Friday, April 30, 2010

First date advice??/?

I recently ended a 6 year relationship, and I am going on my first date since the break up. This is kind of my first real date. I have been with the same guy since I was 17. We are going for coffee and then to see a movie. I don't know if I should offer to pay for my half of the date?? He would score points with me if he pays for me, but I am afraid that if I offer to pay my half he will get offended, if I don't he might think I am a gold digger. What is the ettiquette on this??First date advice??/?
Yes offer to pay. If he says no then he's a gentleman, but when you are out for coffee offer your 2 cents %26amp; see what he says will find out alot about his character that way also in how he responds to your offer.





Good Luck, I know it's hard, but I hope you have fun being back out there :)First date advice??/?
if it truly is a date, let him pay.....
Yes, offering to pay half, and not just assuming that he pays for all of it will work in your favor.
its good that you actually think like that, theres a lot of girls out there that would not even think of paying half!


i think the best thing 2 do is wait to see how it feels on the night.


if he pays 4 the coffee and film then why not ask if he fancies a drink after and insist on paying for them as he`s paid 4 the rest. i bet you`d score more points in his books 4 that!


good luck,

Dating advice on how to meet someone?

Where is the best place to meet somebody. I have been going to lots of clubs but meet the same kind of people there (one night stands) if you are looking for something else where would be a good place to go?Dating advice on how to meet someone?
walk up to someone fine and say hello





if that doesn't work, try it nakedDating advice on how to meet someone?
Meet online! You will be automatically matched to people in your area that have the same agenda as you do. There's a ton of good sites.

Prom date advice?

okay,here's the story. I want to ask this girl out to senior prom. she graduated from h.s last yr. were pretty good friends i'd like to think. kind of liked her for a while. except now i hardly ever see her.i've seen her a few times,but not that often. so how could i ask her? seems kind of informal to do it over computer(facebook,aim,etc). so,what should i do?Prom date advice?
call her up and ask her to hang out. if things go well, then ask her while youre together. but if you havent seen her in a while... you dunno how the chemistry is gonna work out or if she'd even be up for going with you... so it's better to get together and ask in personProm date advice?
call her!!!


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  • First date! Advice/Help please!?

    I met him a few times in our University and finaly he asked me for a coffee. I like him so far and generaly I am interested in a longterm and a serious relationship. On the first date, are there any norms that one show follow? Any speicific topics that need to be discussed? Do you suggest any DOs and Don'ts? As a girl, how can I gain more control over my emotions and be more involved in the conversation?





    Thanks in advance!First date! Advice/Help please!?
    make LOTS of small talk and be sure not to lie and just be urself! it always works but i kno that its hard but if he sees the real you then youll know if he likes you for u of just using you for something. if it doesnt work out then srry but theres many fish in the sea! Good Luck!First date! Advice/Help please!?
    It's a first date! Relax and have fun!!! Don't worry about anything long term at this point, just figure out if you like the guy and go from there!
    First of all, calm down - it'll be fine. Try not to plan anything, you're just gonna get stressed out. If there are any awkward silences (there will be) make sure you laugh.. don't let it stay quiet. Ask questions about him: ';Favorite movie, what music he likes, what classes he's taking.'; Just breathe. It'll be fine.
    i tend to drink entirely too much on my first dates....lol
    do wat u do when u do it let him hit the fist nite it will make everything better
    just be your self

    Movie date,advice pleaseeeee(:?

    okay,im going to the movies with this guy i could possibly really like,but like i don't know how to be like during the movie because i don't want to be making out or anything and idk if he wants too but i don't how can i act likei am into him,i just don't want to do that yet,helppp!Movie date,advice pleaseeeee(:?
    Just follow his lead and go along with it if you want to.

    First date advice! helpp?

    this is the first time when im actually gonna go on a date with my girlfriend...my first date. im 14.. and i got no idea what to do when im out with her. Like what should i talk about. Do we have to keep talkin? like what do u talk about... how to stop from beein kind of nervous. and what should i get her? like a perfume or wot!!? dam confused out here. help.. tnksFirst date advice! helpp?
    ur already dating and ur 14?!?!? wow, ur good--i waited till i was basically 16. lol. anyways....hmmm advice. first of all--LIGHTEN UP!!!! shes prob just as nervous and if the guy seems relaxed it can help lighten the ';tension';. don't worry bout wat to toc bout--jus let it flow. everything will go perfect %26amp; when u get home u'll wonder why u ever worried bout wat to toc bout. %26amp; its ok if its quiet sometimes. no worries just be yourself and things will take care of themselves :) ooh and try giving her a flower or something instead of perfume.


    hope i helped a lil bit.........First date advice! helpp?
    comeon, you guys are just 14. A date is not serious for your age, just have fun like friends.

