First date advice?

Have you ever made a girl drive an hour to meet you at a restaurant if you didnt know any good places where she lived at or would you go pick her up at her house and drive back to your area just to take her out to dinner?





Also what do you think about making the girl go dutch just to make her more interested in you? Does that actually work?First date advice?
can't say that i have. have her drive if possible. if she can't, it's your choice whether you want to pick her up or not.





you could suggest going dutch, especially for a first date. going dutch doesn't necessarily build attraction. it would only show her that you're not trying to ';buy'; her affection. basically, that you have more to offer to her than money.





no matter what, though, have fun! that's what it's all about.


good luck, man!First date advice?
If you are asking her out,


then you should pay


instead of being a tightwad.


That won't impress her.


I suggest doing something fun


instead of a dinner date, movie or coffee.


If you do something fun together,


that will break the ice alot better than


the typical first dates usually do.
Since you are the one asking her out, she should not be expected to pay or travel to you for the date. Do your homework. Look around her area and explore the different restaurants. I wonder where you got the idea that if the girl pays for her meal that she will be more interested in you? That would totally turn me off. I'd be insulted. And no, it doesn't work - unless you want to have the woman believe that you are to cheap to pay for a meal on a date.





Do you know what splitting a tab, expecting her to drive to your town is called? Friendship. Nothing more than that.





My male friends and I would always split meals and drinks. We took turns driving. We never moved from the status of friendship.





When my male friends took out women on dates, they paid for everything, treated the woman with upmost respect and went to where she was.





There is a difference between meeting up as friends and going on a date.





I would also be insulted if you came to pick me up, the spent a hour on the road to go to a restaurant because you were too snobby (and yes that's how I'd see you) to eat in my town.





So, rethink this - do you want a date or friendship.





Date - then you pay, you go to her and you find a nice place to eat.





Friendship, either you go to her or she comes to you, you split the meal and no hanky panky afterwards.





Good luck
THE LEAST YOU CAN DO IS PAY MAN GEEZ DONT BE A CHEAP A$$!


ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS DRIVING ALL THE WAY TO YOU... WHICH IS ALSO NOT COOL TO MAKE HER DRIVE THAT FAR!!!!PICK HER UP OR COME UP WITH SOMETHING BETTER
first date you need to pay for her meal pick her up and see that she gets home safe also on time if she has a cerfew. talk to her she may know of a nice place near her house she may also be more at ease if you keep her in an area that she knows. P.S. compliments work best at the begining of the date. flatter her and dont be a tightass. later going dutch might be acceptable. good luck
I would not make her drive an hour to your area!!! Ask around and find out what good restuarents are near her place! Ask her or friends...





I don't understand what you meen by the second bit!
whatever you do... pay for the damn meal you cheapass
No, I've never made a girl drive that far. I have sent a car (or limo) to pick her up if my schedule did not allow me to pick her up.





Besides, if you don't know any local places, ask her. Oh, and a tip, don't take her to any seafood places on a first date. She may have allergies.





As far as going dutch. It doesn't work. You will appear to be cheap. You will not have a second date. The only way I go dutch is if I never intend on seeing this person again... ever.