Friday, April 30, 2010

First date advice??/?

I recently ended a 6 year relationship, and I am going on my first date since the break up. This is kind of my first real date. I have been with the same guy since I was 17. We are going for coffee and then to see a movie. I don't know if I should offer to pay for my half of the date?? He would score points with me if he pays for me, but I am afraid that if I offer to pay my half he will get offended, if I don't he might think I am a gold digger. What is the ettiquette on this??First date advice??/?
Yes offer to pay. If he says no then he's a gentleman, but when you are out for coffee offer your 2 cents %26amp; see what he says will find out alot about his character that way also in how he responds to your offer.





Good Luck, I know it's hard, but I hope you have fun being back out there :)First date advice??/?
if it truly is a date, let him pay.....
Yes, offering to pay half, and not just assuming that he pays for all of it will work in your favor.
its good that you actually think like that, theres a lot of girls out there that would not even think of paying half!


i think the best thing 2 do is wait to see how it feels on the night.


if he pays 4 the coffee and film then why not ask if he fancies a drink after and insist on paying for them as he`s paid 4 the rest. i bet you`d score more points in his books 4 that!


good luck,

Dating advice on how to meet someone?

Where is the best place to meet somebody. I have been going to lots of clubs but meet the same kind of people there (one night stands) if you are looking for something else where would be a good place to go?Dating advice on how to meet someone?
walk up to someone fine and say hello





if that doesn't work, try it nakedDating advice on how to meet someone?
Meet online! You will be automatically matched to people in your area that have the same agenda as you do. There's a ton of good sites.

Prom date advice?

okay,here's the story. I want to ask this girl out to senior prom. she graduated from h.s last yr. were pretty good friends i'd like to think. kind of liked her for a while. except now i hardly ever see her.i've seen her a few times,but not that often. so how could i ask her? seems kind of informal to do it over computer(facebook,aim,etc). so,what should i do?Prom date advice?
call her up and ask her to hang out. if things go well, then ask her while youre together. but if you havent seen her in a while... you dunno how the chemistry is gonna work out or if she'd even be up for going with you... so it's better to get together and ask in personProm date advice?
call her!!!


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  • First date! Advice/Help please!?

    I met him a few times in our University and finaly he asked me for a coffee. I like him so far and generaly I am interested in a longterm and a serious relationship. On the first date, are there any norms that one show follow? Any speicific topics that need to be discussed? Do you suggest any DOs and Don'ts? As a girl, how can I gain more control over my emotions and be more involved in the conversation?





    Thanks in advance!First date! Advice/Help please!?
    make LOTS of small talk and be sure not to lie and just be urself! it always works but i kno that its hard but if he sees the real you then youll know if he likes you for u of just using you for something. if it doesnt work out then srry but theres many fish in the sea! Good Luck!First date! Advice/Help please!?
    It's a first date! Relax and have fun!!! Don't worry about anything long term at this point, just figure out if you like the guy and go from there!
    First of all, calm down - it'll be fine. Try not to plan anything, you're just gonna get stressed out. If there are any awkward silences (there will be) make sure you laugh.. don't let it stay quiet. Ask questions about him: ';Favorite movie, what music he likes, what classes he's taking.'; Just breathe. It'll be fine.
    i tend to drink entirely too much on my first dates....lol
    do wat u do when u do it let him hit the fist nite it will make everything better
    just be your self

    Movie date,advice pleaseeeee(:?

    okay,im going to the movies with this guy i could possibly really like,but like i don't know how to be like during the movie because i don't want to be making out or anything and idk if he wants too but i don't how can i act likei am into him,i just don't want to do that yet,helppp!Movie date,advice pleaseeeee(:?
    Just follow his lead and go along with it if you want to.

    First date advice! helpp?

    this is the first time when im actually gonna go on a date with my girlfriend...my first date. im 14.. and i got no idea what to do when im out with her. Like what should i talk about. Do we have to keep talkin? like what do u talk about... how to stop from beein kind of nervous. and what should i get her? like a perfume or wot!!? dam confused out here. help.. tnksFirst date advice! helpp?
    ur already dating and ur 14?!?!? wow, ur good--i waited till i was basically 16. lol. anyways....hmmm advice. first of all--LIGHTEN UP!!!! shes prob just as nervous and if the guy seems relaxed it can help lighten the ';tension';. don't worry bout wat to toc bout--jus let it flow. everything will go perfect %26amp; when u get home u'll wonder why u ever worried bout wat to toc bout. %26amp; its ok if its quiet sometimes. no worries just be yourself and things will take care of themselves :) ooh and try giving her a flower or something instead of perfume.


    hope i helped a lil bit.........First date advice! helpp?
    comeon, you guys are just 14. A date is not serious for your age, just have fun like friends.

    1st Date Advice/Help?

    It just seems like I never have any luck, it could just be me, but it could also be the dates, the plain simple lunch or dinner and see a movie kind of date. I'm guessing most girls find that to be boring! After all, can't chat during the movie!





    My question being, what would be some great activities to do on a first date? The kind of activities that are fun and will allow you to get to know someone. More importantly, the kind of things that can get someone to be interested in you, not view you as someone thats boring %26amp; bland!





    Thanks!1st Date Advice/Help?
    EXACTO MUNDO BRO. hehe CAPSLOCK. :D Anyway, you pretty much answered yourself on the first part. Yes. Never go out on a first date at the movies. Next. It really depends on the girl. If the girl likes Anime. Take her to an Anime Expo. If the girl likes Bands, invite her to listen to you play guitar. If the girl likes to go to the movies, she's using you (trust me!). Anyway if it's GENERAL fun things. Go to the mall, amusement park. Anywhere with lots of things to do.





    But really. If you want her to get interested in you. Take her to somewhere she likes (just like i said earlier) You can start conversations if you both like the same thing. Places won't automatically get a girl to like you.1st Date Advice/Help?
    Avoid the movies, simple as that. I would do miniature golf, since it takes a long time to finish a freaking game. You can also go apple picking or go hiking or go for a picnic or go to an amusement park, you can spend a whole day at Disneyland for example and have to have conversations while you wait in the freaking 2 hour lines. And if you are more adverturous you can always go for a sex orgy or something.
    For a first date there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie, and going somewhere private but public to talk (that way no one feels uncomfortable because the two of you just met) or maybe ask her for suggestion as to what she wants to do on the first date and if there is a second date, you plan that date, asking is always better than assuming, and if anyone finds you and/or your views boring, they 're probably not worth spending your time on anyways...........Good Luck and have a drink for me (smile)
    You need to find something where the two of you can interact. Some ideas of mine: bowling, go cart racing, miniture golfing, a local amusement park or carnival (to play the games), a japanese restaurant (where they cook in front of you) a comedy club (be sure to sit up front. The comedians will bring up all the points that might seem awkward but remind her that you are not her ';freind';) just to name a few. But always remember, go into each date casually. Don't excite her, thinking that you guys are gana have the time of your lives. When a date does not meet the (high) expectations, she will usually think your the reason.
    you could ask her what kindof things she likes to do.


    most girls like going to the park, thats a cute and casual way to get to know someone.


    but it could also get boring if you dont have any good things to talk about.


    but if thats the case, it probably wouldnt work anyways.


    we've all had our fair share of awkward silent moments.


    so if that happens, make a joke about it.


    hope that sort of helped.


    good luck.
    Go for a delicious meal, followed by a stroll in the park and then invite her to your house, or take her home and hopefully she'll invite you in! If not, be a gentlemen, hug her not kiss its 1st date and say goodnight!
    maybe if you changed the simple lunch or dinner into maybe something on the beach it might be fun, because that way you're able to go and have a swim, walk etc and you could get to know each other
    i LiKE MOViES


    make-OUT tiME!!!;]


    but chill at the mall


    walk around i like to walk and talk


    or just some place nice %26amp; quiet


    not so crowded walk around ......


    %26amp; talk i like that too


    or dont be afraid to show ur kid side=]


    have fun


    blaser tag


    lol


    chuck E cheese


    chet liek dat=]]\


    tell me if dat help at all
    well, my bf took me on a picknick for our first date. and if it's by a lake, that would tottally make it romantic. talk about likes, dislikes things you have in common. stuff like that. GOOD LUCK! :)
    golfing even if it is putt putt- dont keep score


    the beach- always fun for both


    But basically always laugh and eat


    two very inportant things for girls
    Miniature golfing, swimming, hiking, bicycling...these are a few suggestions. You should use your imagination.
    Definitely bowling or karaoke or miniature golf, or an amusement park.
    put on a porn
    ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do

    First date advice!!(: [hairrr]?

    sooo i'm gonna go on this date with this guy


    and well...


    i'm having a really, really hard time decided how to do my hair! D:


    my hair is black, straight, and long (down to like my boobs)


    what do you think?





    and this guys all hardcore status


    he's 6'1'; and has a fohawk. he's 19.


    if thats of any importance... x]





    thank you!(:First date advice!!(: [hairrr]?
    Just wear your hair in a way that makes you comfortable, won't bother you through out the date and won't seem like you are trying to hard. The guy isn't dating you to be with your hair, so i'm sure he won't be fussed what you look like. It also depends on what you are doing on the date. If you are having dinner or seeing a movie, you could leave it out but make it look elegant and classy. If you are doing something physical, like playing a game or going outdoors, you may want to tie it back so it doesn't get in your face. Just do whatever you think looks nice and suits you. You don't want to have to be thinking about your hair all night when you should be concentrating on the date. Just feel confident no matter how your hair looks.





    Good luck


    =)First date advice!!(: [hairrr]?
    curl it. as long as it looks different than it normally does, never put it up. long hair is a real beauty that most guys like. have a blast :D
    It really depends on where you are going and what your wearing. If your hair has layers straighten it if not curl it (if it is a casual date)
    curl it :)

    First date... advice?

    We're going to an Italian place...any suggestions on what I should order...something not very messy just in case I make a fool of myself...not the most expensive thing either...omg i'm freaking out!





