alright. forget about all the stupid people up^ there
saying stuff about sex.
be yourself, be nice,
during the movie try and hold her hand...
if she likes you enough
she probably wants to
hold your hand too.
if you walk her home or if someone is picking you
up after, when you drop her off at her house
walk her to the door,
hug her, and stay like a about foot away from her
and if she turns to walk inside shes not ready for a kiss
but if she waits and kinda stalls ( or says i really had fun with you)
and looks at you just really really slowly move to kiss her,
if she turns away then just back up a little and
tell her goodnight.... and once she walks inside
leave. don't feel bad if that happens... i know you will either way but
it happens to most of us at least once.
but if you actually get your kiss that means she really
likes you.
say goodnight, let her go inside and as you walk away keep looking back, turn around and walk backwards if you can.
feel like the luckiest guy in the world.
you will, i don't have to tell you.
let me know what happens.!!!!
-Colton Y- 14Any First date advice for a 14 year old?
ok this is my advice in general movies are probely a bad first date just because on a first date you dont know where the other persons feelings are at and at the movies its dark and you guys are going to be watching a movie not interacting. Next time try dinner or bowling for a FIRST date but as for the movies:
be polite and be yourself shes going out with you for YOU not some guy who is trying to act COOL or anything like that.
You should offer to pay but if she wants to then you should get her ask her if she wants some candy or a drink and just be nice. Try and make her laugh and be the guy she said yes to for the date not anyone else :)
Hope this helps and I dont want to scare you that a movies first date is bad, because it's not but if you want to talk and interact with her you should trysomething that is more 1 on 1 interaction but I hope you guys have fun and it goes well.
Hold her hand in the movies theater but don't touch anywhere else, and ask her if she would like popcorn and a drink, other than than I think you pretty much know what you should do as you already said. Be yourself and she will like you that is why she agreed to go out with you in the first place. If you want to kiss her later you should ask her ';is it o.k if I kiss you';, and see what she says.
Hold the door open for her, ladies first. Give her the option of picking the snacks out and if she doesn't want anything, give her the option of picking out the seat.
Just be yourself. Ask her about her family, her dreams, how school is going, what she likes to do for fun? Movies she likes? Etc... Unfortunately, you can't really talk much because it is a movie. But, before the movie just be a gentleman and talk about stuff like that. Good luck hun!!
dont listen to the other people. that movie's fine i mean what kinda guy wants to sit through a freakin 3 hour chick flick. im a girl and i wouldnt even want to do that. i wen ton a double date and saw quantum of solace, and btw it was good, and fine.
but anyway try doing that whole stretch arm around her shoulder move. its hot. and yes, DO NOT wear to much cologne, its gross.
Well I'm 13 and I've seriously dated about 2 and a half guys... So if this is ur first date DONT TRY TO MAKE OUT!!!!!!! only if she wants to.... but chances are she won't. And 1 spray will do for the cologne. Don't wear something tooooo shabby wear something between nice and ewwww. DON';T TELL HER YOU LOVE HER unless the relationship is really going that fast... wait till the 2nd date or after a week. Tell her she looks beautiful.. even if it embarrasses u. Thats the first couple a steps ;) JUST DONT TAKE IT TO FAST! please don't it would mess up everything! So just be yourself.... The worst you can do is lie.
Good Luck! And Have Fun!!!!
unless you want to pay child support at 15 and have your wages garnished for the rest of your life, you better not have sex, or use 3 types of birth control all at the same time to make sure she doesn't get preganat, ..not including the fact that you could go to jail for statuatory rape of a minor.
dnt be to pushy on the first d8...like for a kiss or w/e....smile so u dnt make her nervous, cuz if ur not smiling she might think ur not having fun or that sumthin is wrong with her clothes or sumthing....and if u do get nervous, jus tell her ur nervous, that will probably make her think ur sweet, i know it does for me :D
Enjoy the movie. Don't make too much of the date part. Be yourself. You'll be fine. Don't stress on this. You two like each other or you wouldn't be going out. So, again, enjoy the movie.
just be yourself. except don't burp in front of her or anything or she just might leave. so be calm and don't make her do anything she doesn't want to do. and if you kiss ok.
