Sunday, December 27, 2009

First Date Advice Needed Please?

Were going for dinner, then perhaps the cinema, if we do go to cinema my question is: do I attempt to hold her hand midway through the film? Or just judge it from how the date has gone?





Also, for a first date I'm guessing a kiss on the cheek at the end is ok?





I ask because I really don't wanna mess it up with this girl by doing anything she might not be comfortable with.First Date Advice Needed Please?
Hi there,





I say just see how it goes after dinner. If during the movie she gives u a smile or has her body leaning towards you (as opposed to away from you) its a good sign. U don't want to reach over and 'hold her hand'; depending on how old you are. young teen, this is ok, but 18 and older prob not, seems a bit desperate. what you can do is like a little affectionate scratchy (mini scratch massage) for 2 seconds and smile at her, then look away and keep watching the movie. This way ur letting her know u like her, whilst not seeming desperate (always hot in a guy).





and you never know, she'll prob repay the fave with a peck on the lips herself when the night ends ;)





but yes a kiss on the cheek is sufficient if u want to seem like the perfect gentlemanFirst Date Advice Needed Please?
i would say don't do the touchy feelie thing. let her enjoy the movie without making her nervous even if she likes you she would still feel nervous if u grab her hands during the movie. yes give her a kiss on the cheek at the end of the date making sure your breath isnt smelling like popcorn. save the touching (of the hands) for the second or third date. don't forget the to compliment her hair or earrings or shoes. dont do so much the clothes she might think u was looking at her boobs or butt or something.
yeahh if you wanna hold her hand then hold it. you already know she has some interest in you since shes going on a date. butt yeah. or you can just wrap your arm around her.


and i really think that the girl is supposed to be the one who kisses the cheek at the end. but if she doesnt you can if you wantt.
You will know if she is comfortable by her body language. Remember 1 foot is in the door. She wouldn't be going out with you if she wasn't interested. Some girls like take charge men. Just be a good judge. Good luck and have fun.
i reckon (for me) it would be awkward a guy holding my hand midway thorugh a film, just try and cuddle up with her or something.


and yes a kiss on the cheek is good when the dates finnished.
it is annoying to hold a hand all of the movie


let HeR eat popcorn rather go for the arm across the baCK WITH A HUG ON THE TENDER PART OF THE MOVIE


OR GO FOR THE HAND ON THE SCARY PART of EASE HER FEAR
a kiss on the cheek is perfect.


enuff to show yuu care btt not tryna do too much.


if the dates going good then during the movie hold her hand.


shell thnkk it cute

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