    Not just food what else should I do...? ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHFirst date... advice?
    quit freaking out calm down order something that you like that isnt messy is a good idea i would sugest a salad or something but since its italian i dont know just be yourself and dont be nervousFirst date... advice?
    Just relax and take a deep breath. Have fun. If all else fails get some wine to relax assuming you are of age of course.
    If he's paying you get what you want...dont;' be shy and eat all you want. Run that bill up. Show him you can put some chow down and be happy. He will respect you more that way! break his wallet down.
    You have the right idea, see if you are comfortable with him. That will allow you to try a kiss if everything else went well. Good Luck.
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  • First Date Advice? clothes, hair, etc.?

    This Friday i'm going on a date to the movies. I've never had a boyfriend, so this will be my first date ever. I'll be grateful for any advice that you have to offer. ex. Clothing choices, make-up, hair, conversation topics, pre-date jitters, or anything else that you can think of. Thank you so much!First Date Advice? clothes, hair, etc.?
    You should opt for a casual skirt and casual jacket ensemble or a summer dress. Keep makeup minimal (lipgloss, mascara, foundation) and wear your hair straight or curly. Just relax and enjoy and know your morals. If something doesn't feel right, then leave.First Date Advice? clothes, hair, etc.?
    just dress like yourself, act like yourself, be yourself

    First date advice...?

    I posted this last night but not much response....





    So... first date... Where should we go?? and what should we do after? movies? or should I just ask her what she feels like doing?





    secondly... I dont think she has a car at home. shes in town from school. Now here's the thing.... I'd more than likely be picking her up at her house, so I'd go to the door, probably meet her parents. Is this weird on a first date? Isn't meeting parents more reserved for when things get serious?First date advice...?
    well just prepare yourself to meet the parents. But i wouldn't go for movies jus because you don't really get to know that person. I would say dinner, then a coffee (starbucks) location and chat. Usually it's a nice relaxing nothing dramatic date.First date advice...?
    Take her out...to som casual place...as this is ur first meeting it shudnt be too noisy or too quiet around...i think movies is the best idea and most common one as well.. u can find wht she likes mostly n can go or tht after movies..e.g. games like bowling or so...





    meeting parents is obviously a serious thing...but it depends on ur gut feelings...sometimes its nice to pick up someone from her door and just say hi to thier parents..u dont neeed to sit and chit chat...just knock on the door and ask for her..simple...when she is there..run fast as u can...i know ur heart wud b pounding tht time..lol...good luck..
    Tough one man, meeting the parents isn't necessarily a bad thing and it is not always reserved for getting serious (but if you do start to get serious with her it'll make it less awkward because you've already met the parents anyway) I doubt you'd be talking to them that long anyway and it would show you've got good intentions...





    A movie is always good but you gotta do something with it like grab a coffee before or afterwards so you can actually talk...or you could go for a walk or go to a bar or something...
    no, it makes you look serious about seeing her. not like your just in it for her pants. so have fun with it.





    and date advice, maybe go for a little walk in the park, then a nice restaurant, then maybe to a funny movie, but nothing piggish for guys. something fun
    well...


    do something funn...different that you both will enjoy like..rollersakting or bowling or even going somewhere to hoops up. after go to like dinner at a pizza place somewhere casual....

    Double Date Advice....?

    My girlfriend is going to set up a double date.





    She wants me to take out this shy girl at her work to build up her confidence and so she can go along and it isnt odd she is going to ask a guy from work to go with her.





    If the date is going well they are going to take off so this girl and I can catch a movie or something.





    So what would be a good outfit to wear on a first date - dinner and a movie kinda thing????Double Date Advice....?
    wait ur girlfriend is letting u take out another girl?? and shes going out with another guy??





    WEIRD!!!???Double Date Advice....?
    Why isn't the shy girl going with the friend from work? That is really wierd. If you're gonna go with it though, keep it super casual, like a polo and shorts from AE/AF/HCO, those style and flip flops.
    Sounds like your girlfriend is setting you up so she can date someone else. You should not be part of fooling this shy girl, unless you are interested in her.


    Don't play this game, ask your girlfriend what's up?


    Good Luck!
    no offense, but it's kinda weird that u're gf is okay w/ u going out w/ some other girl from her work... :-/

    Need date advice?

    Hey, im goin on a d8 and i need advice. STuff like where to go (if movies wich 1) how to ask the parental units to give me a ride and other advice i could use, thnx and wish me luckNeed date advice?
    in your situation you need to double date go with some one who can drive. you just might want to go to the movies because that would suck to ride around a long time in the back of your moms back seat.Need date advice?
    cant help you but good luck.

    Romantic date advice??

    Friday my boyfriend and I will be going out for a year and 8 months. and we want to do something special because we both have that night off and that rarely ever happens and we dont really go out much. so does anyone have any advice for a nice romantic evening that is very inexpensive? Because with bills and everything we dont have much money left over. but i want it to be a special night. because we deserve it. and things have been a little bumby and we need a night to relaxe and enjoy ourselves. and thanks for any advice!!!Romantic date advice??
    watch a movie,,have a nice cheap dinner at home,then go out to a nice little outside cafe 4 some dessert,,,share one its cheaper. then get some coffee to go %26amp;go for a nice nite time stroll holding hands ,nice conversation ,some laughs, the air is cool its dark,a few soft kisses during your stroll....you make the first move if nec.! go back home ...change into something soft. watch another movie '; try ..it could happen to you'; great movie! youll love it...i promise! then snuggle on sofa w blanket......neither of u should get sleepy,,,u had coffee %26amp; a walk! then go to bed after movie and make love or fall asleep in his arms...make first move if needed, second,,, just go with it tonite... thats my plan %26amp; its cheap....get movies on thurs...not the day of your date %26amp; no watching tv!!!!!!!! from dinner on. this will work to flatten out that bumpy road ......u just gotta give it effort tonite....this will work!Romantic date advice??
    romance is out these days

    Prom date....advice?

    so my junior prom is in 7 weeks...I have never had a date for anything so I'm determined to get a date for prom. There's this girl who is in a few of my classes and her locker is right next to mine, and I'm really hoping to ask her to prom. We are friendly with each other, but we're not friends outside school. I try to strike up a conversation when I see her to get to know her better, but the problem is that the only things we seem to talk about are school-related. The reason why I'm worried is because she hasn't shown any real signs of returning my crush feelings about her, and like I said before she is just ';friendly';. So I'm hoping to ask her to prom within the next 2-3 weeks, but I need some advice on how to get to know her well enough that my chances of getting her to go to prom with me are favorable. I don't want to force personal (nonschool) things into our conversations, but I'm not making the progress I want. Any advice for getting to know her better or for asking her to prom?Prom date....advice?
    First of all, you're off to a great start because you actually talk to her. well the next time you have a conversation, try to talk about non-school-related stuff, like music or something. Find out what she is interested in, and if she is really smart or a hard-working student or something then maybe talking about school isn't a bad idea, but that's for you to decide. You should ask her soon, especially if she's really popular, before she gets taken. I can empathize with you on this because asking somebody to prom can be nerve-racking. I guess you just have to go up and ask her. Remember, if you don't ask, it'll always be a no, but if you do ask, it could be a yes. Plus, if she's single and all, it'll be a good chance of her saying yes because she's friendly with you.Prom date....advice?
    Try to talk about things OUTSIDE school.


    If you only talk about school, she'll think you have no life other than school.





    It's just a Prom, ask her. Even just go as friends.
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  • 1ST DATE ADViCE [:?

    i juzst got out of a long term relationship %26amp; i knoe i AM ready to start dating. so i have a date tomrrow %26amp; i need some tips haha how to be more flirty?


    what to wear?


    how do i knoe if he likes me?


    help meeee![:1ST DATE ADViCE [:?
    girl, a good question.


    i would say be yourself


    some nice heels sexy outfit, but not slu**y


    confidance confidance


    and a smile


    thats all you need to be a sucess


    good luck enjoy yourself


    and where you going??1ST DATE ADViCE [:?
    wearing something comfy but casual... ask him about himself and his plans for the future... i dont think there is any way to know if he likes you right off the bat just take things as they come

    2nd date advice?

    Im 19 and ater a week of deceiding whether or not to see a lad again i am meeting him this afternoon for our 2nd date. this is the first time ive properly dated a lad, as i was forced by my dad to focus on my horseriding career (now ended!). im really nervous, what have you lot usually done on a 2nd date?2nd date advice?
    good for u!, just remember atience is a virtue take things slow and be yourself !2nd date advice?
    My second dates are usually for lunch or a coffee, best thing to do is keep it simple and make it somewhere you can talk and get to know each other better. Try not to be too nervous,he properly is too! Hope you enjoy yourself x
    Hey sister,


    Don't let him screw you though.


    But get to know him better.
    you need to just turn up and be yourself. talk about what interests you and what films you have seen recently or what books you are reading. remmeber silences are not bad and you just need to smile sweetly if there is one and theboy will come up with somethin to say. it is much better to let him do the talking and you follow his lead it is less stressful for you and far more productive for the date. be easy to be with and make sure you have fun. wear something you feel pretty in and are comfortable in. most importnantly look forward to it.

    First date advice?

    Have you ever made a girl drive an hour to meet you at a restaurant if you didnt know any good places where she lived at or would you go pick her up at her house and drive back to your area just to take her out to dinner?





    Also what do you think about making the girl go dutch just to make her more interested in you? Does that actually work?First date advice?
    can't say that i have. have her drive if possible. if she can't, it's your choice whether you want to pick her up or not.





    you could suggest going dutch, especially for a first date. going dutch doesn't necessarily build attraction. it would only show her that you're not trying to ';buy'; her affection. basically, that you have more to offer to her than money.





    no matter what, though, have fun! that's what it's all about.


    good luck, man!First date advice?
    If you are asking her out,


    then you should pay


    instead of being a tightwad.


    That won't impress her.


    I suggest doing something fun


    instead of a dinner date, movie or coffee.


