give advice to women , why cant male experts give advice to men?Why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?
I think they're only called misogynistic when they start saying most women are gold diggers or making offensive comments like that...
Or something else that is quite rude or insults the intelligence of women.
I tend to avoid ';dating experts'; though, male or female.Why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?
I've seen some men's ';dating advice'; things like that, and remember finding that most of the advice the men writing them give is bad or terribly inaccurate for a majority of us... they were funny. Some things would actually only be accurate for a woman a guy shouldn't want to date in the first place.
Telling someone to avoid gold-diggers is not misogynist. The funny part though, is if a woman wants a guy who has a lot of casual sex, doesn't commit, and has all kinds of women all over him, is probably the same kind of woman who likes a guy with money too.
Because you guys ARE misogynists and the only thing you guys are expert at is projection, denial and blame. That and flipping patties at your McJob.
Misogyny is a mental and social disease. Not all men suffer from the disease.
MANY of the behaviors associated with anti-feminists are misogynistic and emotionally disturbed, not to be taken as representative of most normal healthy men. In fact, what law inforcement agencies, Universities, airlines, banks, etc. invested in research to reduce domestic terrorism and mass shootings find as a commonality among all serial killers and school / mall shooters is Internet misogynistic postings. The FBI, in a report about school shooters, which is pretty much an exclusive boy's club like serial killing, compiled a list of indicators for a potential school or mass shooter and these behaviors are actually expressed constantly here in YA Answers by anti-feminists:
Low Tolerance for Frustration
Poor Coping Skills
Lack of Resiliency
Failed Love Relationship
Injustice Collector
Signs of Depression
Narcissism
Alienation
Dehumanizing Others
Lack of Empathy
Exaggerated Sense of Entitlement
Attitude of Superiority
Exaggerated or Pathological Need for Attention
Externalizes Blame
Masks Low Sel-Esteem
Anger Management Problems
Intolerance
Inappropriate Humor
Seeks to Manipulate Others
Lack of Trust
Closed Social Group
Rigid and Opinionated
Unusual Interest in Sensational Violence
Fascination with Violence-Filled Entertainment
Negative Role Models (such as D ick Matherson or Warren Farrell)
First let me say how FINE Amanda looks in her pic.
Secondly in answer to your question:
';Because you can't get a woman to sleep with you';
you should use that debate on a first date! if she gets pissed off, shes a gold digger, if she's like hey, gold diggers are a waste of space she's a keeper!oil companies
women often express their discomfort over such dating experts....
but if female dating experts can give advice to women , why cant male experts give advice to men?Why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?
I think they're only called misogynistic when they start saying most women are gold diggers or making offensive comments like that...
Or something else that is quite rude or insults the intelligence of women.
I tend to avoid ';dating experts'; though, male or female.Why are men who give dating advice to men to avoid gold diggers etc considered MISOGYNIST by women?
I've seen some men's ';dating advice'; things like that, and remember finding that most of the advice the men writing them give is bad or terribly inaccurate for a majority of us... they were funny. Some things would actually only be accurate for a woman a guy shouldn't want to date in the first place.
Telling someone to avoid gold-diggers is not misogynist. The funny part though, is if a woman wants a guy who has a lot of casual sex, doesn't commit, and has all kinds of women all over him, is probably the same kind of woman who likes a guy with money too.
Because you guys ARE misogynists and the only thing you guys are expert at is projection, denial and blame. That and flipping patties at your McJob.
Misogyny is a mental and social disease. Not all men suffer from the disease.
MANY of the behaviors associated with anti-feminists are misogynistic and emotionally disturbed, not to be taken as representative of most normal healthy men. In fact, what law inforcement agencies, Universities, airlines, banks, etc. invested in research to reduce domestic terrorism and mass shootings find as a commonality among all serial killers and school / mall shooters is Internet misogynistic postings. The FBI, in a report about school shooters, which is pretty much an exclusive boy's club like serial killing, compiled a list of indicators for a potential school or mass shooter and these behaviors are actually expressed constantly here in YA Answers by anti-feminists:
Low Tolerance for Frustration
Poor Coping Skills
Lack of Resiliency
Failed Love Relationship
Injustice Collector
Signs of Depression
Narcissism
Alienation
Dehumanizing Others
Lack of Empathy
Exaggerated Sense of Entitlement
Attitude of Superiority
Exaggerated or Pathological Need for Attention
Externalizes Blame
Masks Low Sel-Esteem
Anger Management Problems
Intolerance
Inappropriate Humor
Seeks to Manipulate Others
Lack of Trust
Closed Social Group
Rigid and Opinionated
Unusual Interest in Sensational Violence
Fascination with Violence-Filled Entertainment
Negative Role Models (such as D ick Matherson or Warren Farrell)
First let me say how FINE Amanda looks in her pic.
Secondly in answer to your question:
';Because you can't get a woman to sleep with you';
you should use that debate on a first date! if she gets pissed off, shes a gold digger, if she's like hey, gold diggers are a waste of space she's a keeper!
Laser tag date? advice/tips?
ok this is our 2nd date. we are not bf/gf but we both know that we like each other
we are going to bertucci's then laser tagging.
**hahaha i know laser tag is lame but its like a group date %26amp; its a joke
ive been laser tagging before but do you have any advice/tips for a laser tag date?Laser tag date? advice/tips?
Best. Date. Ever.
Seriously, laser tag is the bomb. As for advice...
Move constantly while you're shooting at her otherwise she'll notice where you're camping out and get you.
Just kidding. Spend whatever time talking to her that you can. It's a group date so they shouldn't be too hard. Do sweet things like hold the door open for her and maybe try to pay for her food? You could always try to make a move by putting your arm around her or something.Laser tag date? advice/tips?
I went on a laser tag date once. Accidentally hit her in the nose with my gun. She forgave me but I advice not to hit her in the nose on the first date. Try to get on the same team i guess. Not much advice anyone can possibly give. Just have fun!
we are going to bertucci's then laser tagging.
**hahaha i know laser tag is lame but its like a group date %26amp; its a joke
ive been laser tagging before but do you have any advice/tips for a laser tag date?Laser tag date? advice/tips?
Best. Date. Ever.
Seriously, laser tag is the bomb. As for advice...
Move constantly while you're shooting at her otherwise she'll notice where you're camping out and get you.
Just kidding. Spend whatever time talking to her that you can. It's a group date so they shouldn't be too hard. Do sweet things like hold the door open for her and maybe try to pay for her food? You could always try to make a move by putting your arm around her or something.Laser tag date? advice/tips?
I went on a laser tag date once. Accidentally hit her in the nose with my gun. She forgave me but I advice not to hit her in the nose on the first date. Try to get on the same team i guess. Not much advice anyone can possibly give. Just have fun!
What first date advice can you give me?
(Please don't say ';be yourself.';)What first date advice can you give me?
#1 DON'T talk about yourself.
#2 DON'T talk about yourself.
#3 DON'T talk about yourself.What first date advice can you give me?
Be yourself.
be yourself
I suppose that's really the only thing to be said. You do have to be yourself. But I'll humor you and try to elaborate.
The first date is used as a sort of introductory to that person. You're going to want to ask questions about that person. Likes, dislikes, history, aspirations, etc. Search for a common bonding point like music or movies. That will make you both feel a lot more comfortable with each other.
I also wouldn't recommend a movie as a first date. That screams make out and you won't be learning much then. Also, don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Not cool.
Relax. Naturally, it sounds like you are going to be nervous, and of course even though you don't want to just hear ';be yourself'; that is kind of hard when you are really nervous. But you want to show who you are, you don't just want things to go good and for you to kick it off, you want things to go good because you are compatible, and you will only know if you are if you are able to show yourself. So, just relax, you don't want to be too quiet and not show who you are, but at the same time, you don't want to ramble on. Actually pay attention and participate in conversation. Conversation is the most important part of the first date
#1 DON'T talk about yourself.
#2 DON'T talk about yourself.
#3 DON'T talk about yourself.What first date advice can you give me?
Be yourself.
be yourself
I suppose that's really the only thing to be said. You do have to be yourself. But I'll humor you and try to elaborate.
The first date is used as a sort of introductory to that person. You're going to want to ask questions about that person. Likes, dislikes, history, aspirations, etc. Search for a common bonding point like music or movies. That will make you both feel a lot more comfortable with each other.
I also wouldn't recommend a movie as a first date. That screams make out and you won't be learning much then. Also, don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of. Not cool.
Relax. Naturally, it sounds like you are going to be nervous, and of course even though you don't want to just hear ';be yourself'; that is kind of hard when you are really nervous. But you want to show who you are, you don't just want things to go good and for you to kick it off, you want things to go good because you are compatible, and you will only know if you are if you are able to show yourself. So, just relax, you don't want to be too quiet and not show who you are, but at the same time, you don't want to ramble on. Actually pay attention and participate in conversation. Conversation is the most important part of the first date
I don't eat ice cream but my date does,this creates problems,advice?
I don't eat sugar and am a bit of a health freak.The girl i'm dating likes going to coffee pubs and ice cream parlors.I wont touch anything there,this makes it awkward for both of us.We get along great and like each other but this causes problems.Any ideas on how to circumvent this?I don't eat ice cream but my date does,this creates problems,advice?
Well, you won't find many girls who won't eat sugar, so I would just say live with it. There'll be things you like that she won't. It's called compromise.I don't eat ice cream but my date does,this creates problems,advice?
