I need some advice for a date tomorrow night?

I am newly single and have set up a date with someone I met at church. She's a great person and looks really good, but is a little on the chunky side. We're meeting at a restaurant tomorrow. If she starts ordering a bunch of fatty foods, should I politely say something or let it go? She could be perfect if she lost about 20 pounds and got down to about 105 lbs. (she's 5'7';). Should I maybe wait for the second date? What's the protocol?


Thanks and God bless.I need some advice for a date tomorrow night?
If her weight is such an issue for you that you're considering telling her what to eat on the first date, that says two things about you. One, you're a control freak and you would make her miserable by trying to tell her what she ';should'; and ';should not'; do every day of her life if this went anywhere. And two, you are definitely not taking the right girl for you out on a date because if you think she would be perfect if she got down to an anorexic 105 at that height, you have a disgusting standard of how women should look and you would be better suited with someone who's hobbies include nibbling on salad and vomiting after every meal. Good luck, i hope this girl sees you for who you reall are before her heart gets involved.I need some advice for a date tomorrow night?
I wouldn't say a thing. You are just meeting her and that would be so hurtful to her. You don't even know yet if you like her or not...and in the end, you might fall in love with her just the way she is....we don't fall in love with weight, we fall in love with the person themselves and loving someone is not wanting to change the other person it is accepting them Just the way they are.
Don't let it slide! What is the future of this relationship if she's going to be so indifferent to your needs from the very beginning? If she can't eat a few salads to make you happy then how will she ever learn to properly launder your shirts or cook for your other girlfriends.
What are you looking for? Someone to enjoy a date with or an anorexic model. Don't start trying to change someone on a first date. Second thought, don't try to change someone at all. It never works. If I were out with you, and you told me to lay off the fatty foods, I'd tell you to take a hike!
I wouldn't take her anywhere fancy or spend too much money on a tubby. Maybe something like Subway. If her weight isn't already where you'd like it to be you shouldn't expect too much though. If you're really into her you could give her some chocolate laxatives.
You need to slip some laxatives in anything shje eats....and actually some amphetamines will curb her appetite...si use both.





She ought to be down to your goal weight for her within three weeks with that chemical cocktail..
Well I wouldn't let her eat anything but the salad you know, and in fact, I'd make sure to try and get her to walk or jog after the date to work off all those extra calories. God favors those who take care of themselves!
We all know she's going to order a salad and then eat half of your food. So, what you need to do is say ';keep your hands out of my food you fat b**ch';


That ought to do it.


Best of luck to you.
Try not being so picky. Even large girls need love. And when I was 5';7 I weighed 189 pounds. Try to talk to her, find something you have in common. Don't mention her weight she'll wipe the floor with you.
I can't believe this is even an issue.





So she is 5'7'; and 125 lbs right now and you think she is a bit on the chunky side? Let her eat what ever she wants...
tell her subtly that shes fat by asking her if she would prefer.....(then point out the fattiest most obvious for the obese thing on the menu) ask her if she would like seconds on dessert
Take her to the restaurant, but insist on sitting in the lobby. She can still see and smell food, but her lard-*** won't be tempted to eat any of it!
you should tell her now lost the 20pounds then there will be a second date .. if you really like chunky one then don't forget to take shower before you meet her
Don't tell her about eating to many fat foods. Chunky doesn't mean anything. Beauty is only skin deep.
If you really like her,then just let it go for a few more dates.If you tell her now,it would be insulting.
First date and you are so fussy.
Make sure that she really gets to know you before you say/do anything
She wont order anything but a salad.You'll see the real her after you've had sex 100 times and everyone is comfortable.GL
NO.
don't say anything know it will be offensive to her.
Food is the last thing you need to worry about...get her drunk and go bang...the end
These first six items are really basic and somewhat laughable, but when it comes to dating, some guys self-destruct before leaving their home. So here are some well tested dating tips (mainly for the guys) that should happen whether you are going out with a woman.





* Dress nicely


* Comb your hair


* Brush your teeth 鈥?PLEASE


* Wear deodorant 鈥?DOUBLE PLEASE


* If you are driving 鈥?Clean up your vehicle inside and out


* And always bring along your sense of humor





Pray 鈥?Before you even leave home to meet your date you need to spend time on your knees asking God to help you honor Him and your date. You can never go wrong with prayer. This will also put you in the proper mind-set for your time together.





Talk a lot 鈥?There鈥檚 no better way to get to know someone than by talking to them about a wide variety of topics. The more you talk, the more you will begin to know if this might be a relationship that you should pursue.





Dating is a wonderful experience and should be enjoyed by both people, if she want to eat and order a lot... let her do it. If you are two were comfortable with each other, then open up the issue of loosing her weight but in a very nice and sweet way.





Good luck to the two of you.