    If you do something fun together,


    that will break the ice alot better than


    the typical first dates usually do.
    Since you are the one asking her out, she should not be expected to pay or travel to you for the date. Do your homework. Look around her area and explore the different restaurants. I wonder where you got the idea that if the girl pays for her meal that she will be more interested in you? That would totally turn me off. I'd be insulted. And no, it doesn't work - unless you want to have the woman believe that you are to cheap to pay for a meal on a date.





    Do you know what splitting a tab, expecting her to drive to your town is called? Friendship. Nothing more than that.





    My male friends and I would always split meals and drinks. We took turns driving. We never moved from the status of friendship.





    When my male friends took out women on dates, they paid for everything, treated the woman with upmost respect and went to where she was.





    There is a difference between meeting up as friends and going on a date.





    I would also be insulted if you came to pick me up, the spent a hour on the road to go to a restaurant because you were too snobby (and yes that's how I'd see you) to eat in my town.





    So, rethink this - do you want a date or friendship.





    Date - then you pay, you go to her and you find a nice place to eat.





    Friendship, either you go to her or she comes to you, you split the meal and no hanky panky afterwards.





    Good luck
    THE LEAST YOU CAN DO IS PAY MAN GEEZ DONT BE A CHEAP A$$!


    ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS DRIVING ALL THE WAY TO YOU... WHICH IS ALSO NOT COOL TO MAKE HER DRIVE THAT FAR!!!!PICK HER UP OR COME UP WITH SOMETHING BETTER
    first date you need to pay for her meal pick her up and see that she gets home safe also on time if she has a cerfew. talk to her she may know of a nice place near her house she may also be more at ease if you keep her in an area that she knows. P.S. compliments work best at the begining of the date. flatter her and dont be a tightass. later going dutch might be acceptable. good luck
    I would not make her drive an hour to your area!!! Ask around and find out what good restuarents are near her place! Ask her or friends...





    I don't understand what you meen by the second bit!
    whatever you do... pay for the damn meal you cheapass
    No, I've never made a girl drive that far. I have sent a car (or limo) to pick her up if my schedule did not allow me to pick her up.





    Besides, if you don't know any local places, ask her. Oh, and a tip, don't take her to any seafood places on a first date. She may have allergies.





    As far as going dutch. It doesn't work. You will appear to be cheap. You will not have a second date. The only way I go dutch is if I never intend on seeing this person again... ever.

    First Date !! Advice needed?!?

    If you want more details read my last question. So im going to the movies with him friday and Im nervous... I sound like such a loser but any advice would be very helpful. Thanks in advance :)First Date !! Advice needed?!?
    I would suggest another place because you cant talk much at the movies so you really cant learn about each other. You do what your heart tells you to soFirst Date !! Advice needed?!?
    I think you should go out and eat somewhere. Or go bowling, or arcade. Maybe he can win you something that will be sweet. Go somewhere you guys can talk. Just be yourself. Dont rush into things.





    PLZ HELP ME OUT!


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    Be yourself, It's natural to feel nervous on a first date. I know I was nervous on my first date. Really all I can say is just relax and be yourself.
    Be yourself, don't pick your nose (have a hanky handy for the movie), don't spill soda on yourself or him, wear shoes and clothes that are comfortable, but not an invitation to touch, don't be afraid to say that you'd rather see a different movie, but be willing to try his choice. Don't talk constantly, LISTEN to what he says, answer his questions without giving him a life story, and ASK him about himself and what he likes, and LOOK at him when he talks to you. and when you talk to him. BUT most important -- HAVE FUN and let him know that your did. (if you don't have fun, he'll know it).
    Hey, relax! when i had my first date i had the same feelings. Was this the right guy, is this a good outfit, what is going to happen? You name it i felt it!!! But its not really that scary maybe get to the movies earlier with him and talk for a while maybe you will see more in common...
    first you get to the movies be happy and play with him.then if you want kiss him if you like him and if he like you too.do not talk about when you were a baby that is so first grade
    Men and women are naturally attracted to one another. Even though you're obviously young you need to get to know yourself, it's the only cure for being nervous.





    Who are you? What do you like? What are you good at? What's your personality type? What do you want from a relationship with this guy? How often do you want to see him?


    Don't compromise yet, you're too young.





    Just remember there is a 50/50 shot you'll be attracted to someone, so don't worry about trying to be an attractive person. Whether or not you pursue things in a relationship is a different story that has complications, but even if he doesn't ask you on a second date, that doesn't mean he's not attracted to you on a very basic level.
    just relax and go wit the flow oh yea...WEAR SOMETHING CUTE!
    It's typical to be nervous, but try not to let it show. Just be confident, and focus on having a good time. He obviously likes you, or else he wouldn't have asked you out, so try not to stress about it too much. Just enjoy yourself- that's what dating's all about!

    Need date advice or coaching???

    i'm a chinese guy and i've never dated any other race till i met this white girl 23yrs old about a month ago need dating advice tips on how to date a white girl......likes %26amp; dislikes and what turns you off ladies?????Need date advice or coaching???
    Race doesnt affect fun level on dates, Same rules apply.Need date advice or coaching???
    treat her the way you treat the others
    man... white girls are easy to hendel. ok white people they allways like different country people , exp when you see white female in china that time how you gonne treat her? as respect rite. so white people are same they really dont care about diffrent race . now 2008 . be nice with her try to take her out . exp movie , nice chinese restruent or if she over 21 then take her club , bar or loung. ask her wat she like or wat she dont like that will be help you lot to get her. do thing that she like . that way she will be get more close to . good luck.
    Race has nothing to do with it man- treat her like you would any other girl. Just be yourself.
    Girls are girls--- no matter what ethnicity. Treat her how she should be treated. Be yourself, don't try to be like the other guys. Always put your best foot forward, but don't show off. Be natural... Good luck!!!
    Shouldn't matter what skin you're in.
    have lots of cash handy
    i think basically the rules are the same,


    show her that you care for her


    listen to her and learn what she personally doesn't like or likes and start working around that!

    First date advice?

    I am 40, divorced, and want to start dating again. Problem is I have not been on a first date in 8 years. Where is a good place to go today to meet single females? I am not a bar guy, nor a church goer either. Looking for advice, please helpFirst date advice?
    It is HARD to do my man, but it can be done. Singles sites on the web are good for drumming up some people, but it's better to go to the places you like to go and scout around. There are places that aren't going to work, like your buddy's place to play poker, and in front of the television, but there are plenty that will, depending on what you like to do and what the girl you're looking for likes to do.First date advice?
    The shopping center?
    What about online dating?? I've several friends who have met people this way. Or you could always join an evening class. And be pro-active, my boss who is in his 50's often asks out woman who come into our work, he's not always successful but he sometimes is! Be brave :)
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  • Cinema date advice needed.!!?

    ok i like this guy alot,


    and he likes me aswell which is great!


    he said we should go to the movies together


    i want to go but...


    im not sure if he'll do things with me (kiss and stuff)


    i want to kiss him but i have braces and i have never fully french kissed anyone before


    any tips would be great


    thanks alot:)Cinema date advice needed.!!?
    ummmmm, why would you french kiss on the first date? and then second of all, why does it even matter what will happen. if you go and have fun nothing else matters. he gets what he gets.Cinema date advice needed.!!?
    just brush your teeth.
    ya...mayb wait until further d8s for french kiss and stuff.. but that's me,. only a 7th grader. have mints w/ u and dont eat choclate or anything like that. and braces really dont matter. i hve em too. so, wear sumthing good, and preatend too be scared at the movies. :) he'll enjoy snuggling :)

    Um... date advice please? really stuck...?

    my crush doesn't know i'm crushing on her, and i want to find out if she likes me or not... (only girls) or (guys with experience) please!Um... date advice please? really stuck...?
    just talk to her


    and when you talk to her


    and like yhou can insult yourself


    like be like ';idk...i think girls think im ugly';


    andthen if she is like no your not ugly at all


    then ig uess she could like you


    if she doesnt say anything then you know she doesnt like you








    answer my question please


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    HELPFUL DAtE ADVICE?

    HELPFUL DATE ADVICE: dONT GET A GF A MONTH BEFORE CHRISTMAS (OR KWANZA)


    PS: OR HANNAKAHELPFUL DAtE ADVICE?
    What?


    Okay, I won't, promise!HELPFUL DAtE ADVICE?
    just be nice and dont be cheesy

    First date advice?

    Where is a good place for a first date?First date advice?
    go out to eat and then a movie. it should be fun.First date advice?
    something fun and silly, not seriously romantic.


    are you friends with this person or is it a blind date?


    i think if you're friends, then go miniature golfing or bowling.


    if it's a blind date, go to an aquarium or dinner and a show.

    First date advice?Please help guys.?

    So i'm going to hang out with this guy that I really like but I don't want to mess it up. What are some do's and dont's? Please help guys.First date advice?Please help guys.?
    it's like this first thing not to do is do not get panic so he might think you are not confident on what you are doin and not comfortable with him.


    DONT鈥橲


    1. Never tell him your weak points untill you get to know of him better


    2. Don't go to argue with him for something if it is really neady


    3. Don't restrict him doing funny things with his friends, you have to make him be more responsible about you and your affair little by little


    4. Don't complain him about bad breath or something if he wares something ugly


    DO's


    1. Main thing always try to be more caring about him, show him that you respect him and admire him when ever he does something good


    2. Make sure you smell good i mean your hair, your body


    3. Always try to wear what he likes, even if you don't like it may help you in the long run


    4. Do sacrifices for him and make him feel that you are doing those things to him(do not tell him them verbaly)


    5. Tell him that you love him and he is the perfect match for you and mean it


    Good luck and always let him feel free and be around him as you always look after him

    Group date advice. any idea?

    is it ok to put my arm around my gf on a group date? 1st date with her and she wants to go in a group.Group date advice. any idea?
    prob not, she will prob b uncomfy and never wanna date u again :D be polite yet give her space good luckGroup date advice. any idea?
    No. That's too much for a 1st date
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  • FIRST DATE ADVICE PRETTY PLEASE!?