I don't think it should matter. If u guys enjoy being with each other, that's all that matters. It's like if she was allergic to something, would u care if she is?
Well, you won't find many girls who won't eat sugar, so I would just say live with it. There'll be things you like that she won't. It's called compromise.I don't eat ice cream but my date does,this creates problems,advice?
I don't think it should matter. If u guys enjoy being with each other, that's all that matters. It's like if she was allergic to something, would u care if she is?
HELP! Does anyone have any date advice? QUICK?
I am going on a date with my bf and my friend and her bf and then my friend greg and my bf's friend. we were supposed to go mini golfing...now its lightly raining and not sunny wat-so-ever. what are some other ideas quick. i leave in 45 min and we need more ideas as a backup plan. help! any other advice would be good too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
thanks!HELP! Does anyone have any date advice? QUICK?
Bowling, it's inside, you can socialize and have fun while doing it.HELP! Does anyone have any date advice? QUICK?
you could watch a movie, bowl, play golf inside (don't br8 annything) dance in the rain, swim, pay vollyvoll. go for a nice walk. Let the rain soak your hair and when you get back, dry off get in comfy clothes, and watch a movie, llike action, or scary. Guys hate romantic and love girls getting scared. Also get chocolate, no one can wrong with chocolate. :) hope your date goes well
cinema, rent a movie and go to one of your houses, bowling..?
Rent a movie and all watch together in someones house (basement)
bowling
roller skating
movies
easy going restaurant
bowling. ive gone and its pretty cheap and fun
:) have fun!
you guys can go to the movies
thanks!HELP! Does anyone have any date advice? QUICK?
Bowling, it's inside, you can socialize and have fun while doing it.HELP! Does anyone have any date advice? QUICK?
you could watch a movie, bowl, play golf inside (don't br8 annything) dance in the rain, swim, pay vollyvoll. go for a nice walk. Let the rain soak your hair and when you get back, dry off get in comfy clothes, and watch a movie, llike action, or scary. Guys hate romantic and love girls getting scared. Also get chocolate, no one can wrong with chocolate. :) hope your date goes well
cinema, rent a movie and go to one of your houses, bowling..?
Rent a movie and all watch together in someones house (basement)
bowling
roller skating
movies
easy going restaurant
bowling. ive gone and its pretty cheap and fun
:) have fun!
you guys can go to the movies
Anybody have any good dating advice for me?
This is the 1st time in my life Ive been single this long! I have learned sooo much and grew as a person. Now im ready to meet someone. Tips would be great...where to go to meet them or should i just sick back and wait. Do you think i need to work at it or just be myself and hope I meet someone?Anybody have any good dating advice for me?
yes i doAnybody have any good dating advice for me?
I got this site that offer free online dating info and it pretty good. You can find more information here link below.
Go join a car club. Or a drag racing club. Some activity where there are a bunch of guys and no girls - they'll think you're awesome.
yes i doAnybody have any good dating advice for me?
I got this site that offer free online dating info and it pretty good. You can find more information here link below.
Go join a car club. Or a drag racing club. Some activity where there are a bunch of guys and no girls - they'll think you're awesome.
What is the worst dating advice you have ever received? ?
What is the worst dating advice you have ever received (doesn't matter from who).
Don't say, dating advice on Yahoo Answers. It has to be from reputable person.What is the worst dating advice you have ever received? ?
'You can't date until you're married.'
Yep, thanks, love you dad.What is the worst dating advice you have ever received? ?
Ironically enough, the worst dating advice I got was from my parents.
They gave me ZERO ADVICE AT ALL.
They assumed that since I was a 3.5 student and crushing the SAT and ACT on my way to a full academic scholarship from my college of choice back in high school that I automatically had the dating game on lock...boy, were they wrong!
So I left their house as an 18 year old guy that knew jack squat about dating. Everything I've ever learned thus far has come through personal experience and trial and error. Luckily, all that trial and erroring hasn't cost me any unwanted children, criminal records, or diseases.
Six and a half years later, I can say I know my way around this game....but it would have been a lot easier had I gotten SOME kind of jump-start from the 'rents.
Either hump and dump OR just be yourself. Its bad of me to say this, but most girls don't care if your being yourself or not, they want a guy with a hot body and face, not the guys with average looks and a great personality. I wish i were both but I'm an average joe on the looks part but I have been told I have a good personality.
I guess from my parents who taught me to fully respect women. But in the real world, women are turned on by men who take charge. You can still respect them, but .. it's a fine line. I dunno, I gotta say it, Women are turned on by men who talk to them like children. Sorry it's just true.
';you know why you're still single? it's cuz you're a virgin. guys like experience. go screw someone and lose your virginity, then all the guys will come to your feet';
haha. from my (stupid) best friend, sarah.
she's a little.. promiscuous.
and i did NOT follow that advice.
ok my MOM told me this.
I was crying because a guy i was in love with for 3 YEARS said that he would date me if I wasn't so immature and that I was kind of annoying. And my mom said he was right and that I need to grow up!
LOL this brings up alot of funny things. Ok but it isnt about me.
But my friend said if your girlfriend hates when you smoke and doesnt want you to smoke anymore. He planned on getting her pregnant so he could still smoke........ lmao? i mean wtf?
Ive never got any good dating advice from a regular person, and women seem to give me the worst.
The worst advice was, You gotta be yourself and someone will like you for who you are.
The worst is dress really sexy,not true the less he she the time the more nice and respectful he'll be
I am jewish and my mom said there is nothing better than a jewish man. I am not sure all jewish men as bad as my ex, but he was so bad... worse than any man I have ever known.
jsut **** him your gonna like him after and if you get pregnant he can keep the baby
i was like wtf?
remember size does matter.
now that i think of it that advice was so random.. lol..
Stay in it.... What's it...... I don't no!!!!!oil companies
Don't say, dating advice on Yahoo Answers. It has to be from reputable person.What is the worst dating advice you have ever received? ?
'You can't date until you're married.'
Yep, thanks, love you dad.What is the worst dating advice you have ever received? ?
Ironically enough, the worst dating advice I got was from my parents.
They gave me ZERO ADVICE AT ALL.
They assumed that since I was a 3.5 student and crushing the SAT and ACT on my way to a full academic scholarship from my college of choice back in high school that I automatically had the dating game on lock...boy, were they wrong!
So I left their house as an 18 year old guy that knew jack squat about dating. Everything I've ever learned thus far has come through personal experience and trial and error. Luckily, all that trial and erroring hasn't cost me any unwanted children, criminal records, or diseases.
Six and a half years later, I can say I know my way around this game....but it would have been a lot easier had I gotten SOME kind of jump-start from the 'rents.
Either hump and dump OR just be yourself. Its bad of me to say this, but most girls don't care if your being yourself or not, they want a guy with a hot body and face, not the guys with average looks and a great personality. I wish i were both but I'm an average joe on the looks part but I have been told I have a good personality.
I guess from my parents who taught me to fully respect women. But in the real world, women are turned on by men who take charge. You can still respect them, but .. it's a fine line. I dunno, I gotta say it, Women are turned on by men who talk to them like children. Sorry it's just true.
';you know why you're still single? it's cuz you're a virgin. guys like experience. go screw someone and lose your virginity, then all the guys will come to your feet';
haha. from my (stupid) best friend, sarah.
she's a little.. promiscuous.
and i did NOT follow that advice.
ok my MOM told me this.
I was crying because a guy i was in love with for 3 YEARS said that he would date me if I wasn't so immature and that I was kind of annoying. And my mom said he was right and that I need to grow up!
LOL this brings up alot of funny things. Ok but it isnt about me.
But my friend said if your girlfriend hates when you smoke and doesnt want you to smoke anymore. He planned on getting her pregnant so he could still smoke........ lmao? i mean wtf?
Ive never got any good dating advice from a regular person, and women seem to give me the worst.
The worst advice was, You gotta be yourself and someone will like you for who you are.
The worst is dress really sexy,not true the less he she the time the more nice and respectful he'll be
I am jewish and my mom said there is nothing better than a jewish man. I am not sure all jewish men as bad as my ex, but he was so bad... worse than any man I have ever known.
jsut **** him your gonna like him after and if you get pregnant he can keep the baby
i was like wtf?
remember size does matter.
now that i think of it that advice was so random.. lol..
Stay in it.... What's it...... I don't no!!!!!
First Date Advice (its raining)?
Alright so I'm taking this girl out tonight for the first time. I was planning on taking her to the local farmers market because she's new around here and its a lot of fun, but I woke up this morning and its pouring rain. I wanted to do something other than the usual eat at a restaurant thing. Any advice for night time first dates when its raining? I don't have a kitchen so making food is out..First Date Advice (its raining)?
Take Her To bed
And Put her to Sleep.First Date Advice (its raining)?
Not sure where you are but there's always movie's, play's, bowling, skating, going the mall, and etc...
But you do have a huge plus that it's raining. Girls love the rain.
roller skating
movies
bowling
oddly a lot of girls like pool which is also at a lot of bowling alleys
go watch a movie or do something indoor!!!
Take Her To bed
And Put her to Sleep.First Date Advice (its raining)?
Not sure where you are but there's always movie's, play's, bowling, skating, going the mall, and etc...
But you do have a huge plus that it's raining. Girls love the rain.
roller skating
movies
bowling
oddly a lot of girls like pool which is also at a lot of bowling alleys
go watch a movie or do something indoor!!!
