Thursday, December 31, 2009

Need first date advice, can you help me ?

I am 16 and this is my first date ever !


I don't want to seem like I am trying to hard,


I am not sure what to expect, any advice ?Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Well, first, how you dress depends on the type of concert. If it's a popular group/person, go with something hip and fun. Jeans and a cute top are definetly good. If it's something like orchestral or a musical or something, go with a nice skirt or black pants and a nice top. Don't be all giggly and nervous because, hey, you are already on the date which obviously means that he likes you, so just be calm and friendly. Flirty, definetly, but not all in his face flirty. Just be cool. I'm 16 too, so trust me, this is coming from somebodey who's been there. Good luck!Need first date advice, can you help me ?
Rule One: Do not talk about yourself unless she directly asks you a question, and then keep it short and simple. And don't brag!!


Rule Two: Ask her a lot of questions and be attentive, try to get her talking as much as possible. Chicks like to talk about themselves.


Rule Three: No compliments!!!!! (I'm serious), just be interested in her. Compliments scream trying too hard. If anything don't be afraid of teasing her a bit, but if you find yourself teasing her a lot drop a light compliment.


Rule Four: Do not touch her or try to kiss her.
first, make sure you look good, it will make you feel good and more confident. second, if the guy is older than you, you will get pretty nervous, but don't sweat it, if he likes you enough to ask you on a date, your doing pretty good anyways. 3rd, just relax and have a good time, don't do anything stupid like get drunk with him, that could turn out bad. have fun and good luck!!
OK, so it sounds like you have a date. Good, that's the first step.. usually. Anyway, work on the things that you share in common with your date. Use them to your advantage. For the guys, always try to be some what (at least) romantic. But since this is your first date. Just try to make sure you and your date is having a wonderful time. Dating is suppose to be fun. Also, since this is your first. Maybe try going out on a group date with another couple and maybe get a few pointers from them.





But really, just go out and have a wonderful time. Also, girls love flowers. So it's always nice for the guys to bring flowers. But if everything goes right. It should be a wonderful evening.





I hope everything works out wonderfully and you'll remember this for years to come.
dont go to the movies. do dinner or an arcade...something both of you can be ';active'; in and not just sitting there doing nothing. so something fun and ';exciting'; and then calm it down with something calm like a strole in the park or something.

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