    I'm 13. I'm a girl (obviously) haha. I am going on my first date with my boyfriend next saturday. We live in southern california and we are going to the mall :) so my questions are...


    What the hell do i wear?


    What shoes?


    Top?


    Skirt?


    Shorts?


    Jeans?


    What?





    I NEED help. Be as specific as possible please (:





    all help is appreciative.FIRST DATE ADVICE PRETTY PLEASE!?
    What the hell do i wear?


    what ever you feel comfortable in. If he doesn't like what you were hes clearly not worth it.

    Need advice on how to date a girl?

    I need some help on trying to get this girl to go out with me. She broke up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, but she still see's him, since he lives right next door. I talk to her and we hang out a couple of times. We both work with each other and I want to know how would I get her to like me even more?Need advice on how to date a girl?
    First you should never date someone you work with. Second you have no chance against a guy that lives next door to her. Time to move on and find a new one to chase.Need advice on how to date a girl?
    Continue to hang out with her. G\ive it another week and if she seems to be into you, ask her out. Make sure you compliment her, but not excessively. Be observant. Say things like, ';Your eyes look exceptionally pretty today.'; It sounds cheesy, but will make her feel special. Be sincere. Be honest. If she is having any problems, and informs you of them, give her good advice. You also may want to invite her to the movies with a group of friends, or out to dinner. THis might give both you and her an idea of what it would be like if you were dating.
    Well if she already broke up with the guy than all you really need to do is let her get to know you more. Talk to her whenever you get the chance, make a few jokes here and there and just basically get to know each other even more. Eventually you can just ask her out on a date. If things turn out well than more dates are sure to follow. Best of luck to you!
    Just flirt with her and give her little signals that you like her. And if she shows you that she likes you then you should make a move on her. If you are to shy to tell her then get someone who you both know to tell her text her or email her and tell her that you like her.





    But if you think that it will ruin your friendship then don't.





    good luck :)
    Step up!,Ask her to go on a date and no not just to the pizza place downtown.I mean out to the movies and to dinner(and don't ask her if you still live your parents please,your going to be embarrassed!,If the guy is next door,move fast get going!





    Hope i helped X P
    You cannot get anybody to like you, it has to happen by itself, looks like she will stay with her boyfriend, and I don't recommend you pursue her, especially since you work together, job relationships will never work out, it will affect your job.
    It's good that you work together, that gives you an excuse to hang out with her! Here's what I think you should do:


    1. Start talking to her more at work, casually. Just ask her how her day is going and stuff like that.


    2. If she seems to like talking to you, then you should be a little bit flirty. Like go out of your way to be nice to her and pay attention to her. She might start to think you like her.


    3. Ask her for her number and if she can text. Text her every now and then, don't call. Text her especially when you have something funny to say about work or whatever and SOMETIMES just to say what's up. Don't ask what's up too much though


    4. Ask her to hang out with a group of mutual friends. Plan to go to a movie or a party with people you both know (if you have mutual friends). So, you can be like hey me and whoever else are going to see I Love You Man or whatever. Make sure to sit by her and pay attention to her when you hang out! If you don't have mutual friends, you can ask her to come hang out with you and your friends, if they would be cool around a girl you like.


    4. If she seems to have fun, ask her to hang out with you by yourself. You can invite her to whatever - a concert, a movie. Don't invite her just to chill at your house yet.


    5. By now, she will know you like her. If she seems to push you away, not answer texts, or say no to hanging out for stupid reasons, she may not like you too. The fact that she sees her ex still isn't really good for you, but who knows! She could be looking for someone to listen to her now that's she's single. If she doesn't act like she likes you, stop inviting her to things, but be really casual and nice at work. If she does act like she likes you, keep hanging out and talk about deeper stuff. Eventually, you can ask her to be your girlfriend.

    Help girls need 1st date advice?

    Im going ( my friend set us up) on sort of a blind date ive talked to her on the phone and set the date up that way. I want the date to be original and make a good impression on her, so my idea was to take her to a haunted house its sort of romantic in a weird way. what do you think? please help.Help girls need 1st date advice?
    haunted house wouldn't be my idea of a 1st date, but if she is into that, that's great....


    If not try a picnic at the beach......... roller blading something you don't do all the time...

    I need some First Date Advice.?

    I do not date too often, nor am I experienced. I am 21 years old and I am going out with a girl that I have like since high school. I was wondering what I should do on the first date. Where I should go for dinner, what I should take her to after? (Lucky Strike?). Just need some help on basic advice and ideas.





    ThanksI need some First Date Advice.?
    Definitely go out to dinner and see a movie.


    Try to relax and maybe even get ice cream after.I need some First Date Advice.?
    Well, first you must have some manners to your girlfriend. Also tell her about your life like your most success full experience and some hard times. Make her laugh, tell some good jokes that are not so corny. Always focus on her, ask her if shes alright or how shes doing?. This depends what kind a girl she is if she either wants to go to fancy, modern or average restaurants. Or Chinese, viet, thai restaurants. You must ask her and if she likes Chinese food google in the most delicious Chinese restaurant in your city! Have fun! Take her home right after dinner! You don't want her parents to worry!
    step 1. buy her dinner


    step 2. movie (oh ya dinner and movie im so cliche)


    step 3. initiate drinking


    step 4. stick it in her :D

    Date advice please?

    On Saturday, I am going to be on a date with this girl (our first) and it is a small, decent restaurant in a college town. Its low-key. How should I dress? I don't wanna be too bold or too underdressed. I am 24 by the way.Date advice please?
    well first impressions are good so i would say do not wear some t-shirt but also dont go too over board with a tux and all the fancy stuff. i would say where a nice maybe a type of polo shirt, tucked in or not, tucked in might look nerdyish and not tucked in would be lazy. but i would go with tucked in. then some nice jeans that arent baggyDate advice please?
    Ok well i had this problem too man





    Ok first tell yourself everythings fine and dont worry bout what she thinks cuz if she dont like you cuz they way you dress shes not worth it


    2. Try to dress kinda nice not to flashy or anything


    3. Make sure to take a shower before goin lol and obvsiously put on deoderent and maybe some cologne But not too much lol


    4. Be yourself and dont flirt too much


    5. If you think she wants to kiss you ( usualy doesnt happen on first date but if she does then wait for her to come almost 1/4 of the way and then slowly go the rest dont go striaight it for it that will creep her out


    I hope this helped man good luck and have fun cheers
    if it is a decent restruant wear a good pair of blue jeans (they go with anything) and a nice-ish shirt.
    why dont you wear some dark jeans with dress shoes a long sleeve button down shirt a tie and blazer jacket
    a nice button down shirt, not too dressy, and jeans. pls wear a nice pair of shoes. no tennis shoes!!
    Wear a short sleeve button down shirt, Or polo shirt. drss pants. and a nice pair of shoes. no sandles.
    just wear a suit

    Date advice please .?

    im going on a date (soo called) tonight with a guy i really like . we are going too his house . then too the movies . i have big arms . how do i hide them . i want too wear a purple long sleve shirt and a dark pair of jeans . also i got a pimple on my nose what do i do about that . its really red .Date advice please .?
    wear the shirt! dont worry about the pimple. we all get them!
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  • PLEASE help me first date advice needed!!!Thank You!!?

    Ok so im 12 and im going with a 13 year old guy, were going to go see prom night and this is my first ever date. We are going with a couple other people and i was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to do or what to expect. Maybe like kissing advice or clothes or what he might do. And please dont give me like just do what comes natrually kinda thingPLEASE help me first date advice needed!!!Thank You!!?
    have sex with him.PLEASE help me first date advice needed!!!Thank You!!?
    Jeeze, 12 and on a date?!?!?! my parents never let me do that... but you should not worry about impressing him, he should like you for who you are so just dress casually (because it is only the movies) like wear a nice shirt and some cute jeans and just be yourself! And he might want to kiss you so do it if you are comfortable with it and if you aren't then you have all rights to say no.
    well for starters, go all out on your appearance. put on make up, do your hair fancy and wear something attractive, maybe a hollister top and short shorts or a short jean skirt. Usually men appreciate it more when you show the effort that you put forth into looking your best, and are more likely to want to kiss you and what not. try not to let yourself get into ackward momnents or silences, but if so just quickly change the subject. Just ask a lot about him, like how he is, if hes in any sports or something like that. allow him to give you feedback becuz you dont want to be the only one talking. Maker sure to smile a lot, and remember its ok to laugh! just dont do too much of it, just at wut you think is funny. Start giving little hints at things (flirting) and make sure you compliment him and tell him he looks great. the more you boost his confidence, the more likely he is to kiss you ext. its when you dont do this that he starts hesitating and then starts backing out. Also tip: At one point in time, look into his eyes and then smile, then laugh a little then when he asks what say ';your so cute!'; this really really makes guys feel good. And remeber be yourself and above all have fun! I hope you have lots of fun! REMEMBER: Do your absolute best to look like a model!! He will totally dig you. (he'll also like you for who you are but just trust me, its the most important. Its pretty much how guys work.)


    Hope It works out!!
    wow, I couldnt date until I was 16. Just be yourself.
    There is a world of difference between what you should be doing at 12 or 13 and what he would like to be doing. At 12, should be dancing and hugging, not much more. Depending on the boy, he will push you as far as you will go. It is up to you to say no to anything you don't want to do.

    Im 13 any first date advice?

    please helpIm 13 any first date advice?
    Just have fun, and don't worry about it too much! Be natural, and just act like yourself!Im 13 any first date advice?
    please don't date, in my personal opinion you way to young, dont be in a hurry to be a grown up.
    just have fun! enjoy the moment and laugh lots!!!