Dating advice for a friend who recently got divorced?
I have a friend who recently got divorced she has two girls under the age of 9 and she is now ready to date. She asked me about dating and sleep overs when or if it is appropriate. Me being single without kids have no idea. When is it appropriate for her to have guy spend the night?Dating advice for a friend who recently got divorced?
She has to take the time to genuinely get to know him before she brings him to her home or around her children. Children's hearts are very fragile. They will suffer worse than she does should the relationship not work out.
My ex and I have been divorced for two years. In that two years, she has brought seven different men, that I know of, around to meet my boys. Their ages are seven and three. Every time it doesn't work out between them, I have to explain to my seven year old the downfalls of a broken relationship. In the beginning, it was difficult for me to put it in terms that a seven year old would understand. Regretfully, with her help, I have become well-practiced. Also, her actions have caused my son to be emotionally closed off from guys that she brings around. In his mind, they are just going to disappear too. He also harbors some ill feelings for his mother because of this, but when he brings it up I have to remind him that he is talking about his mother and she loves him very much.
It is a delicate situation. I hope your friend makes her decisions based on the needs of her children and not just her own.Dating advice for a friend who recently got divorced?
Hard to believe that your friend ';recently'; got divorced and is now ready to date. Then to say that she's asked about having a guy sleep over? Sounds to me like she's on the rebound too quickly and with her young children she's looking for a replacement for the one she lost.
I would tell her that she is an adult and will have to make up her own mind as to when a guy should sleep over or not. Everyone has their own timetable. However I should think that she should allow her ';guys'; to know that she recently was divorced and she isn't going to be rushing into anything until she knows that he's on the up and up and not just seeking to capitalize on her vulnerability. She's got to understand that she has her children's future to think about not only her own sexual appetites.
It isn't unless she wants to set that example for her daughters.
When I dated I never brought men home until I was dating my fiance and even then we waited 6 months before he met my dd. She was 8 when we met and is now 13. After 2yrs he started staying the night but moving down to the sofa before my daughter woke up in the morning so as far as she knew he never spent the night in my room. After he proposed he started sleeping in my room.
It is appropriate for her to have a guy spend the night when he places a diamond ring on the ring finger of her left hand. She has two children and is responsible for not only their financial upbringing but their moral upbringing as well and what she shows her children is what they will learn.
It's a stretch...understood she has needs. However, she's (newly) divorced. I'm sure it's hard for the girls not having their father around anymore. If it were me I would hold off for the sake of my girls and myself. Healing needs to take place for everyone. Jumping in too soon my be a big mistake that can only make matters worse.
It takes time getting below the surface of a person when dating. Overall, sounds like she's ready, nothing anyone can say will change her decision if this is what she wants to do.
lmao @ tylers answer of never..some people geesh....well i think she can have sleep overs when she wants while the kids are with their father assumning that on some weekends they will be.....but if the girls are going to be there then i would say she should go to his house until SHE feels that the new relationship is on solid enough ground to introduce him to her daughters.....there is nothing worse then seein mom parading different men thru out the house on a weekly or monthly basis...i would wait to do this until my new relationship got serious....by the way...wish your friend the best of luck for me being a single women with kids is tough....not just financially but in the dating area as well
Personally, i don't believe that you bring men that you are dating around your children like that unless you are getting serious. If you are just dating, then it isn't appropriate as your children may become confused about these actions.
i would probable say that there should be no sleepovers because it may confuse the kids.tell her to keep the house as a sanctuary for the kids because they are hurt and confused by the situation and try and protect them as best as she can
Who does she want her daughters to grow up and be? She should base her actions around her answer to this. (and not just sneaking around and faking actions)
Children are much more perceptive than we give them credit for.
Maybe after a year of dating.
Long, long time in the future. At this point you don't even think about it.
umm never.
why asking?
when her ex has the daughters
She has to take the time to genuinely get to know him before she brings him to her home or around her children. Children's hearts are very fragile. They will suffer worse than she does should the relationship not work out.
My ex and I have been divorced for two years. In that two years, she has brought seven different men, that I know of, around to meet my boys. Their ages are seven and three. Every time it doesn't work out between them, I have to explain to my seven year old the downfalls of a broken relationship. In the beginning, it was difficult for me to put it in terms that a seven year old would understand. Regretfully, with her help, I have become well-practiced. Also, her actions have caused my son to be emotionally closed off from guys that she brings around. In his mind, they are just going to disappear too. He also harbors some ill feelings for his mother because of this, but when he brings it up I have to remind him that he is talking about his mother and she loves him very much.
It is a delicate situation. I hope your friend makes her decisions based on the needs of her children and not just her own.Dating advice for a friend who recently got divorced?
Hard to believe that your friend ';recently'; got divorced and is now ready to date. Then to say that she's asked about having a guy sleep over? Sounds to me like she's on the rebound too quickly and with her young children she's looking for a replacement for the one she lost.
I would tell her that she is an adult and will have to make up her own mind as to when a guy should sleep over or not. Everyone has their own timetable. However I should think that she should allow her ';guys'; to know that she recently was divorced and she isn't going to be rushing into anything until she knows that he's on the up and up and not just seeking to capitalize on her vulnerability. She's got to understand that she has her children's future to think about not only her own sexual appetites.
It isn't unless she wants to set that example for her daughters.
When I dated I never brought men home until I was dating my fiance and even then we waited 6 months before he met my dd. She was 8 when we met and is now 13. After 2yrs he started staying the night but moving down to the sofa before my daughter woke up in the morning so as far as she knew he never spent the night in my room. After he proposed he started sleeping in my room.
It is appropriate for her to have a guy spend the night when he places a diamond ring on the ring finger of her left hand. She has two children and is responsible for not only their financial upbringing but their moral upbringing as well and what she shows her children is what they will learn.
It's a stretch...understood she has needs. However, she's (newly) divorced. I'm sure it's hard for the girls not having their father around anymore. If it were me I would hold off for the sake of my girls and myself. Healing needs to take place for everyone. Jumping in too soon my be a big mistake that can only make matters worse.
It takes time getting below the surface of a person when dating. Overall, sounds like she's ready, nothing anyone can say will change her decision if this is what she wants to do.
lmao @ tylers answer of never..some people geesh....well i think she can have sleep overs when she wants while the kids are with their father assumning that on some weekends they will be.....but if the girls are going to be there then i would say she should go to his house until SHE feels that the new relationship is on solid enough ground to introduce him to her daughters.....there is nothing worse then seein mom parading different men thru out the house on a weekly or monthly basis...i would wait to do this until my new relationship got serious....by the way...wish your friend the best of luck for me being a single women with kids is tough....not just financially but in the dating area as well
Personally, i don't believe that you bring men that you are dating around your children like that unless you are getting serious. If you are just dating, then it isn't appropriate as your children may become confused about these actions.
i would probable say that there should be no sleepovers because it may confuse the kids.tell her to keep the house as a sanctuary for the kids because they are hurt and confused by the situation and try and protect them as best as she can
Who does she want her daughters to grow up and be? She should base her actions around her answer to this. (and not just sneaking around and faking actions)
Children are much more perceptive than we give them credit for.
Maybe after a year of dating.
Long, long time in the future. At this point you don't even think about it.
umm never.
why asking?
when her ex has the daughters
I need some dating advice not for a date just to get a girlfriend :(?
Alright im not the hottest guy at school and im not ripped but i got some decent biceps. Second Fastest runner in my school. And Ive asked out four girls in past two years and not one yes. Ive never had a girlfriend. And I just feel like girls dont like me. But i need some help to get a girlfriend plz!!! :'(I need some dating advice not for a date just to get a girlfriend :(?
You really want a girl friend, get a hobby...
Love happens when you are not looking for it. plus girls like it when you are involved... if you stay in this mind set when you do get a girl friend you will wrap your self up in the relationship so much you may lose yourself and seem pushy or obsessed. trust me i know.
with a hobby you can have something to talk about. my boyfriend plays the classical guitar so we always have something to talk about... cars is always a good one at least for girls like me... but i am from the country... so just get involved with something and find yourself... plus if you focus on the friends you have now you never know what can happen... we were friends for a long time before we started dating.
Kelsey
Gothic Boy's Girl.
I agree with Kelsey, love happens unexpectedly. There are two ways to go about tactics. There is the spinner bait tactic. Go after any girl you see. The second is my favorite, the bobber style. This one takes a long time but it is for the long term relationship..
1. Be a gentleman, this manner is rarely seen in society. The ladies will love the gentleman look and style. Just don't over do it. Example of somethings that you can do is open the doors for the ladies, do it at your discretion, Let the ladies walk first if the path is narrow and through the door first. If a narrow sidewalk let the lady walk on the side walk. Allways wait for her.
2. Look into their eyes when they are talking and not at their chests or at any other part of their body. PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING. Be in the moment and not in the head.
3. Just be nice. Show interest in what she does. Make sure it is actual interest and not just fake interest. For example Kelsey likes to read vampire books. I ask her what the story is about and I have her tell me the story. I am always in a good mood for a good story or at least a summary. Plus I tell her I am to lazy to read the books but they do have a good story.
4. Make her laugh and comfortable and comfort her. Always be positive and be strong. Understand her and yourself. KNOW YOURSELF before you make any long term commitments.
5. Be Yourself and tell some jokes. Laugh
6. Set back, look at the sky, and appreciate what is around you. Notice the beauty in nature and in life.
7.Don't look desperate.