    1st Date Advice/Help?

    It just seems like I never have any luck, it could just be me, but it could also be the dates, the plain simple lunch or dinner and see a movie kind of date. I'm guessing most girls find that to be boring! After all, can't chat during the movie!





    My question being, what would be some great activities to do on a first date? The kind of activities that are fun and will allow you to get to know someone. More importantly, the kind of things that can get someone to be interested in you, not view you as someone thats boring %26amp; bland!





    Thanks!1st Date Advice/Help?
    EXACTO MUNDO BRO. hehe CAPSLOCK. :D Anyway, you pretty much answered yourself on the first part. Yes. Never go out on a first date at the movies. Next. It really depends on the girl. If the girl likes Anime. Take her to an Anime Expo. If the girl likes Bands, invite her to listen to you play guitar. If the girl likes to go to the movies, she's using you (trust me!). Anyway if it's GENERAL fun things. Go to the mall, amusement park. Anywhere with lots of things to do.





    But really. If you want her to get interested in you. Take her to somewhere she likes (just like i said earlier) You can start conversations if you both like the same thing. Places won't automatically get a girl to like you.1st Date Advice/Help?
    Avoid the movies, simple as that. I would do miniature golf, since it takes a long time to finish a freaking game. You can also go apple picking or go hiking or go for a picnic or go to an amusement park, you can spend a whole day at Disneyland for example and have to have conversations while you wait in the freaking 2 hour lines. And if you are more adverturous you can always go for a sex orgy or something.
    For a first date there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie, and going somewhere private but public to talk (that way no one feels uncomfortable because the two of you just met) or maybe ask her for suggestion as to what she wants to do on the first date and if there is a second date, you plan that date, asking is always better than assuming, and if anyone finds you and/or your views boring, they 're probably not worth spending your time on anyways...........Good Luck and have a drink for me (smile)
    You need to find something where the two of you can interact. Some ideas of mine: bowling, go cart racing, miniture golfing, a local amusement park or carnival (to play the games), a japanese restaurant (where they cook in front of you) a comedy club (be sure to sit up front. The comedians will bring up all the points that might seem awkward but remind her that you are not her ';freind';) just to name a few. But always remember, go into each date casually. Don't excite her, thinking that you guys are gana have the time of your lives. When a date does not meet the (high) expectations, she will usually think your the reason.
    you could ask her what kindof things she likes to do.


    most girls like going to the park, thats a cute and casual way to get to know someone.


    but it could also get boring if you dont have any good things to talk about.


    but if thats the case, it probably wouldnt work anyways.


    we've all had our fair share of awkward silent moments.


    so if that happens, make a joke about it.


    hope that sort of helped.


    good luck.
    Go for a delicious meal, followed by a stroll in the park and then invite her to your house, or take her home and hopefully she'll invite you in! If not, be a gentlemen, hug her not kiss its 1st date and say goodnight!
    maybe if you changed the simple lunch or dinner into maybe something on the beach it might be fun, because that way you're able to go and have a swim, walk etc and you could get to know each other
    i LiKE MOViES


    make-OUT tiME!!!;]


    but chill at the mall


    walk around i like to walk and talk


    or just some place nice %26amp; quiet


    not so crowded walk around ......


    %26amp; talk i like that too


    or dont be afraid to show ur kid side=]


    have fun


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    well, my bf took me on a picknick for our first date. and if it's by a lake, that would tottally make it romantic. talk about likes, dislikes things you have in common. stuff like that. GOOD LUCK! :)
    golfing even if it is putt putt- dont keep score


    the beach- always fun for both


    But basically always laugh and eat


    two very inportant things for girls
    Miniature golfing, swimming, hiking, bicycling...these are a few suggestions. You should use your imagination.
    Definitely bowling or karaoke or miniature golf, or an amusement park.
    put on a porn
    ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do