    I need some first date advice?

    so i'm going on a little date with this girl, the thing is were both really shy so i'm not really sure how to move towrd the kiss, liek what should i say to approach it, or should i just go for it?I need some first date advice?
    im really shy too and i like it when a guy asks if they can kiss me first. i think its kinda cute and that way it wont catch me off gaurd and it makes me feel less nervous.I need some first date advice?
    make sure you have fresh mouth !


    once you lean towards her youll know if


    she wants to kiss you or not... dont b embrasd


    we like guys who know what they want and go for it.

    Date advice for me?

    some time ago, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i would neva caught dead doing. even thought its true, i feel that in my opinion there was some sort of connection between us even though i knew she didnt feel it. i like her and want her to be mai gf but i don't how to go about it. what are some ways that i can do to make her fall in love with me.seriously i need help. i'm desperate for adviceDate advice for me?
    You can't make her love you. Just try doing some of the things she likes and maybe you will like some of them. I'm sure there are some things that you both would like to do. Just talk to her and really get to know her and if something is meant to happen then it will run it's course just be patient you'll know how she feels soon enough. Good luck hun!!!Date advice for me?
    You both like going out to eat, right? Start there--ask her to get a burger/whatever and see if you two can find some things in common!
    read some great tips on dating, love and relationships that will help you better on this site
    try to find something in commen, and if you cant try to compromise on things to do
    Hey, go slow and easy :) Are you sure you're in love with her? Maybe it's just boy-girl attraction only. I'd think you want to get to know her better first before going to the next level. So next time you hang out with her, try asking her a lot of questions on her interests %26amp; past times, %26amp; see whether you have common interests. Even if you don't have anything in common, at least by the end of your meet(s), you'll learn more facts about her, and only then you'd be able to judge better your feelings towards her.

    First date......group date..advice please!?

    I'm going on my first date with my boyfriend...we've been dating for awhile now. It's a group date with our best friends though. and another couple. what should i wear? what happens if i end up sitting by two friends and not him? just any tips? please!!!!





    we are going to the movies...either seeing 10,000 B.C. or superhero movie





    the most we've done is kiss. but how do i like hint that i wanna cuddle? like the arm on shoulder head leaning on his shoulderFirst date......group date..advice please!?
    Your question is very confusing.


    You say it's your first date but that you have been dating for awhile now.


    The protocol on dates is to sit as couples (of course). If there is no room to sit as a group you will split off as couples.


    If you want his arm around you just lean towards him and grab his hand and put it around your shoulder. If you're already at the kissing stage it's no big deal. You can put your hands in his lap. Like to keep your fingers warm. I don't mean grab him, I mean just put your hands in his lap for warmth. He will go nuts for this move so don't ask him any questions about the movie afterwards. Only reason a guy would resist the ';arm around you'; move is that it might be uncomfortable for you or for him for any great length of time. Don't be upset if he put's it on and takes it off and then puts it on again. It has nothing to do with his affection decreasing, it's just a cramp or a need to let the blood flow back into our hands and arm. A guy has to kind of twist a bit and this can cause awful cramps in our waist and back but we love to suffer for love.


    Don't hint. Just move in and grab hold of the front of his shirt and pull him in for a kiss. That's all. For the most part guys don't like being told to ';give you a kiss';; rather we like to hear that you want to give us a kiss. Say, ';I want to give you a kiss you big stud, you!'; After the kiss give him a little bite on the ear, neck, chest, shoulder, just a little one. The guy will be trained to kiss you every opportunity he gets. The other way of trying to get a kiss, sounds like your complaining (Like you are not getting enough of something). You giving us a kiss sounds like a good thing. It's the difference between saying, ';You don't kiss me enough'; and saying, ';I want to kiss you all the time'; One makes the guy luv you all the more, the other sends him home with lots of self doubt. You guess which is which.

    Date advice please!!!?

    what do you do when you dont have a date to a compalsery school dance?


    HELP!!!!Date advice please!!!?
    Hi sweetie it is quite ok to go with your friends,dances aren't limited to couples only,Some guys/girls like to go without an escort because they get to flirt and dance with different people.And believe me you will not be the only one there without a date.I hope you have a fantastic time,you just might meet that special guy there and you will be glad you went with just friends. :) Bye HonDate advice please!!!?
    go to the dance, and make it seem like you want to be there without a date to keep your options open. be confident.
    go with friends
    Go with a group of friends who are in the same boat as you. Don't worry, though it may seem like it, not everyone has a date! (And you can always try asking someone out . . . you never know! :)





    Good luck!
    Just send me text and i'll let u know what to do +92-334-3995760
    go alone...you wont be the only single person there. dress to impress a independant girl always comes off sexy, you dont need to have a date to have fun
    go in and start dancing with the person of your choice. if people ask why you dont have a date, say you dont want to be tied down to just one person
    go with your friends. walk in with confidence, because then people will notice it and be more likely to want to dance with you. have fun
    find a homeless guy with potential





    give him a makeover
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  • Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?

    Ok so ive been going out with this amazing girl for about a week now and I kinda wanna make out with her. Were going to the movies so how would i do this??Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?
    Start by holding her hand.


    Then when she looks at you and she is not talking, you go in for the kiss. If you go in while she's talking, it shows you don't care what she has to say





    :)Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?
    Well take her to the movies, and hug her while yah watch the movie, and if it becomes a conisidence that you both look at each other at the same time then go for it, kiss her. And if this doesnt happen in the movies, then give her a kiss goodnight after taking her home. This is so romantic.
    If you're snuggling in the movies you can turn her chin toward you and give her a nice kiss, but don't make out right away. You can give her kisses like that throughout the movie and slowly make them last a little longer. I wouldn't recommend making out with her for the whole movie or even 30 min straight of it. You are paying alot of money to see it. Long kisses are good to start. Next time you're alone and not spending $14-$18 to see a movie then you can makeout with her.
    not do it at all.... a classy girl doesn't want a guy all over her in the first week especially in public... if you really like her, respect her! if you need to make a move suprise her and only kiss her on her cheek. You'll keep her that way.yo'll find out as you get older that the girls that aren't ';fast'; are the ones you need to keep your eyes on.
    the same way you would make out with anyother girl...................?





    just go with the flow - when the time seems right to kiss her - go for it - if it feels right to go further - go for it too!?
    it really depends on the girl, but you can either be really cute and say you wanna kiss her, or be brave and just go for it!!
    just put your arm around her and lean close to her and just kiss her
    sit in the back, when theres a kissing scene stare at her and the rest will be instinct

    Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?

    Ok so ive been going out with this amazing girl for about a week now and I kinda wanna make out with her. Were going to the movies so how would i do this??Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?
    Start by holding her hand.


    Then when she looks at you and she is not talking, you go in for the kiss. If you go in while she's talking, it shows you don't care what she has to say





    :)Date advice??!!!??!!??!! HELP!!!?
    Well take her to the movies, and hug her while yah watch the movie, and if it becomes a conisidence that you both look at each other at the same time then go for it, kiss her. And if this doesnt happen in the movies, then give her a kiss goodnight after taking her home. This is so romantic.
    If you're snuggling in the movies you can turn her chin toward you and give her a nice kiss, but don't make out right away. You can give her kisses like that throughout the movie and slowly make them last a little longer. I wouldn't recommend making out with her for the whole movie or even 30 min straight of it. You are paying alot of money to see it. Long kisses are good to start. Next time you're alone and not spending $14-$18 to see a movie then you can makeout with her.
    not do it at all.... a classy girl doesn't want a guy all over her in the first week especially in public... if you really like her, respect her! if you need to make a move suprise her and only kiss her on her cheek. You'll keep her that way.yo'll find out as you get older that the girls that aren't ';fast'; are the ones you need to keep your eyes on.
    the same way you would make out with anyother girl...................?





    just go with the flow - when the time seems right to kiss her - go for it - if it feels right to go further - go for it too!?
    it really depends on the girl, but you can either be really cute and say you wanna kiss her, or be brave and just go for it!!
    just put your arm around her and lean close to her and just kiss her
    sit in the back, when theres a kissing scene stare at her and the rest will be instinct

    Date advice please???

    ok im visiting a friend of mine who lives a couple hours away this weekend. there is a girl i like a lot/have a crush on from school who lives like 20 minutes away. We are pretty good friends so i think she'll say yes to spending time with her. What is a good date idea that doesnt involve dinner, or being with my friend?? Ideally I'd like to tell her that i have feelings for her. Thanks a lot!Date advice please???
    take her to a place where you can walk around and talk to her. get to know her. maybe coffee or the beach? your friend will understand if you want to get some alone time with her.Date advice please???
    if you just tell her that you really like her, she will most likely respect that. you never know, this girl really could have feelings for you too, she just might be to scared to tell you. when and if you do tell her, she could feel loved, which is what any girl wants...right??
    Ask her if she wants to go out for a cup of coffee or something.

    I haven't date in 9 years. Need dating advice!!!?

    I just ended a 9 year marriage. Wife cheated. I am seperated about 3 month now. I like a female friend a lot, and I know it's not a rebound feeling. Is it a turn on nowadays for guys to make an straight forward love confession? (i.e. I like you a lot, will you go out with me?) She ended a relationship about a month ago. Not sure if she likes someone else now, or still recovering. Appreciate any feedback!!I haven't date in 9 years. Need dating advice!!!?
    I never been married, but I can only begin to imagine how scary and uncertain it can be to get back into the dating game after years of being out of it can be. You start asking yourself, ';Will women still want me?'; or ';Will my approach or game still work after all this time?';





    If you are going to ask women out, then flirt with her first and gage her interest in you first. If you are feeling a vibe, then by all means ask her out. Just take things slowly and at her speed. Don't rush anything and don't take rejections personally. If she just got out of a relationship herself, then she might be apprehensive about dating too.