8. Don't be pushy
9. don't act to weird
10. Don't go to much out of your way.
11. Broaden your range of music it gives you something to talk about.... and you will definitely have similar tastes somewhere...
12. learn to dance., slow, fast, ballroom,m etc. You don't have to be an expert just don't step on her toes.
13. Just have fun.
14. put her and your friends above yourself. If you have good friends or she is good then they will watch your back.
15. Don't let love blind you.
16. Don't be afraid to ask questions but be wary there are some stupid questions.
Things to look for when trying to get a girlfriend.
-look for someone that makes up for your weaknesses
-has the almost the same interests
-somewhat independent
-mature
-beautiful with just the way she looks
-adaptable because people change sometimes.
-patient
-knows the different between right and wrong but don't be afraid to live a little.
-nice
-kind
-appreciative
- somewhat intelligent
-caring
-always putting others before herself. At least to some extent.
-and so on.
Good Luck
-Gothic Boy
P.S. Always remember that there are other fish in the sea. And bobbers can always be refitted to the circumstances. Just wait for a nibble and yank the pole. If she breaks loose cast out the bobber refitted just for her and if she breaks loose again then she is not the one or she is just not ready. The bobber method is more rewarding in the long run
Live for today yet still have plans tomorrow, and die without regrets.I need some dating advice not for a date just to get a girlfriend :(?
1. Placing to much emphasis on others. You've described yourself as ';not the hottest guy'; and ';second fastest runner';, but not who you are. This tells me you're not really sure who you are or how others percieve you. If you can't figure that out, you can't figure out who would even like you or would want to like you.
2. You've never had a gf, but you try a lot. But you also generalize and say ';girls don't like me';. No, specific people don't like you. It seems you need to spend more time really getting to know people and know yourself, and this way, it will be more natural who you are attracted to and who is attracted to you. When you find that person, and they find you, it'll feel natural, and it'll just happen.
If you don't spend time to learn about what you want, you can never get it.
Problem number one:
thinking girls care that much about being ripped. they don't.
Problem number two: Being so desperate for a girlfriend. Things will come when you least expect it - when you go looking, you'll find nothing.
And though i know nothing about you, i know alot of guys who have had similar stories and it's usually because they are (no offense) asking out girls that are WAY out of their league. So try looking at yourself and looking at the girls you're asking out - and do some serious consideration.
You need to provide a bit more information. How old are you? How old are the girls you are asking? etc
Just because a girl says no, doesn't mean you aren't attractive. It means they more than likely aren't your type.
Also, people date for more than just looks. How's your personality? Find someone that may be compatible with your personality.
If you aren't past 9th grade, you have nothing to worry about. You'll have plenty of time to meet a nice girl
well stay confident, that's always the first thing we look at. we girls don't' want to have to be the ones to baby you to build up your self esteem. and make sure you are always yourself around girls, even if its something your not comfortable with, stay true to what you believe, we pick up on these things.
if you have a girl in mind find out her interest. be interested in them as well and don't jump in too quickly, that just makes you seem desperate. And yes we might think that your biceps look nice but that's not what our main goal is, so don't try and use those as your thing to get the girls, noooot gonna work.
(and congrats on being the second fastest runner!)
when in conversations with a girl try to be more interested in her and what she has to say rather than yourself,unless of course she asks you a question about yourself, then of course answer to the best you can.
hmm..idk this would be easier if there was a specific girl to deal with..but good luck!
We don't care about biceps or running. What we do care about is friendliness, hygiene, personality, etc. You have to flirt with the girls, talk with them and be friendly for them to take you into consideration. Don't just go up to someone and ask them on a date. They have to notice you, think your cute or nice and/or have talked/flirted with you for a while. Good luck
try looking at how each person acts dont, go for snobs or sluts, and always make sure that you breath doesn't smell amongst other things. just try to do the hit and run tactic walk up ask to go to food stuffs place (panera's is always good) then just leave, also some advice you should take to heart is to ALWAYS tell them you are going to pay. if you dont you will get shot down in cold blood regardless of whom it is. also panera's averages around 16 bucks for 2 people(you must order or else you will look cheap and she will look fat). so prepare to blow up your bank. also i suggested the ones with the right attitudes not only for your emotional safety but also that most other girls like walks in the park(FREE).
Jacob
AGE:15
whew that was a long one
you sound a ittle bittle stuck up. if asked the 'populars' then they of course would have turned you down since your not the hottest guy in the school, even if you have hot biceps and are a good runner or whatever, but if you asked a normal girl, who you really liked and they liked you they would have said yes. just keep trying matey! and deflate your head a bit if you get what im saying.
Advice i always give is to be a man and take control... dont give up and if there is a girl you really want... just keep pushing, not freaky stalker, just flirty pushing... and like the other girl said, 4 girls in 2 years is not much... try and meet girls outside of school, experience has taught me that school relationships are not usually the best... anywhere you can meet girls... coffee shop, train station, myspace, facebook anywhere!
buddy you're barking up the dead wrong trees!
A girl that you have a relationship with is extremely hard to come by. It's a crazy game of chance. What you need to do, is just live your life and wait for the best opportunity. Trust me, love has a weird way of finding people when they least expect it!
Well i think you should be friends with some girls. Like don't you see other guys and girls all hanging out in a group? well try doing that? Maybe even put your self out there, but don't be to much of a jerk. Aw not the best advise but i hope this helps.
obviously your not the hottest guy at school
TURN THE FLIRT ON! and ask out more girls...
and i realize you must be in the class of 2010. Here on my island we call that class 2KX! You know das deh baddest class b! 2KX YUH LARGE!
just keep swimming, just keep swimming!
don't give up! only 4 girls in 2 years? i've been around some hott guys who ask someone out every weekend! grow some balls! keep asking!
build up your confidence..make it a goal to ask a girl out at least once a week and see how it goes from there..keep up the shape too..chics are crazy about packs!!
You really want a girl friend, get a hobby...
Love happens when you are not looking for it. plus girls like it when you are involved... if you stay in this mind set when you do get a girl friend you will wrap your self up in the relationship so much you may lose yourself and seem pushy or obsessed. trust me i know.
with a hobby you can have something to talk about. my boyfriend plays the classical guitar so we always have something to talk about... cars is always a good one at least for girls like me... but i am from the country... so just get involved with something and find yourself... plus if you focus on the friends you have now you never know what can happen... we were friends for a long time before we started dating.
Kelsey
Gothic Boy's Girl.
I agree with Kelsey, love happens unexpectedly. There are two ways to go about tactics. There is the spinner bait tactic. Go after any girl you see. The second is my favorite, the bobber style. This one takes a long time but it is for the long term relationship..
1. Be a gentleman, this manner is rarely seen in society. The ladies will love the gentleman look and style. Just don't over do it. Example of somethings that you can do is open the doors for the ladies, do it at your discretion, Let the ladies walk first if the path is narrow and through the door first. If a narrow sidewalk let the lady walk on the side walk. Allways wait for her.
2. Look into their eyes when they are talking and not at their chests or at any other part of their body. PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING. Be in the moment and not in the head.
3. Just be nice. Show interest in what she does. Make sure it is actual interest and not just fake interest. For example Kelsey likes to read vampire books. I ask her what the story is about and I have her tell me the story. I am always in a good mood for a good story or at least a summary. Plus I tell her I am to lazy to read the books but they do have a good story.
4. Make her laugh and comfortable and comfort her. Always be positive and be strong. Understand her and yourself. KNOW YOURSELF before you make any long term commitments.
5. Be Yourself and tell some jokes. Laugh
6. Set back, look at the sky, and appreciate what is around you. Notice the beauty in nature and in life.
7.Don't look desperate.
8. Don't be pushy
9. don't act to weird
10. Don't go to much out of your way.
11. Broaden your range of music it gives you something to talk about.... and you will definitely have similar tastes somewhere...
12. learn to dance., slow, fast, ballroom,m etc. You don't have to be an expert just don't step on her toes.
13. Just have fun.
14. put her and your friends above yourself. If you have good friends or she is good then they will watch your back.
15. Don't let love blind you.
16. Don't be afraid to ask questions but be wary there are some stupid questions.
Things to look for when trying to get a girlfriend.
-look for someone that makes up for your weaknesses
-has the almost the same interests
-somewhat independent
-mature
-beautiful with just the way she looks
-adaptable because people change sometimes.
-patient
-knows the different between right and wrong but don't be afraid to live a little.
-nice
-kind
-appreciative
- somewhat intelligent
-caring
-always putting others before herself. At least to some extent.
-and so on.
Good Luck
-Gothic Boy
P.S. Always remember that there are other fish in the sea. And bobbers can always be refitted to the circumstances. Just wait for a nibble and yank the pole. If she breaks loose cast out the bobber refitted just for her and if she breaks loose again then she is not the one or she is just not ready. The bobber method is more rewarding in the long run
Live for today yet still have plans tomorrow, and die without regrets.I need some dating advice not for a date just to get a girlfriend :(?
1. Placing to much emphasis on others. You've described yourself as ';not the hottest guy'; and ';second fastest runner';, but not who you are. This tells me you're not really sure who you are or how others percieve you. If you can't figure that out, you can't figure out who would even like you or would want to like you.
