Friday, April 30, 2010

1st Date Advice/Help?

It just seems like I never have any luck, it could just be me, but it could also be the dates, the plain simple lunch or dinner and see a movie kind of date. I'm guessing most girls find that to be boring! After all, can't chat during the movie!





My question being, what would be some great activities to do on a first date? The kind of activities that are fun and will allow you to get to know someone. More importantly, the kind of things that can get someone to be interested in you, not view you as someone thats boring %26amp; bland!





Thanks!1st Date Advice/Help?
EXACTO MUNDO BRO. hehe CAPSLOCK. :D Anyway, you pretty much answered yourself on the first part. Yes. Never go out on a first date at the movies. Next. It really depends on the girl. If the girl likes Anime. Take her to an Anime Expo. If the girl likes Bands, invite her to listen to you play guitar. If the girl likes to go to the movies, she's using you (trust me!). Anyway if it's GENERAL fun things. Go to the mall, amusement park. Anywhere with lots of things to do.





But really. If you want her to get interested in you. Take her to somewhere she likes (just like i said earlier) You can start conversations if you both like the same thing. Places won't automatically get a girl to like you.1st Date Advice/Help?
Avoid the movies, simple as that. I would do miniature golf, since it takes a long time to finish a freaking game. You can also go apple picking or go hiking or go for a picnic or go to an amusement park, you can spend a whole day at Disneyland for example and have to have conversations while you wait in the freaking 2 hour lines. And if you are more adverturous you can always go for a sex orgy or something.
For a first date there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie, and going somewhere private but public to talk (that way no one feels uncomfortable because the two of you just met) or maybe ask her for suggestion as to what she wants to do on the first date and if there is a second date, you plan that date, asking is always better than assuming, and if anyone finds you and/or your views boring, they 're probably not worth spending your time on anyways...........Good Luck and have a drink for me (smile)
You need to find something where the two of you can interact. Some ideas of mine: bowling, go cart racing, miniture golfing, a local amusement park or carnival (to play the games), a japanese restaurant (where they cook in front of you) a comedy club (be sure to sit up front. The comedians will bring up all the points that might seem awkward but remind her that you are not her ';freind';) just to name a few. But always remember, go into each date casually. Don't excite her, thinking that you guys are gana have the time of your lives. When a date does not meet the (high) expectations, she will usually think your the reason.
you could ask her what kindof things she likes to do.


most girls like going to the park, thats a cute and casual way to get to know someone.


but it could also get boring if you dont have any good things to talk about.


but if thats the case, it probably wouldnt work anyways.


we've all had our fair share of awkward silent moments.


so if that happens, make a joke about it.


hope that sort of helped.


good luck.
Go for a delicious meal, followed by a stroll in the park and then invite her to your house, or take her home and hopefully she'll invite you in! If not, be a gentlemen, hug her not kiss its 1st date and say goodnight!
maybe if you changed the simple lunch or dinner into maybe something on the beach it might be fun, because that way you're able to go and have a swim, walk etc and you could get to know each other
i LiKE MOViES


make-OUT tiME!!!;]


but chill at the mall


walk around i like to walk and talk


or just some place nice %26amp; quiet


not so crowded walk around ......


%26amp; talk i like that too


or dont be afraid to show ur kid side=]


have fun


blaser tag


lol


chuck E cheese


chet liek dat=]]\


tell me if dat help at all
well, my bf took me on a picknick for our first date. and if it's by a lake, that would tottally make it romantic. talk about likes, dislikes things you have in common. stuff like that. GOOD LUCK! :)
golfing even if it is putt putt- dont keep score


the beach- always fun for both


But basically always laugh and eat


two very inportant things for girls
Miniature golfing, swimming, hiking, bicycling...these are a few suggestions. You should use your imagination.
Definitely bowling or karaoke or miniature golf, or an amusement park.
put on a porn
ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do

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