    Also date and flirt with other women. Get a feel for getting back into the game. Don't hedge your bets that this woman in question will be interested in you that way. Most important:





    TAKE THINGS SLOWLY!I haven't date in 9 years. Need dating advice!!!?
    You probably are rebounding. Wait until you are comfortable enough to jump in. If you have doubts, don't do it. Are you divorced yet? The messy stuff is yet to come. Just wait. You don't want to get into a relationship while divorcing.
    One advice is don't if on a date go on about your ex. The lady will be bored plus know you haven't go over your ex. Just be yourself. But don't be comparing any new lady in your life to your ex.
    im sorry she cheated. i dont know what to tell you. but go slow.
    I would be a little creeped out if a guy just came up and was like. Hey i think i love you let's go out. Why don't you take things slow. You know since she's had a heartbreak recently. And invite her out for coffee or something where you can talk. Then if she accepts keep asking her on mini dates. So that she'll hint you like her but won't be creeped out. Then you can go for the real thing and date date her. Good luck
    people always say its never a rebound...but believe me it is!


    I think anything goes nowadays...but women really like manners in a guy. I don't think I would tell her I like you alot,I would just ask her if she would like to go out friday nite. or something like that.
    once u do it u never forget but these days we hate men who use cheezy lines to be honest dont tell em bout cha ex n her cheat'n just go out n have fun n see who picks u up.
    I'm sorry to hear that, that happened to you. Try for an easy date, nothing serious, even if you are not really interested in the lady, just give it a try until you are comfortable pursuing something more serious. Good Luck.
    Why don't you give yourself a little break? See how things go with you, or go different places to clear your mind and ask yourself if you are REALLY ready for a new relationship. Like me I won't go out with a guy who just seperated with a wife, I really have to make sure that he really wants to date me not because he's feeling lonely.





    Good luck!
    Its good to honest beacuse it means your serious and your direct, your obviously not childish in terms of asking someone out, your an adult for god sakes. Right now your in a good position with this girl because she too has had a failed relationship so that means you two have something in common. Right now just be cool about it and try to go out on a couple of dates to see where it goes and you'll be find. Good luck.
    Don't assume anything. Don't take anything for granted.





    Different person. Different likes and dis-likes than your ex.





    Respect the differences.





    Hang in there! Good luck.
    start out slow, just flirt a little to get the feel of where you stand with her.
    just wait
    Be yourself. If you are truly wanting someone to like you for you then don't pretend to be someone that your not because you will both end up disappointed in the end. Let your personality shine. Go for it. If she is not interested then you haven't lost anything. Ask her out. Be a gentleman. Tell her that your new at this and be honest. Gals like honesty and when a guy admits hes nervous.
    get off the comp and go to a library or bar or like to a movie!
    well first off, sorry to hear about your marriage ending =[


    but im glad you were able to move on.





    so about this female friend of yours.


    guys make straight forward confessions all the time...its better if you do. just ask her out to lunch or to grab a quick coffee or something and ask about her relationships and if she likes anyone. if not go ahead and tell her how you feel.





    unless you say something you will never know! go for it!





    goodluck!!
    I don't think either one of you need to be making any straight forward love confessions at this time. Both of you need to sort of let yourselves adapt to being single. I think it would be a nice gesture to say to her, ';It looks like we are both in the same predicament. Would you like to go to dinner with me this evening?';.
    You don't say how long since your marriage ended. That might make a difference to some women because they may not think you are over your wife yet. Do you know that you are?

    Date advice?! HELP ?

    i am meeting this boy tonight for the first time by ourselves, i think were just going for a walk so we can talk and stuff but i have no idea what to wear? the last times ive seen him was at a festival so i looked like a TRAMP and the time before was on a night out with mates so i wasn't in the best of states! what should i wear?!Date advice?! HELP ?
    hey to tell u the truth, it doesn't matter what u wear. if the guy is ready to go out with u even after all that ur saying of the way u looked, then he actually likes the person behind all that. The simple beautiful u. would say jus be urself, smooth %26amp; casual. best of luckDate advice?! HELP ?
    I don't agree, I think that most guys ( maybe just me ) like a girl to dress casually, but not too slutty or anything, but certainly not all dolled up with makeup and over exaggerated hair and what not. Just wear what you would normally wear, and you will be fine.
    Real skanky stuff to contrast the idea of walking, it will just be hilarious and guys like skimpy wear.
    Wear something cute but casual like a tank with shorts and flats or smth. Its just a walk anyway but you still look good.

    Date advice [10 points]?

    My boyfriends coming over my house tomorrow at like 8 for the first time.What should we do? Movie on pay per view? idk open to ideassss


    ;)Date advice [10 points]?
    i think you should watch a movie or have a competition playing video games!!! soemthing that u 2 both enjoy, without getting u in trouble!!Date advice [10 points]?
    Here are some options





    Cinema


    Movie at home.


    Go for a walk to the park.


    Go out side, and chat. watch stars?


    Go out for dinner?





    not sure really.


    but i recommend a movie!



    Maybe do a movie or play some video games. Just hang out casual like you would with some of your girlfriends.
    idk either , mayb e u should just watch a movie, i dnt know choose eitehr a romantic one or a thriller, matters on his choice and urs. be yourself!!
    watch movies on the couch, go outside to eat or go outside and just look at the stars
    watch a movie make out and mess around a little bit and cuddle
    beer pizza and a movie


    a night of cuddling and kisses.


    no sex !
  • isotretinoin
  • Wednesday, April 28, 2010

    Date advice for tonight?

    Ok, tonight is the night. I have a date with my ex-girlfriend...we decided to take a break, but she recently asked me out and I agreed. She wants to start over by calling this a ';first date';. Any advice for a guy who wants to get her back?





    Thanks!Date advice for tonight?
    Act as though it's your ';first date';, show her you are sincerely trying to restart with her. What would you do on a first date? You'd probably make the person feel special, show them you are interested, talk and get to know them... do the same kind of things. If there was a reason why you guys broke up, avoid that at all costs unless she decided to bring up a question about what happened. Then again, getting too much into it could be a bad thing. Be yourself, and show her you're making an effort on your part and hopefully it will all work out for you. Good luck!Date advice for tonight?
    show her how much you've miss her do little sweet things


    like kiss her hand and tell her how much you love her girls hate bad breth so pop an altoid if nessesary be very romantic smile compliment what shes wearing and tell her how beautiful she is!! good luck hope you have fun!!!!

    Date advice please ;]?

    This guy and I were suppose to go to an icecream place this last monday but he ended up having to work. He said we should some time soon though. everytime i bring up a day we should hang out he either ignores me or changes the subject. why is he doing that?Date advice please ;]?
    i'm sorry honey cause i'm not sure he likes i really think you shouldn't bring any day from now and on cause he'll ignores i'm really sorryyyDate advice please ;]?
    I'm not a guy, and god knows us women cannot get inside a man's head and never know what they really mean, but it does sound to me like after he let you down, he's said '; we should hang out some time soon'; as a way of saying sorry or a polite way of letting the arrangements drop, so they are just casual so you dont have to organize an actual date, and that he doesn't actually mean those words. I dont see why else he would ignore you or change the subject when you ask, i dont think he's very interested now hun, just my opinion though, i could be wrong.

    Need some first date advice! girls..and guys?

    not sure how to approach it, we're both kinda shy so what should i say when it comes to kissing and stuff like that, what can i say right before?Need some first date advice! girls..and guys?
    Here is a link to an article that has great advice on going out on a first date with someone. I think this article will really help you. GOOD LUCK %26amp; ENJOY!Need some first date advice! girls..and guys?
    dont say anything right b4 u kiss......simply look into her eyes and move closer to her..she'll get it...





    when u guys r walking..if her arm bumps u more than once....grab her hand....its a sign she wants u to...





    if u guys r seeing a movie or sitting next to each other...put ur arm around her...if she leans her head on your shoulder and tilts her head a little towards u....u can prly lift her chin and kiss her....but u mite not want to kiss onthe first date...make sure its not an awkward thing that u guys did too quickly...





    me n my bf didnt have our first kiss until about 3 weeks after we started dating....we were both rly shy....and it utrned out that the setting our first kiss was in ended up being so romantic and wonderful im so glad we waited...





    comliment her when u first see her...tell her how she looks great..if she blushes and says thanks..itsa good hting..not bad...





    just be yourself..thats all girls rly want to see....not some guy who shows off and tries too hard...

    Need quick first date advice. Please help?

    So I've been xting with this girl who I'm taking out tomorrow. She asked me what I had planned and I told her bowling and a bite to eat. She told me ';no bowling... i suck';.





    So she's not keen on bowling, any ideas on something else we can do? Something casual and fun, I'm trying to take this slow. We're both 28, if that helps.Need quick first date advice. Please help?
    you could take her to a tea lounge. i went there on my last first date and it really worked out because the guy took me there so he could get to know me better and because he knew the area suggested some interesting things.. i decided on pool because i didn't know how to play... plus it gave us a comfort topic..for uncomfortable silences.. plus gave him an excuse to ask me out again.. practice ;-)Need quick first date advice. Please help?
    PLAY POOL. Its always a good time and even if she sucks, you can help her. Best part about it is it makes a date more comfortable because the fact that you two are concentrating on something else while getting to know eachother makes the date less awkward and feel less ';forced.';
    mini golf =) or you gould try just going to a park or a beach just to chill and talk. you could go to the mall and just hang around in the stores, anything really. you can ry the movies but its not really a fun and exciting activity. idk guess. be creative! girls love that!!
    Do the bowling thing. Show her that you know how to have a good time :D. Even if she does suck in things, doesn't mean she cant have fun.
    take her to brake into a house, or steal a car, or maybe go buy a pair of MP40s and go on a killing spree in a mall. that would be fun :D
    Stick with bowl or something active. She might want something like a quiet dinner. That is too easy to hide behind. Bowling brings your personality out.
    LOL movies is an awful idea, you guys dont even get to talk, take her mini golfing or even bowling
    movie at your house that's what i did (the current gf i am with) we have been together 3 happy months.
    Leave it up to her to choose where to go. She may have different ideas of fun than you have
    movies is always good.


    or maybe ice skating.
    why ask us? ask her what she would be interested in doing!