2. You've never had a gf, but you try a lot. But you also generalize and say ';girls don't like me';. No, specific people don't like you. It seems you need to spend more time really getting to know people and know yourself, and this way, it will be more natural who you are attracted to and who is attracted to you. When you find that person, and they find you, it'll feel natural, and it'll just happen.
If you don't spend time to learn about what you want, you can never get it.
Problem number one:
thinking girls care that much about being ripped. they don't.
Problem number two: Being so desperate for a girlfriend. Things will come when you least expect it - when you go looking, you'll find nothing.
And though i know nothing about you, i know alot of guys who have had similar stories and it's usually because they are (no offense) asking out girls that are WAY out of their league. So try looking at yourself and looking at the girls you're asking out - and do some serious consideration.
You need to provide a bit more information. How old are you? How old are the girls you are asking? etc
Just because a girl says no, doesn't mean you aren't attractive. It means they more than likely aren't your type.
Also, people date for more than just looks. How's your personality? Find someone that may be compatible with your personality.
If you aren't past 9th grade, you have nothing to worry about. You'll have plenty of time to meet a nice girl
well stay confident, that's always the first thing we look at. we girls don't' want to have to be the ones to baby you to build up your self esteem. and make sure you are always yourself around girls, even if its something your not comfortable with, stay true to what you believe, we pick up on these things.
if you have a girl in mind find out her interest. be interested in them as well and don't jump in too quickly, that just makes you seem desperate. And yes we might think that your biceps look nice but that's not what our main goal is, so don't try and use those as your thing to get the girls, noooot gonna work.
(and congrats on being the second fastest runner!)
when in conversations with a girl try to be more interested in her and what she has to say rather than yourself,unless of course she asks you a question about yourself, then of course answer to the best you can.
hmm..idk this would be easier if there was a specific girl to deal with..but good luck!
We don't care about biceps or running. What we do care about is friendliness, hygiene, personality, etc. You have to flirt with the girls, talk with them and be friendly for them to take you into consideration. Don't just go up to someone and ask them on a date. They have to notice you, think your cute or nice and/or have talked/flirted with you for a while. Good luck
try looking at how each person acts dont, go for snobs or sluts, and always make sure that you breath doesn't smell amongst other things. just try to do the hit and run tactic walk up ask to go to food stuffs place (panera's is always good) then just leave, also some advice you should take to heart is to ALWAYS tell them you are going to pay. if you dont you will get shot down in cold blood regardless of whom it is. also panera's averages around 16 bucks for 2 people(you must order or else you will look cheap and she will look fat). so prepare to blow up your bank. also i suggested the ones with the right attitudes not only for your emotional safety but also that most other girls like walks in the park(FREE).
Jacob
AGE:15
whew that was a long one
you sound a ittle bittle stuck up. if asked the 'populars' then they of course would have turned you down since your not the hottest guy in the school, even if you have hot biceps and are a good runner or whatever, but if you asked a normal girl, who you really liked and they liked you they would have said yes. just keep trying matey! and deflate your head a bit if you get what im saying.
Advice i always give is to be a man and take control... dont give up and if there is a girl you really want... just keep pushing, not freaky stalker, just flirty pushing... and like the other girl said, 4 girls in 2 years is not much... try and meet girls outside of school, experience has taught me that school relationships are not usually the best... anywhere you can meet girls... coffee shop, train station, myspace, facebook anywhere!
buddy you're barking up the dead wrong trees!
A girl that you have a relationship with is extremely hard to come by. It's a crazy game of chance. What you need to do, is just live your life and wait for the best opportunity. Trust me, love has a weird way of finding people when they least expect it!
Well i think you should be friends with some girls. Like don't you see other guys and girls all hanging out in a group? well try doing that? Maybe even put your self out there, but don't be to much of a jerk. Aw not the best advise but i hope this helps.
obviously your not the hottest guy at school
TURN THE FLIRT ON! and ask out more girls...
and i realize you must be in the class of 2010. Here on my island we call that class 2KX! You know das deh baddest class b! 2KX YUH LARGE!
just keep swimming, just keep swimming!
don't give up! only 4 girls in 2 years? i've been around some hott guys who ask someone out every weekend! grow some balls! keep asking!
build up your confidence..make it a goal to ask a girl out at least once a week and see how it goes from there..keep up the shape too..chics are crazy about packs!!
First date advice.....how to close?
i just got out of a bad relationship so i've been away from the dating game for a while and i'm just looking for flings. any advice on how to close the deal on the first date. what makes a woman go all the way on the first date.First date advice.....how to close?
you have to talk her into making you a sandwich...if she does that then you know shes begging to go all the wayFirst date advice.....how to close?
Look her in the eyes and smile a lot. Keep the conversation intelligent, but make her laugh when you can. Keep your hands to yourself. If she feels a high level of trust with you, she may want you to spend the night. No guarantees.
Option #2. Get her drunk.
you have to talk her into making you a sandwich...if she does that then you know shes begging to go all the wayFirst date advice.....how to close?
Look her in the eyes and smile a lot. Keep the conversation intelligent, but make her laugh when you can. Keep your hands to yourself. If she feels a high level of trust with you, she may want you to spend the night. No guarantees.
Option #2. Get her drunk.
Are Married men good at giving advice to single men about who they date?
Not generally in my experience.Are Married men good at giving advice to single men about who they date?
Yes and no; it depends on the person, and not so much on whether or not they're married. For example, would a person with a bad marriage really be the best person to take dating/romantic advice from? Maybe, maybe not. Just because a person is married doesn't mean he or she will always give the best romantic advice; although yes, it's true they probably have a bit more experience.
And each person is different; what may be good advice to one person, may be absolutely horrible advice to another person. Take everything with a small grain of salt, and be sure to experience it for yourself. =)Are Married men good at giving advice to single men about who they date?
married men didn't get to be married without going on a few dates (not counting arranged marriages, of course :-)
:) im not sure hubby even gave our son that advice
They will have more experience, so yes.
Yes and no; it depends on the person, and not so much on whether or not they're married. For example, would a person with a bad marriage really be the best person to take dating/romantic advice from? Maybe, maybe not. Just because a person is married doesn't mean he or she will always give the best romantic advice; although yes, it's true they probably have a bit more experience.
And each person is different; what may be good advice to one person, may be absolutely horrible advice to another person. Take everything with a small grain of salt, and be sure to experience it for yourself. =)Are Married men good at giving advice to single men about who they date?
married men didn't get to be married without going on a few dates (not counting arranged marriages, of course :-)
:) im not sure hubby even gave our son that advice
They will have more experience, so yes.
Please help, need prom date advice?
There is this girl that i really want to ask to prom but i just don't have the balls to do it. I think she is the most beautiful person I've ever seen but im just too chicken to even go near her let alone talk to her. Whenever she talks to me I just freeze up and I can only answer if I'm not looking directly into her eyes (which is really hard for me because they are so beautiful). Any help would be greatly appreciated.Please help, need prom date advice?
Grow a set and go ask her. If you don't, you will regret it for the rest of your life. She's just a person, just lke you. She has feelings and a heart, just like you. She wants to feel accepted for who she is, just like you. Now, what's the problem again?Please help, need prom date advice?
Awh thats so cute!!!Im sure if the girl knew that u thought she was beautiful she would be delighted......such a lovely compliment!!!!Its a good thing that she talks to you which means u are not totally anonamous t her or anything so that is a gud basis for having a prom date with her....it wouldnt be unusual or anything either if u did ask her seeing that u can talk to her so i think u really just need to bite the bullet and go for it otherwise if u dont u will regret it and always wonder ';what if?'; remember the worst that can happen is that she will say she cant go or she already has a date so u havent really anything to loose!!!!Go for it, u mite be surprised with the answer u recieve...Good luck i hope it goes well for you!!!!XXX
Even though this is gay and she will think you are a little boy you can tape a note to her locker asking her out...What are you going to do once you get her to the prom if she says yes? You may want to decide on someone who you can talk to without ';freezing'; up.
how about u just say ';u goiing to the prom'; she says ';yh '; nd u say '; u wanna go with me'; nd she'll give u a answer dnt be shy practise infront of a mirror it sounds cheesy but u'll gain more confidenceoil companies
Grow a set and go ask her. If you don't, you will regret it for the rest of your life. She's just a person, just lke you. She has feelings and a heart, just like you. She wants to feel accepted for who she is, just like you. Now, what's the problem again?Please help, need prom date advice?
Awh thats so cute!!!Im sure if the girl knew that u thought she was beautiful she would be delighted......such a lovely compliment!!!!Its a good thing that she talks to you which means u are not totally anonamous t her or anything so that is a gud basis for having a prom date with her....it wouldnt be unusual or anything either if u did ask her seeing that u can talk to her so i think u really just need to bite the bullet and go for it otherwise if u dont u will regret it and always wonder ';what if?'; remember the worst that can happen is that she will say she cant go or she already has a date so u havent really anything to loose!!!!Go for it, u mite be surprised with the answer u recieve...Good luck i hope it goes well for you!!!!XXX
Even though this is gay and she will think you are a little boy you can tape a note to her locker asking her out...What are you going to do once you get her to the prom if she says yes? You may want to decide on someone who you can talk to without ';freezing'; up.
how about u just say ';u goiing to the prom'; she says ';yh '; nd u say '; u wanna go with me'; nd she'll give u a answer dnt be shy practise infront of a mirror it sounds cheesy but u'll gain more confidence
Internet dating- first date advice and safety concerns?
