FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS & GUYS help me please<<<<<<

well i have a lunch date coming up this week with a girl from school. shes gonna meet me at her locker and im driving her to lunch.





what are some casual things to say? like so she doesnt feel pressured or anything. im older than her and i think shes a bit nervous or shy already.





just what are some things i could say or bring up that would make her feel comfortable yet get to know each other??





i already thought about just when im driving to ak what kind of music she likes and put something on and comment about it.





stuff like that.





i never had lunch for a first date before btw so i appreciate all your help!! also since its just lunch and we didnt call it a date do i even have to offer to pay for her meal?





thanks.FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS %26amp; GUYS help me please%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
1st and foremost yes pay for her meal if she says she will pay for it herself tell her you are paying! 2nd thing when you talk to her ask about her likes and dislikes in music as well as movies....You can chat about school and teachers....you can talk about what she does in her free time and what you do in yours..maybe she is into sports you can ask her...I know I loved football all through school now basketball and baseball are my favorites....you can talk about her family brothers sisters.......the list is endless once you start talking and she does too you will find it much easier to communicate!FIRST LUNCH DATE ADVICE????? what should i say??? what do i talk about????? GIRLS %26amp; GUYS help me please%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;
yes definitely pay for her meal and refuse if she offers girls luv it when u do that!! so just b casual like talk about the weather.. (i no im so cheesey)
how much older,first of all??
yesss, offer to pay her meal and refuse if she offers. ask her about things she'll like to talk about, like her favorite music, sports she likes, her family, and try to find out what you have in common.
don't be so scared 1st of all...i bet she's thinkin the same thing. Just say hi and hope it all goes well!


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Just let things play out. If you think too much about what to say, then if it doesn't go the way you planned it could be awkward for the both of you. If you are friends, then things should just play out and it will be fine. As for paying for her meal, I would. That way she will know that you are into her and that you care about her. Good Luck, and have fun!
For starters it would be nice for you to pay, this doesn't mean that you should everytime but you did ask her out. I would keep the conversation simple and don't try to overthink things, just remember you are trying to get to know her so things like what her family is all about, hobbies she has, if you find too much silence you could ask meaningless questions like if you had a million dollars what would you do or if you could go anywhere in the world where would you go? Don't forget to look in her eyes when you talk and thank her for a nice time *(if it was nice) Good luck