    Whats your best date advice?

    and i already know to ';be myself'; so don't put that pleaseWhats your best date advice?
    1. Always be yourself


    2. Smile big or laugh at all his jokes


    3. deodorant, because you might sweat


    4. Always say thank you when he opens the door


    5. Perfume!


    6. Wear pretty summer clothes, but not slutty


    7. Ask him questions about him and be careful!Whats your best date advice?
    -Don't fart.





    -Stay relaxed. If anything awkward happens, laugh it off.





    -Unless he offers to pay for you, pay for yourself, don't expect him to financially support you the whole evening, even if it is just a movie. he isn't your sugar daddy.





    -Don't give a death stare to any other girl he talks to. Chances are, he WILL notice and think you're crazy =p Besides, it's the first date.





    -Don't sleep with him, or do anything remotely sexual. If he tries to get in your pants the first date, get the hell out. Any guy that tries to get in a girl's pants the first date is a shallow asswipe most of the time and has no other intentions.
    Say, ';you can buy all the popcorn you want, I'm still not putting out on the first date.';


    or


    ';See that big muscular guy two rows behind us? That's my big brother.';


    Just joking.


    Be yourself and have fun. (but not too much fun!)
    Break the ice by telling your date that you are nervous and that this is your first date. Don't talk during the movie.


    Check your teeth. have fun
    prepare for awkard moments
    be yourself and enjoy it is the BEST advice

    Girls does anyone have any dating advice for me?

    Now i don't consider myself ugly but I can't seem to get a girl friend I have a great personality and I love to spoil my girl friends but for the past year I havn't been able to get a gf. I have seen several girls that i like but they all have bf does anyone have any tips for me to get a gf.





    ThanksGirls does anyone have any dating advice for me?
    Well remember to just be yourself. don't try to be something your not, and if girl don't like you for who you truly are then there not worth your time. I hope things work out for you, ya seem like a great guy. good luck :)Girls does anyone have any dating advice for me?
    The pampering is great, but girls don't want a door mat for a bf. Not saying that you need to be a prick, but if you're too nice it can be boring %26amp; a turn off.
  • isotretinoin
  • We didn't kiss on first date...advice please?

    We've been chatting and flirting for weeks and have just had our first date..on the way home ie showed me his place, I was a bit nervous (thought he was bringing me there to have sex and I said 'I'm scared'). Anyhow he walked me home and we kissed on both cheeks. Do you think I'll hear from him? We had a very nice conversation.....got on well.We didn't kiss on first date...advice please?
    who wants to kiss on first date?


    Take it slow sweetheart, kissing on both cheeks is an affectionate sign, and it'll happen. The first date should be a ';get to know you'; not a ';lets make out';.We didn't kiss on first date...advice please?
    if you didn't have sex the first night then he'll probably call. guys won't usually call if you have sex on the first date. you're golden! and taken it slow :]
    You know what, dearheart.. any guy who brings you back to his place for sex on the first date REALLY isn't worth seeing again. I know that sounds harsh, but hey been there. There are PLENTY of guys out there who respect a girl and will wait until the proper time, like when you KNOW each other first.. what a concept, right?





    You rock for sticking up for yourself. Keep up the good work and have confidence in yourself.





    best of luck.
    If all he wanted was sex, you probably won't hear from him again.





    If he likes you (but obviously still wants to have sex whether he really likes you or not) you'll hear from him.





    If he's persistent he might still try to sleep with you.





    There's no way to know the whole truth, so let it go and go about your life. Don't expect a call from him. So if he does, it will be a surprise, and if he doesn't, you wont' be crushed. Boys aren't what life is about. Forget about him until he wants to be in your life again.
    i think youl deffinatly see eachother again!





    if he didnt kiss you on the 1st date he respects you!





    2nd date go in for a kiss!





    good luck babe! xx

    FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS & GUYS help me please<<<<<<

    well i have a lunch date coming up this week with a girl from school. shes gonna meet me at her locker and im driving her to lunch.





    what are some casual things to say? like so she doesnt feel pressured or anything. im older than her and i think shes a bit nervous or shy already.





    just what are some things i could say or bring up that would make her feel comfortable yet get to know each other??





    i already thought about just when im driving to ak what kind of music she likes and put something on and comment about it.





    stuff like that.





    i never had lunch for a first date before btw so i appreciate all your help!! also since its just lunch and we didnt call it a date do i even have to offer to pay for her meal?





    thanks.FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS %26amp; GUYS help me please%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
    1st and foremost yes pay for her meal if she says she will pay for it herself tell her you are paying! 2nd thing when you talk to her ask about her likes and dislikes in music as well as movies....You can chat about school and teachers....you can talk about what she does in her free time and what you do in yours..maybe she is into sports you can ask her...I know I loved football all through school now basketball and baseball are my favorites....you can talk about her family brothers sisters.......the list is endless once you start talking and she does too you will find it much easier to communicate!FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS %26amp; GUYS help me please%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
    yes definitely pay for her meal and refuse if she offers girls luv it when u do that!! so just b casual like talk about the weather.. (i no im so cheesey)
    how much older,first of all??
    yesss, offer to pay her meal and refuse if she offers. ask her about things she'll like to talk about, like her favorite music, sports she likes, her family, and try to find out what you have in common.
    don't be so scared 1st of all...i bet she's thinkin the same thing. Just say hi and hope it all goes well!


    :]
    Just let things play out. If you think too much about what to say, then if it doesn't go the way you planned it could be awkward for the both of you. If you are friends, then things should just play out and it will be fine. As for paying for her meal, I would. That way she will know that you are into her and that you care about her. Good Luck, and have fun!
    For starters it would be nice for you to pay, this doesn't mean that you should everytime but you did ask her out. I would keep the conversation simple and don't try to overthink things, just remember you are trying to get to know her so things like what her family is all about, hobbies she has, if you find too much silence you could ask meaningless questions like if you had a million dollars what would you do or if you could go anywhere in the world where would you go? Don't forget to look in her eyes when you talk and thank her for a nice time *(if it was nice) Good luck

    Last minute date advice?

    im 13 and im goin to the movies wit my girlfriend were seeing prom night does anyone hae some last minute date advice. the movie starts at 7:50 so i hav some time can anyone give me good advice thanx.Last minute date advice?
    How funny I just saw that last night with my friends. Well- just be your self. You guys have a connection so keep doing whatever your doing and if she gets scared don't be afraid to put your arm around her. I found the movie more scary then funny but there where people that got really scared. So really the only thing you can do is be yourself. But one thing: you should pay- or at least offer.Last minute date advice?
    First You should pay! And keep your hands to yourself..ofcourse. Girls like it when your a gentleman and respect them. Tell her you think she looks really pretty. And hold her hand! And the night should go well for you ;0) You might even get a little kiss at the end of the night!

    Any first date advice?

    Im bad a dating -.-Any first date advice?
    Be yourself :)


    Relax; Let your guard down.


    Joke around.


    Laugh.


    Smile.


    Have fun!


    %26amp; Good luck *(:

    I need date advice, please help?

    Ok there is this guy i really like and i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter cause otherwise we wouldnt c each other for a month


    anyways now i dont know what to do. i dont want it to look too much like a date (like a fancy resturant) and i just wana do something fun. so suggestions please.


    and also what do i talk about? i hate those uncomfortable silences. ( and i know the whole ';the silence just means that u both care so much about what to say because u dnot want to say the wrong thing, it just means that he likes u'; thing and well firstly im not to sure about that and i need suggestions not some lines someone once said) I know, not well but the basics like ';whats ur job, hobbies, and stuff'; has been said so please help.


    by the way, i麓ve never had a date before so just be yourself wont do as myself hasnt been in that situation so i wont to know what u would do and say. and yes i am old enough (16)


    thanx a lotI need date advice, please help?
    goto a park or downtown,talk to him about things that happend to you,try funny things that happend to you,just talk,be urself,hope it goes well

    GIRLS i like a guy but i can't date advice oh and he is with someone.?

    well you become really good friends with him ands flaunt what you've got.. thats what i do.. and when he leaves his gf he's all yours heheheGIRLS i like a guy but i can't date advice oh and he is with someone.?
    GOOD LUCK W/ THAT 1!!
  • isotretinoin
  • Guys: First date advice?

    -be yourself.


    and


    -be confidentGuys: First date advice?
    Be yourself and don't come on to strongGuys: First date advice?
    don't make a move until the 3rd date

    Last minute date advice.....HELP!!!?

    ok im 13 and im goin to the movies wit my girlfriend i need some last minute tips im leavin in 30min so....HELP!!!Last minute date advice.....HELP!!!?
    well just be yourself!!! if she is dating u obviously she likes u for who u are already...but some tips: be playful to her, joke around even if she doesnt find them too funny...girls like when guys try to be funny....be sweet...smell good...flirt with her like a whole lot!!! just let her know that u like her a whole lot.....and dont do anything wierd.....and wear nice clothes..a tshirt and jeans will be fine! im about to go to my boyfriend's house in a bit and im just going as myself:DLast minute date advice.....HELP!!!?
    Dude, just be yourself. There's no reason to act cooler than you are, or try to put on a fake mask of yourself. Let her experience you for who you are... Not what you think you are. Depending on how many dates you've been on with your girlfriend, I would say don't try anything severely stupid if it's only your 1st through 3rd date and nothing to stupid afterwards, 'till you and her are comfortable. Hope this helps!

    Girls: First date advice?

    Meeting this girl online, we are going on a first date soon. Based on her interests etc, I have come up with the following activities... she says on her profile she wants fun, creativity, and she is active...





    -billiards


    -mini golf


    -nightclub dancing


    -picnic in park, followed up possibly a movie, billiards, etc (fill in the blank)





    help me out, girls! fyi, we are college students!Girls: First date advice?
    for a first date, I think Mini golf would be fun. It allows you to be active while learning about each other.

    12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?