Tommorrow is my first date at Macaroni grill for lunch with a guy I met online via yahoo.personals. I have never done online dating and this is my first time to meet a person that I talked to online. I have only briefly talked to this guy and am scared to meet him. he claims he is a 36 year old pastor but I am worried that he is not a pastor. the thing is a friend of mine met someone online and was murdered. the person he thought he had been talking to turned out to be male rather than female and murdered him. I am so scared about meeting this pastor tommorrow. I keep thinking that perhaps he is a nice normal person who just wants to meet a nice girl. how can i make sure I am safe? What can I talk to him about? How can I find out what his real name is (not sure if chris is his real name) and what he really does for a living and if he has ever been married before without offending him? Please help me.Internet dating- first date advice and safety concerns?
See if maybe some friends can come with for dinner. You should be safe at the restaurant. Talk about many things the weather, etc. When done eating go own ways and decide what you want to do from there.Internet dating- first date advice and safety concerns?
Maybe you should suggest double-dating, or bring a friend along. What ever you do don't go alone
Dont' go!! Follow your intuition. Something is making you nervous and you need to pay attention to that.
Hi.
You are talking to a online dating veteran. Here are my suggestions. I have had no problem and this is why.
First....screen your dates. You need to talk to a person more than once...and chat with emails several times before you talk. If you are nervous it is probably because of your friend but that doesn't mean it is justified. You must have some attraction to this guy so it can't be that bad.
Since you have committed to meeting (kinda fast in my mind) then good that it is for lunch. Don't go anywhere alone with him. Stick to public and remain relatively impersonal. I doubt you need to worry about murder. But there is always a possibility of crazy personality or stalker or the like. That is why you don't rush things. It helps you understand what makes a person tick.
Can't figure out why you think he might not be a pastor Just the fact that you are concerned really raises a flag to me. Did you not ask why he hasn't met someone in his church? He is in a public position. Then again he could be shy and you are just overly concerned.
Meet with him and get it over with. Consider it experience and don't do it again. There is a strong possiblity that he won't be the one...so follow my advice.
Remember that you may want to chat with 1 to 10 in 100 people. Of those only 1 in 100 should you want to meet. Of those 1 in 10 will like you and honestly be interested in a relationship. The rest will have their issues or the wrong motivation. It is just how life is. Online dating isn't so much different than real life. In real life you are careful...and online be careful.
Although I have a boyfriend I didn't meet online...just remember that finding the right person matters more than how. He should think the same way.
I found a boyfriend online a couple times...and all I can say is that time is the revealing factor. Don't rush...the answer will come.
Don't give your last name or address till you know for sure.
Now smile and put your best foot forward...don't let your friends unbelieveable sad death scare you. And if it still does...don't date online.
All I can say is be careful. The only thing I can think of is go to a public area and see if a friend will go with you. I mean make it seem like you came separately and stuff like that. And don't go anywhere with him by yourself. Make sure your friend can see you. Make sure you don't take him to your house and of course don't go to his. And make up a signal that will let your friend know you feel uncomfortable and that you want out of there.
before you meet with him tomorrow make sure you have let someone know where and when your to meet. After you have met with the individual and find that he is who he stated he was you can continue to move in any direction you feel is comfortable. Have a text message ready to send in your cell phone so that if he is not who you thought he was send the text telling the individual to call you, excuse yourself and move quickly to the door exit right. I met my girlfriend online after we had spoke almost everyday on the phone and we've been together for over a yr.
good luck
I really don't know what to tell you just be very careful an good luck.....I hope it work's out for you..
Glad you are o.k. I have had weird experiences too. One guy I was keen on when I met him didn't act interested in me and kinda interviewed me. I thought maybe he was married but then again he gave me his work place phone number, his home phonenumber, address, everything checked out but I really feel he was using me for his job research of problem solving and solutions. We discussed a problem I had for the whole date rather than regular date topics. I think he was just doing research.
It is a risk everytime you meet someone. I have had to take a lot more risks lately to make the date better as it was getting stale just meeting for coffee again and again. Any way I usually find out as much as I can about them if I can. I find they lie oftern about income. I went out with a guy last week that said he made 150K and had really bad teeth. I haven't met any well educated professional men who make good money that dont put some care into their teeth without they are very old.
Be careful and let someone know when you go out with people. Emai at least a week before meeting. If they ask you arogant questions, delete them.
First don't go to that date by yourself, bring a friend for a safety measure. If you can get more info on him you might be able to do a background check on him. There are a lot of sites online that can give you info on a person , but you do have to pay and prices can vary. Good luck and be safe.
my first advice is meet at a public place make sure you let other people know were you'll be at u never know when a weirdo comes along and make sure not to tell him where you live or any info that can help him in stock u. oh %26amp; 2 asure your self his guy is actually cris 4 an id. Tell him about your b-f %26amp; if he's a guy looking 4 a nice girl and nice him self he'll understand. Oh maybe a bf of yours can b at the same spot your having your date. Most inprotant don't date at night!!!!!! hope this info helps u.
DO NOT MEET HIM. If you feel you must take someone with you. Or have someone watch you
meet in a public place, and never go home with him on the first date. thats really sad if he's lying, girl what are you doing on internet dating if you friend was murdered from an internet dating sicko, but im not judging you, i hope it works out and you find true love. good luck
See if maybe some friends can come with for dinner. You should be safe at the restaurant. Talk about many things the weather, etc. When done eating go own ways and decide what you want to do from there.Internet dating- first date advice and safety concerns?
Maybe you should suggest double-dating, or bring a friend along. What ever you do don't go alone
Dont' go!! Follow your intuition. Something is making you nervous and you need to pay attention to that.
Hi.
You are talking to a online dating veteran. Here are my suggestions. I have had no problem and this is why.
First....screen your dates. You need to talk to a person more than once...and chat with emails several times before you talk. If you are nervous it is probably because of your friend but that doesn't mean it is justified. You must have some attraction to this guy so it can't be that bad.
Since you have committed to meeting (kinda fast in my mind) then good that it is for lunch. Don't go anywhere alone with him. Stick to public and remain relatively impersonal. I doubt you need to worry about murder. But there is always a possibility of crazy personality or stalker or the like. That is why you don't rush things. It helps you understand what makes a person tick.
Can't figure out why you think he might not be a pastor Just the fact that you are concerned really raises a flag to me. Did you not ask why he hasn't met someone in his church? He is in a public position. Then again he could be shy and you are just overly concerned.
Meet with him and get it over with. Consider it experience and don't do it again. There is a strong possiblity that he won't be the one...so follow my advice.
Remember that you may want to chat with 1 to 10 in 100 people. Of those only 1 in 100 should you want to meet. Of those 1 in 10 will like you and honestly be interested in a relationship. The rest will have their issues or the wrong motivation. It is just how life is. Online dating isn't so much different than real life. In real life you are careful...and online be careful.
Although I have a boyfriend I didn't meet online...just remember that finding the right person matters more than how. He should think the same way.
I found a boyfriend online a couple times...and all I can say is that time is the revealing factor. Don't rush...the answer will come.
Don't give your last name or address till you know for sure.
Now smile and put your best foot forward...don't let your friends unbelieveable sad death scare you. And if it still does...don't date online.
All I can say is be careful. The only thing I can think of is go to a public area and see if a friend will go with you. I mean make it seem like you came separately and stuff like that. And don't go anywhere with him by yourself. Make sure your friend can see you. Make sure you don't take him to your house and of course don't go to his. And make up a signal that will let your friend know you feel uncomfortable and that you want out of there.
before you meet with him tomorrow make sure you have let someone know where and when your to meet. After you have met with the individual and find that he is who he stated he was you can continue to move in any direction you feel is comfortable. Have a text message ready to send in your cell phone so that if he is not who you thought he was send the text telling the individual to call you, excuse yourself and move quickly to the door exit right. I met my girlfriend online after we had spoke almost everyday on the phone and we've been together for over a yr.
good luck
I really don't know what to tell you just be very careful an good luck.....I hope it work's out for you..
Glad you are o.k. I have had weird experiences too. One guy I was keen on when I met him didn't act interested in me and kinda interviewed me. I thought maybe he was married but then again he gave me his work place phone number, his home phonenumber, address, everything checked out but I really feel he was using me for his job research of problem solving and solutions. We discussed a problem I had for the whole date rather than regular date topics. I think he was just doing research.
It is a risk everytime you meet someone. I have had to take a lot more risks lately to make the date better as it was getting stale just meeting for coffee again and again. Any way I usually find out as much as I can about them if I can. I find they lie oftern about income. I went out with a guy last week that said he made 150K and had really bad teeth. I haven't met any well educated professional men who make good money that dont put some care into their teeth without they are very old.
Be careful and let someone know when you go out with people. Emai at least a week before meeting. If they ask you arogant questions, delete them.
First don't go to that date by yourself, bring a friend for a safety measure. If you can get more info on him you might be able to do a background check on him. There are a lot of sites online that can give you info on a person , but you do have to pay and prices can vary. Good luck and be safe.
my first advice is meet at a public place make sure you let other people know were you'll be at u never know when a weirdo comes along and make sure not to tell him where you live or any info that can help him in stock u. oh %26amp; 2 asure your self his guy is actually cris 4 an id. Tell him about your b-f %26amp; if he's a guy looking 4 a nice girl and nice him self he'll understand. Oh maybe a bf of yours can b at the same spot your having your date. Most inprotant don't date at night!!!!!! hope this info helps u.
