Thursday, December 31, 2009

First date advice please?

I am going to this concert with this girl I really like on thursday. I am extremely nervous. What should I talk about? What should I wear? Help?First date advice please?
Talk about things like music (this one should be easy since you're going to a concert), books, and ask about things she is interested in. People love to talk about themselves, so if you ask about what she's interested in, you get to listen to her, which she will likely enjoy, and you get to learn about her and what you have in common as well. It's a win-win situation. That being said, don't let the conversation be one-sided, either. Also, try not to talk about one topic the entire time, especially if she's not interested in it. My last date consisted mostly of listening to the guy ramble on about his Civilizations IV game. There wasn't a second date.





As far as what to wear, just wear what you would normally wear to a concert.First date advice please?
If she's going with you, she obviously likes what she knows about you. Talk about things you have in common: school, friends, the musicians/group that you're seeing. Once you get started, she'll pick up the ball and help carry the conversation.





I don't know what kind of concert you're going to. If it's the philharmonic in a formal concert hall, dress up a bit. If it's a casual band, jeans are perfect.





Have fun and don't worry.
Well ur prolly just be listening to the music for most the time so u dont have to worry about talking haha just kidding. You can talk about the things u have in common or something interesting and wear what you normally would wear, be ur self and dont stress
Just relax and be yourself. Tell her how pretty she looks. Don't worry too much about what to talk about once you are at the concert- it will probably be too loud to talk. Make sure you offer to get her something to eat/drink. Be thoughtful, try to anticipate her needs. Zone in on non verbal ques. You will be fine. Good Luck!
Wear something nice.....not a suit or anything..but just fit in with the other people that are going to the concert. Try to be funny...or be serious you know her more then i do. Be yourself i guess.....if shes liked what shes seen up to the concert you need to continue what you were doing before. Good luck man.
Wear something that you would normally wear, and talk about what you would normally talk about. If you try to be someone or something that your not, you will screw everything up in the long run.
Start out with small talk, compliment her a lot, talk about your surroundings.


Wear something that you feel comfortable in and you don't have to play around and fix it all the time.


Just stay cool, because if you're cool, she'll be cool.
talk about music and how the band you are seeing relates to other bands. The first date is always the easiest because your getting to know each other... so ask what she likes to do. Wear a button down t-shirt and jeans with dressy sneakers.
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wear fancy style, like as you know that fashion??


talk like ' after this concert i booking on restaurant, would you want go with me?' or 'i just like having fun today!'


or 'today we will gonna just freak out!'


something like that....
I'm a guy, but just be yourself man! Dress as your normally do, but just be clean and don't go overboard on the cologne (women can smell better than us). Smile a lot, listen to her (ask questions about herself) and hold her hand at some point.





Have fun!
Remember she will be as nervous as you so just be yourself.


Wear something casual and talk about the band that you will see at the concert. Have fun and everything will fall into place.
talk about stuff you interested in and ask what she likes. dress like your self like you always do and be yourself awnser mine please





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Just act like yourself... i know it sounds cheesy but its really the best peice of advice. A concert doesnt involve much conversation except about the band/song playing. Good Luck!
talk about anything. Wear something comfortable. and just be relaxed and be your self
Where something casual and comfortable. You always look better when you feel comfortable. As for talking...It's a first date! So just ask her questions to find out more about her. (not like stalking her though)
Just tell her you are are nervous if you feel that way. As far as what to talk about, just get her talking and go with she wants to talk about.
Talk about how much you like her boobs, and wear something that accentuates your package.
make her laugh, be yourself, ask her for another date, if possible hold her hand!
i love The Enlightener. that is all.
the best advice ANYONE can give you....is be yourself. if she dosent like you for you, it may be time to find someone who will.. good luck
dont talk about anything your at a concert, just drop it like its hot and grind yo pants off lol
1st of relax if you seem nervous it will make things awkward.


Well since your going to a concert talk about music.


What's her favorite song by that band? When did she first here them?


Did she instantly love them? This band kinda reminds me of____ have you heard of them?


If you've had too much talk about music go for.


Well it looks like we have a lot in common as far as music goes what about food? What kind do you like?





Or Well it looks like we don't have the exact same taste in music I'm sure we have somethings in common what's your favorite food?





Food can be interchanged with color, animal, hobbies, classes. anything.


Food is a good conversation though because at the end of the date you can mention a restaurant that you like that serves her favorite type of food.


';Oh I like Italian too. You know there is this great place by _______


I could show it too you if you want';





Don't make a date immediately If she wants too it's fine call her 2 days after and say ';I was think about that restaurant I told you about You want to go Saturday?';








ALSO very important Don't talk during the music just in between set-ups and stuff, You can say some little things like I love this song and stuff but the conversation will be short because she wants to listen and then you'll feel weird and nervous because you think the convo is going no where.


and Don't hang all over her stand by her but don't hug her from behind and hold on it'll be weird since it's your first date.





Clothes wear what you'd normally where Maybe you favorite shirt though Don't over do it and Don't put on a mountain of cologne jut a little.





Good Luck.

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