    I have been dating this girl for alittle


    over a month and a really like her but we haven't even kissed. She is christain and can't go on a real date untill she is 16. I tried to kiss her but she turned her head. What should I do.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    She shouldn't have to do anything if she doesn't want to, and you should respect that.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    Your only 12.


    you don't need dating or kissing advice.





    I'm 16 and I still don't date.
    What the?!?!?


    I just answered this and I hit ';show me next question'; and here it is again.





    Re-post?

    12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?

    I have been dating this girl for alittle


    over a month and a really like her but we haven't even kissed. She is christain and can't go on a real date untill she is 16. I tried to kiss her but she turned her head. What should I do.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    5th?





    U have already wasted 25 points and I have gotten 10 by being annoyed that i can't answer questions because your questions keep appearing. can u please, (I relly mean please) not repost ur questions. it annoys people.

    12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?

    I have been dating this girl for alittle


    over a month and a really like her but we haven't even kissed. She is christain and can't go on a real date untill she is 16. I tried to kiss her but she turned her head. What should I do.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    If she doesn't want/can't then you should stop trying. 12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    12 year olds don't need to be trying to get involved in an emotional relationship much less worrying about the best way to kiss a girl.
    O M G





    3 postings?!
  • isotretinoin
  • 12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?

    I have been dating this girl for alittle


    over a month and a really like her but we haven't even kissed. She is christain and can't go on a real date untill she is 16. I tried to kiss her but she turned her head. What should I do.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    One thing you can learn now while you're still young is you always treat a girl with respect. If she isn't ready for something like that, then don't ever force her or try to convince her. Don't rush with things like this, it doesn't seem like it to you...but you are still a young kid, so take it slow and treat her right and don't even worry about stuff like kissing. You'll have plenty of that in the future, just have fun together for now.





    Someday she'll come around, but you'll be a bigger man since you waited and didn't force her or try to convince her.











    12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    just wait until things get comfortable man, don't rush into things because it will just make things awkward. Wait for the right moment, and the right place. Make her feel ok with it first.
    Ding Ding Ding 4th posting





    WoW

    7th grade date advice?

    Ok. Im in the 7th grade, and need help with the girls. i can't find anyone who likes me, so please help!7th grade date advice?
    what are you, 12?


    hit the books, kid(:7th grade date advice?
    I would say that you are too young, personally, but I'm in the same grade and know how you feel. One thing you could do is to not bug the girls you like. Like dont poke them or pull their hair...yeah that happened to me...Be charming. If a girl drops a pencil or book, pick it up for them. Or you could hold the door open for them, or let them but you in line. Maybe you could get some new clothes. Even though it sounds a bit ...judgemental, girls do judge guys by their looks.Just be really nice to them but dont come on too strong because or else they will think that you are weird. Also just be nice to all the girls, not just one. Because they will get to talking and be like ';Ewww! did you see how_____is sooo nice to __________all the time? I bet he likes her!'; But if you are super nice to everyone they will say ';oh, ____has been so nice lately...'; Just make sure that you dont be nice to people to fast because they will also think that is wierd. Just be your self, too. Girls (well I ) hate guys that pretend to be something they arent. Be charming and sweet. But remember, you have plenty of time to find the love of your life.
    At this age it might be better not to get too much into dating. Focus more on growing as a person and finding out about who you are and what is important to you. Treat girls with respect and show that you value them. Don't force a relationship, when it happens it'll happen naturally. Just be full of life and a love and that energy will radiate out and attract the right girl. Also, if you sense a girl is interested take initiative and don't leave her hanging too long!
    I was just in the seventh grade and im going in to eigth and i myself cant find anybody. I have noticed though that most peoples relationships last for two or three days sometimes a week. All you can do is be your self. Girls might not like you now but as you get older girls wont be as judgemental. Just try not to act like an idiot. We do not like that.
    well kidd.


    [no - im only one year olderr, ]





    i sayy youu just chilllllllllll , then when you like a girll stick with it . maybe she will start to like you . i mean if you only like girls to have a girlfriend , then wtf - sucky relationship . thats what i dooo . even thought im a girl , but just make sure they know you like them and then show it with you actions.





    so then when someone likes you too its amazingness , and dont blow it .





    haha this is so muchh fun , so like email me if you have anymore problemss !





    i thinkk my email is just


    be_my_christmas_present@yahoo.com





    :]





    p.s.


    SCREW all these people who think they are so experienced and everything just because they are old and married.





    DONT YOU HAVE SOMETHING BETTER TO DO LIKE GO TO WORKK. god werent you ever a kid. !?
    well first u should be worried bout school after that talk, flirt and what i find kids in my school do is star a convo rite before recess and as your walking keep it going and have the girl all recess ... im a girl and im not in 7th grade but when i was that is what happened =)





    good luck =)
    Hmmm... Be very nice and TALK TO THEM!


    But make sure you look good every day but dont look like you are trying to hard just the right amount


    Have a good sense of humor BE LAID BACK.


    An nothing is better then a boy with a good personally and good looks.
    dont search for what might not be there. just be sweet, friendly and unfailingly nice to ALL girls, however ugly. often those who are pretty are often the shallow ones who are'nt worth bothering with. give everyone a chance and just be nice to be around!
    Well, you're in the 7th grade.





    I know this might sound weird to you, but you're young. You have a long time to find someone that likes you for you. Appreciate being single! It's hard to have a serious relationship in middle school.
    Try to get noticed more. But make sure you're getting noticed for good things, not detentions and what not. Get into sports, talk to more girls. Be friendly to everyone.
    go play in sum dirt..


    ur a kid. so stay a kid for as long as possible cuz once u get in the dating game ur stuck in it till ur married..


    so like i said.. go find somehting better to do than mess with girls..
    Well,when I had a girlfriend in 7th grade,the girl's friend told to talk to her and I did and we basically hit it off right there.Good luck.
    youre only in 7th grade. youve got a lot of time. just relax and just make friends. dont look for a relationship just yet. and honestly....to me you sound a little desperate.
    relationships don't get serious at that age. seriously. just flirt..be kind to girls..but come ON! do you think you'll marry a girl you'd date in 7th grade? doubt it..
    Don't be afraid to talk to girls. At this age everyone is very akward and freaks out when a guy/girl likes you. Just try to be funny and talkative
    well...i would say wait till your like1-2 years older then you will be more ready for the relationship especially if it gets serious...
    if you really want someone special, start talking to more girls, try meeting ppl from other schools and maybe you'll find ';her';
    ok your obviously not gonna get any action so wait until high school.
    don't worry about it man I was the same way back then, just be yourself, don't change who you are.
    be funny...it draws attention
    speak to more girls, tryed that???
    your too young
    don't worry about it... your in 7th grade man.. just go be a kid..

    12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?

    I have been dating this girl for alittle


    over a month and a really like her but we haven't even kissed. She is christain and can't go on a real date untill she is 16. I tried to kiss her but she turned her head. What should I do.12 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    im ur age... so take this from me


    all of me nd my friends have gone out with someone.... nd some have kisssed but that is not good for our age cause ur too young nd ur goin against god ( if u belive in him) urself nd ur parents....im not a goody tushoos but i still havent kissed any1 cause well theres a whole lot of other reasons y but jus dont but this is ur life nd i dont kno u or ur parents so


    but ur girl is christian nd if she cant go on a reall date til 16 wat makes u think she be able to kiss at 1212 year old needs dating advice on kissing?
    1st off how old are you?





    Kissing is a big step especially for a 12 year old, she's not even a teen yet. A quick hug and hand holding is all that should be appropriate at this stage in her life and in your relationship. Kissing is very intimate, meaning it shows feelings of passion. You do not need passion at this age, butterflies in the stomach are good enough! Kiss her on her hand that's sweet %26amp; romantic and most importantly respect her wishes.
    Nothing. She doesn't want you to kiss her, so stop trying. If you really care about her, then be willing to take things at her pace - and this means everything, from kissing, holding hands, up to the more adult stuff. Respect the boundaries that her parents set - honestly, that is not overly strict, it's reasonable. Don't make her feel bad for something that she can't help.






    She wasn't ready


    she's not ready


    u cannot do anything but continue 2 b a good BF 2 her. if u dump her because she doesn't want 2 kiss u yet. that proves that u r just there 4 ';physical attraction' and piggish stuff like that which means that when u r a teen all u will want is sex. wait until she is ready. chances r u rn't even ready. don't force anything on her or else u will end up breaking up for a stupid reason... Okay?
    Let it go, you are too young to be worrying about that anyway. Prolly not what you wanna hear, but its the truth. You ain't old enough to make life altering decisions yet so don't sweat the small stuff pumpkin.
    I'm 12 and i haven't kissed anyone(but want to) some girls in my year have hooked up eith guys(tongues) don't worry about her she tell you if she wants to.






    A 12 year old doesn't need dating advice because a 12 year old is too young to date period. Don't try to kiss her, she is too young and so are you.
    wow-all these questions are all bull crap, you guys arent even helping! your just saying the same thing, just give someone a thumbs up instead,oh and to your question-idk,she may give in soon, take your time






    just be patient


    when she is ready, you will know and if you keep trying to kiss her she might get scared and break up with you. You never know, girls will be girls
    Don't ever try to kiss a girl without asking her first. Be a gentleman and hold off till you are about 14 or 15.
    Focus on school that is what is the most important thing at the age of 12.
    Nothing. Nothing a 12 year old does qualifies as a date, sorry.
    She gave you an answer. The answer was ';No.'; Don't try to kiss her again.





    All the best.
    im 12 and have not kissed someone but we arnt 2 young if u feel your ready your ready just amke shure she is ready lol
    Wait until she is 16. I never had my first kiss until i was 15!! there is no rush to grow up!!
    nothing if she is turnning her head away it means she is not ready yet
    wait.





    find someone else
    u arnt ready 4 kissing. ur 12. i understand tht ur think ur old enough though
    nothing, she is not ready yet. wait a little longer and try again
    if u love her wait shes not ready
    12 years old!





    Your like way to young
    um...wow. go find somebody who's out of elementary school.
    nothin what is there to do