DO NOT MEET HIM. If you feel you must take someone with you. Or have someone watch you
meet in a public place, and never go home with him on the first date. thats really sad if he's lying, girl what are you doing on internet dating if you friend was murdered from an internet dating sicko, but im not judging you, i hope it works out and you find true love. good luck
How on earth am i going to find a date? Any advice, guys?
I want to go to prom!?
I am a Junior in High School, and I really want to go to prom. You know, the corsage, the pretty dress. My problem is that prom is only about a month away and I don't have a date. I don't have ANY guy friends, or any girl friends that could fix me up with someone. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how attract a guy and get him interested enough to ask me to prom in less than a month?
Some details that may or may not be improtant: I am marginally pretty, but nothing special, I am in pretty good shape, but i'm trying really hard to lose five pounds before prom. I am very tall, which i think might intimidate some guys. Plus, i definately wont put out on prom night, which definitely wont work to my advantage.
Any answer is appreciated, thanks so much!How on earth am i going to find a date? Any advice, guys?
Why don't you go stag? Sit at a table with a bunch of friends. You don't need a date to have a good time. The ';real'; prom comes when you're a senior anyways, and by the way, it's totally over-rated. The movies really make it out to be something fantastic, mine wasn't at all. I hope yours is though.
I am a Junior in High School, and I really want to go to prom. You know, the corsage, the pretty dress. My problem is that prom is only about a month away and I don't have a date. I don't have ANY guy friends, or any girl friends that could fix me up with someone. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how attract a guy and get him interested enough to ask me to prom in less than a month?
Some details that may or may not be improtant: I am marginally pretty, but nothing special, I am in pretty good shape, but i'm trying really hard to lose five pounds before prom. I am very tall, which i think might intimidate some guys. Plus, i definately wont put out on prom night, which definitely wont work to my advantage.
Any answer is appreciated, thanks so much!How on earth am i going to find a date? Any advice, guys?
Why don't you go stag? Sit at a table with a bunch of friends. You don't need a date to have a good time. The ';real'; prom comes when you're a senior anyways, and by the way, it's totally over-rated. The movies really make it out to be something fantastic, mine wasn't at all. I hope yours is though.
Please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?
Before everyone leaves for Thanksgiving, and definitely not too close to it. Either before Halloween, or between November like 1st and the 15th. After that, you're cutting it real close to Thanksgiving!Please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?
I suggest either of the following:
Oct 17: Diwali Festival (festival of lights) of the Hindus
Oct 18: the New Moon
Nov 16-17: the New Moon
New moons are a time for new beginnings.Please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?
How about the 10th of November? 11/10/09 is an easy to remember date for your husband ;-)
Too bad it's a Tuesday.
October 23 2009! Dunno why just a good date! lol!
I suggest either of the following:
Oct 17: Diwali Festival (festival of lights) of the Hindus
Oct 18: the New Moon
Nov 16-17: the New Moon
New moons are a time for new beginnings.Please advice a good date for marriage this october and november 2009?
How about the 10th of November? 11/10/09 is an easy to remember date for your husband ;-)
Too bad it's a Tuesday.
October 23 2009! Dunno why just a good date! lol!
Need first date advice, can you help me ?
I am 16 and this is my first date ever !
I don't want to seem like I am trying to hard,
I am not sure what to expect, any advice ?Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Well, first, how you dress depends on the type of concert. If it's a popular group/person, go with something hip and fun. Jeans and a cute top are definetly good. If it's something like orchestral or a musical or something, go with a nice skirt or black pants and a nice top. Don't be all giggly and nervous because, hey, you are already on the date which obviously means that he likes you, so just be calm and friendly. Flirty, definetly, but not all in his face flirty. Just be cool. I'm 16 too, so trust me, this is coming from somebodey who's been there. Good luck!Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Rule One: Do not talk about yourself unless she directly asks you a question, and then keep it short and simple. And don't brag!!
Rule Two: Ask her a lot of questions and be attentive, try to get her talking as much as possible. Chicks like to talk about themselves.
Rule Three: No compliments!!!!! (I'm serious), just be interested in her. Compliments scream trying too hard. If anything don't be afraid of teasing her a bit, but if you find yourself teasing her a lot drop a light compliment.
Rule Four: Do not touch her or try to kiss her.
first, make sure you look good, it will make you feel good and more confident. second, if the guy is older than you, you will get pretty nervous, but don't sweat it, if he likes you enough to ask you on a date, your doing pretty good anyways. 3rd, just relax and have a good time, don't do anything stupid like get drunk with him, that could turn out bad. have fun and good luck!!
OK, so it sounds like you have a date. Good, that's the first step.. usually. Anyway, work on the things that you share in common with your date. Use them to your advantage. For the guys, always try to be some what (at least) romantic. But since this is your first date. Just try to make sure you and your date is having a wonderful time. Dating is suppose to be fun. Also, since this is your first. Maybe try going out on a group date with another couple and maybe get a few pointers from them.
But really, just go out and have a wonderful time. Also, girls love flowers. So it's always nice for the guys to bring flowers. But if everything goes right. It should be a wonderful evening.
I hope everything works out wonderfully and you'll remember this for years to come.
dont go to the movies. do dinner or an arcade...something both of you can be ';active'; in and not just sitting there doing nothing. so something fun and ';exciting'; and then calm it down with something calm like a strole in the park or something.
I don't want to seem like I am trying to hard,
I am not sure what to expect, any advice ?Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Well, first, how you dress depends on the type of concert. If it's a popular group/person, go with something hip and fun. Jeans and a cute top are definetly good. If it's something like orchestral or a musical or something, go with a nice skirt or black pants and a nice top. Don't be all giggly and nervous because, hey, you are already on the date which obviously means that he likes you, so just be calm and friendly. Flirty, definetly, but not all in his face flirty. Just be cool. I'm 16 too, so trust me, this is coming from somebodey who's been there. Good luck!Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Rule One: Do not talk about yourself unless she directly asks you a question, and then keep it short and simple. And don't brag!!
Rule Two: Ask her a lot of questions and be attentive, try to get her talking as much as possible. Chicks like to talk about themselves.
Rule Three: No compliments!!!!! (I'm serious), just be interested in her. Compliments scream trying too hard. If anything don't be afraid of teasing her a bit, but if you find yourself teasing her a lot drop a light compliment.
Rule Four: Do not touch her or try to kiss her.
first, make sure you look good, it will make you feel good and more confident. second, if the guy is older than you, you will get pretty nervous, but don't sweat it, if he likes you enough to ask you on a date, your doing pretty good anyways. 3rd, just relax and have a good time, don't do anything stupid like get drunk with him, that could turn out bad. have fun and good luck!!
OK, so it sounds like you have a date. Good, that's the first step.. usually. Anyway, work on the things that you share in common with your date. Use them to your advantage. For the guys, always try to be some what (at least) romantic. But since this is your first date. Just try to make sure you and your date is having a wonderful time. Dating is suppose to be fun. Also, since this is your first. Maybe try going out on a group date with another couple and maybe get a few pointers from them.
But really, just go out and have a wonderful time. Also, girls love flowers. So it's always nice for the guys to bring flowers. But if everything goes right. It should be a wonderful evening.
I hope everything works out wonderfully and you'll remember this for years to come.
dont go to the movies. do dinner or an arcade...something both of you can be ';active'; in and not just sitting there doing nothing. so something fun and ';exciting'; and then calm it down with something calm like a strole in the park or something.
Jst an advice, is it normal 4 a women to kiss his fellow men on her 1st date?
i know is strange question, but my previous relationships started with a kiss on the 1st date and ended up, with me thinking = did i do smtng wrong? -__- So my questions are:
is it proper to wear a skirt long to the knees?
which kind of signal could give a false impression?
are two months enough b4 having an intimate relation?Jst an advice, is it normal 4 a women to kiss his fellow men on her 1st date?
I think what ever feels right for you go for it like myself I had sex on my first date and still together 12yrs later happier than ever, him paying the bills and morgage etc me living like a princess
is it proper to wear a skirt long to the knees?
which kind of signal could give a false impression?
are two months enough b4 having an intimate relation?Jst an advice, is it normal 4 a women to kiss his fellow men on her 1st date?
I think what ever feels right for you go for it like myself I had sex on my first date and still together 12yrs later happier than ever, him paying the bills and morgage etc me living like a princess
Urgent Date advice!!! What do I do?
I am meeting up with this guy for the 3rd time and I agreed to organise it this time. The only time we have is for breakfast together..... but we did that last time! Is there anything that we can do at that time of the morning (9-12ish) that might be fun?Urgent Date advice!!! What do I do?
Do some crosswords, watch TV, and talk about something fun (or something you both have in common). Hope I helped :) .expensive makeup
Do some crosswords, watch TV, and talk about something fun (or something you both have in common). Hope I helped :) .
First date advice please?
I am going to this concert with this girl I really like on thursday. I am extremely nervous. What should I talk about? What should I wear? Help?First date advice please?
Talk about things like music (this one should be easy since you're going to a concert), books, and ask about things she is interested in. People love to talk about themselves, so if you ask about what she's interested in, you get to listen to her, which she will likely enjoy, and you get to learn about her and what you have in common as well. It's a win-win situation. That being said, don't let the conversation be one-sided, either. Also, try not to talk about one topic the entire time, especially if she's not interested in it. My last date consisted mostly of listening to the guy ramble on about his Civilizations IV game. There wasn't a second date.