lol. same exact situation. dorry worry bout it, be yourself, cause she hearts you if she wants to go, give her a hug, and hold her hand.
during the movie put your arm around her,
at the end of the date you should walk her to her doorstep and kiss her goodnight, or hug
JUST KNOW 2 HAVE FUN n BE U dats y she witcha
~enuf said HAVE FUN~
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Be nice and Funny, girls especially like funny guys. Just respect her and try to hold her hand.
be sweet, don't rush things, pick up on hints she might be giving. keep it PG13 on the first date.
take a shower. and maybe next time take her to a girl's type movie, james bond actions movies are kinda more for guys.
Don't dress 2 fancy and not 2 old be cool and act like urself man just 2 let u know
be yourself. You wont want her to like your for what your not. Make conversation. :D itl be fine.
Be a gentlemen!
Uh.... wear a condom, don't bang her mom, not much else you need to know
Wait 'til your 20. Don't buy one until you have to.
Wrap it before you tap it. You never know where she's been.
Aww, its so cute that your asking..
Just be a nicer version of yourself. lol
Try looking on the net for some really good gentleman like behaviour that will knock her socks off
Be original, and stand out so she remembers you like no other
-arrive early to speak to her parents (esp her father), tell them about you and what you do in school, what classes you have with her in school, tell her where you want to take her, what time you want to have her home, and that your intention is maybe to give her a hug goodnight or a kiss on the cheek, and that would be out of genuine appreciation for her company with you for the evening
(you will knock her parents socks off - so long as you are genuine)
- for her, get her a rose to show her you care, dress well, be aware of the details, like opening the door for her everywhere, wearing a warmer than usual coat that you will wear, but in case she is cold, she can wear it, ask her if she would like something to drink, to eat, (she may say no thanks, so before, find out what she usually has at the movies with her friends/family and say to her, ';I know that you like such-and-such so I am going to get it for you because you're my first date, and I want to remember my first date and everything about you'; - this sounds cheesy for guys (those rolling their eyes) but a female will feel enormously faltered, even if she doesn't touch what you buy her (because most females are on a diet at that age anyways),
- tell her that you are going to ask her if you can hold her hand and stuff because ';I want you to know that you can always say no, and I won't be mad at you, or not call you, or stop talking to you, etc, because I would rather than you be comfortable, than say yes to something that you don't really want to do, like holding hands, hugging'; (ALMOST ALL WOMEN say yes to things that they really want to say no to, because they are afraid of what will happen if they say no, or risk hurting the feelings of another - WOMEN DON'T LKE HURTING MEN'S FEELINGS. SO A YES FOR A WOMAN IS REALLY A NO, AND A NO MEANS A YES) - [thats why you might order what she likes in a restaurant, so if she eats a salad, she can pick off your plate - so be sure to offer some to her, as it may be the only way to get her to eat something]- then ask her if she enjoyed the movie after, ask always if you can hold her hand (before the movie), ask if she would be uncomfortable if you were to kiss her hand, or hug her, or give her a peck on the cheek, (nothing more than that for a first date), see if she is hungry or thirsty after the movie, and get her again what you know she likes if she says no, and have it yourself so she will have some, tell her how much you enjoyed her company, (very important) and if you say you are going to call her (PLEASE CALL HER) as 99% of women sit by the phone waiting for that call, and think terrible thoughts if they don't hear from their date, and blame themselves. Try to speak to her the next day or day after, in class on the phone, whatever, and for god's sake (DON'T EVER TELL ANY OFYOUR MALE FRIENDS WHAT YOU DID OR DIDN'T DO) Don't ever wreck the reputation of a female to look good infront of your friends, and tell them that you scored when you didn't, in fact, keep that part of your life private and don't give in to them wanting details, (they can read tabloids for that), show respect for her by saying nothing to the bare minimum and you will gain a better reputation with her and other females (which works out to your benefit, not your friends)
This is from someone who had a memorable first date (16), a memorable first kiss (15), a memorable first intimacy (25), all from different males who made it special.
Best of luck, keep me informed.
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