As far as what to wear, just wear what you would normally wear to a concert.First date advice please?
If she's going with you, she obviously likes what she knows about you. Talk about things you have in common: school, friends, the musicians/group that you're seeing. Once you get started, she'll pick up the ball and help carry the conversation.
I don't know what kind of concert you're going to. If it's the philharmonic in a formal concert hall, dress up a bit. If it's a casual band, jeans are perfect.
Have fun and don't worry.
Well ur prolly just be listening to the music for most the time so u dont have to worry about talking haha just kidding. You can talk about the things u have in common or something interesting and wear what you normally would wear, be ur self and dont stress
Just relax and be yourself. Tell her how pretty she looks. Don't worry too much about what to talk about once you are at the concert- it will probably be too loud to talk. Make sure you offer to get her something to eat/drink. Be thoughtful, try to anticipate her needs. Zone in on non verbal ques. You will be fine. Good Luck!
Wear something nice.....not a suit or anything..but just fit in with the other people that are going to the concert. Try to be funny...or be serious you know her more then i do. Be yourself i guess.....if shes liked what shes seen up to the concert you need to continue what you were doing before. Good luck man.
Wear something that you would normally wear, and talk about what you would normally talk about. If you try to be someone or something that your not, you will screw everything up in the long run.
Start out with small talk, compliment her a lot, talk about your surroundings.
Wear something that you feel comfortable in and you don't have to play around and fix it all the time.
Just stay cool, because if you're cool, she'll be cool.
talk about music and how the band you are seeing relates to other bands. The first date is always the easiest because your getting to know each other... so ask what she likes to do. Wear a button down t-shirt and jeans with dressy sneakers.
hm...
my guesses are
wear fancy style, like as you know that fashion??
talk like ' after this concert i booking on restaurant, would you want go with me?' or 'i just like having fun today!'
or 'today we will gonna just freak out!'
something like that....
I'm a guy, but just be yourself man! Dress as your normally do, but just be clean and don't go overboard on the cologne (women can smell better than us). Smile a lot, listen to her (ask questions about herself) and hold her hand at some point.
Have fun!
Remember she will be as nervous as you so just be yourself.
Wear something casual and talk about the band that you will see at the concert. Have fun and everything will fall into place.
talk about stuff you interested in and ask what she likes. dress like your self like you always do and be yourself awnser mine please
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Just act like yourself... i know it sounds cheesy but its really the best peice of advice. A concert doesnt involve much conversation except about the band/song playing. Good Luck!
talk about anything. Wear something comfortable. and just be relaxed and be your self
Where something casual and comfortable. You always look better when you feel comfortable. As for talking...It's a first date! So just ask her questions to find out more about her. (not like stalking her though)
Just tell her you are are nervous if you feel that way. As far as what to talk about, just get her talking and go with she wants to talk about.
Talk about how much you like her boobs, and wear something that accentuates your package.
make her laugh, be yourself, ask her for another date, if possible hold her hand!
i love The Enlightener. that is all.
the best advice ANYONE can give you....is be yourself. if she dosent like you for you, it may be time to find someone who will.. good luck
dont talk about anything your at a concert, just drop it like its hot and grind yo pants off lol
1st of relax if you seem nervous it will make things awkward.
Well since your going to a concert talk about music.
What's her favorite song by that band? When did she first here them?
Did she instantly love them? This band kinda reminds me of____ have you heard of them?
If you've had too much talk about music go for.
Well it looks like we have a lot in common as far as music goes what about food? What kind do you like?
Or Well it looks like we don't have the exact same taste in music I'm sure we have somethings in common what's your favorite food?
Food can be interchanged with color, animal, hobbies, classes. anything.
Food is a good conversation though because at the end of the date you can mention a restaurant that you like that serves her favorite type of food.
';Oh I like Italian too. You know there is this great place by _______
I could show it too you if you want';
Don't make a date immediately If she wants too it's fine call her 2 days after and say ';I was think about that restaurant I told you about You want to go Saturday?';
ALSO very important Don't talk during the music just in between set-ups and stuff, You can say some little things like I love this song and stuff but the conversation will be short because she wants to listen and then you'll feel weird and nervous because you think the convo is going no where.
and Don't hang all over her stand by her but don't hug her from behind and hold on it'll be weird since it's your first date.
Clothes wear what you'd normally where Maybe you favorite shirt though Don't over do it and Don't put on a mountain of cologne jut a little.
Good Luck.
Talk about things like music (this one should be easy since you're going to a concert), books, and ask about things she is interested in. People love to talk about themselves, so if you ask about what she's interested in, you get to listen to her, which she will likely enjoy, and you get to learn about her and what you have in common as well. It's a win-win situation. That being said, don't let the conversation be one-sided, either. Also, try not to talk about one topic the entire time, especially if she's not interested in it. My last date consisted mostly of listening to the guy ramble on about his Civilizations IV game. There wasn't a second date.
As far as what to wear, just wear what you would normally wear to a concert.First date advice please?
If she's going with you, she obviously likes what she knows about you. Talk about things you have in common: school, friends, the musicians/group that you're seeing. Once you get started, she'll pick up the ball and help carry the conversation.
I don't know what kind of concert you're going to. If it's the philharmonic in a formal concert hall, dress up a bit. If it's a casual band, jeans are perfect.
Have fun and don't worry.
Well ur prolly just be listening to the music for most the time so u dont have to worry about talking haha just kidding. You can talk about the things u have in common or something interesting and wear what you normally would wear, be ur self and dont stress
Just relax and be yourself. Tell her how pretty she looks. Don't worry too much about what to talk about once you are at the concert- it will probably be too loud to talk. Make sure you offer to get her something to eat/drink. Be thoughtful, try to anticipate her needs. Zone in on non verbal ques. You will be fine. Good Luck!
Wear something nice.....not a suit or anything..but just fit in with the other people that are going to the concert. Try to be funny...or be serious you know her more then i do. Be yourself i guess.....if shes liked what shes seen up to the concert you need to continue what you were doing before. Good luck man.
Wear something that you would normally wear, and talk about what you would normally talk about. If you try to be someone or something that your not, you will screw everything up in the long run.
Start out with small talk, compliment her a lot, talk about your surroundings.
Wear something that you feel comfortable in and you don't have to play around and fix it all the time.
Just stay cool, because if you're cool, she'll be cool.
talk about music and how the band you are seeing relates to other bands. The first date is always the easiest because your getting to know each other... so ask what she likes to do. Wear a button down t-shirt and jeans with dressy sneakers.
hm...
my guesses are
wear fancy style, like as you know that fashion??
talk like ' after this concert i booking on restaurant, would you want go with me?' or 'i just like having fun today!'
or 'today we will gonna just freak out!'
something like that....
I'm a guy, but just be yourself man! Dress as your normally do, but just be clean and don't go overboard on the cologne (women can smell better than us). Smile a lot, listen to her (ask questions about herself) and hold her hand at some point.
Have fun!
Remember she will be as nervous as you so just be yourself.
Wear something casual and talk about the band that you will see at the concert. Have fun and everything will fall into place.
talk about stuff you interested in and ask what she likes. dress like your self like you always do and be yourself awnser mine please
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Alb7yQWao4iRh4G6J31yKuTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090705190839AA2GN8H
Just act like yourself... i know it sounds cheesy but its really the best peice of advice. A concert doesnt involve much conversation except about the band/song playing. Good Luck!
talk about anything. Wear something comfortable. and just be relaxed and be your self
Where something casual and comfortable. You always look better when you feel comfortable. As for talking...It's a first date! So just ask her questions to find out more about her. (not like stalking her though)
Just tell her you are are nervous if you feel that way. As far as what to talk about, just get her talking and go with she wants to talk about.
Talk about how much you like her boobs, and wear something that accentuates your package.
make her laugh, be yourself, ask her for another date, if possible hold her hand!
i love The Enlightener. that is all.
the best advice ANYONE can give you....is be yourself. if she dosent like you for you, it may be time to find someone who will.. good luck
dont talk about anything your at a concert, just drop it like its hot and grind yo pants off lol
1st of relax if you seem nervous it will make things awkward.
Well since your going to a concert talk about music.
What's her favorite song by that band? When did she first here them?
Did she instantly love them? This band kinda reminds me of____ have you heard of them?
If you've had too much talk about music go for.
Well it looks like we have a lot in common as far as music goes what about food? What kind do you like?
Or Well it looks like we don't have the exact same taste in music I'm sure we have somethings in common what's your favorite food?
Food can be interchanged with color, animal, hobbies, classes. anything.
Food is a good conversation though because at the end of the date you can mention a restaurant that you like that serves her favorite type of food.
';Oh I like Italian too. You know there is this great place by _______
I could show it too you if you want';
Don't make a date immediately If she wants too it's fine call her 2 days after and say ';I was think about that restaurant I told you about You want to go Saturday?';
ALSO very important Don't talk during the music just in between set-ups and stuff, You can say some little things like I love this song and stuff but the conversation will be short because she wants to listen and then you'll feel weird and nervous because you think the convo is going no where.
and Don't hang all over her stand by her but don't hug her from behind and hold on it'll be weird since it's your first date.
Clothes wear what you'd normally where Maybe you favorite shirt though Don't over do it and Don't put on a mountain of cologne jut a little.
Good Luck.
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