Friday, January 8, 2010

Late prom date advice<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<ladies plz help<<<<<<<<<<<<<

well its getting close to prom, 17 days, and ive been trying to have her friend talk to her and see if she still wants to go alone. because she broke up with her bf about 2 1/2 weeks ago. her friend encouraged me to ask her and said she would talk to her but i havent gotten a reply from her in 2 days.





so im sick of waiting because it is getting so late. what would be a great way for me to ask her out? i can ask her after school but what would be a good way of going about it?





i dont want to pressure her really and i want her to be comfartable.





we used to be decent friends last year and she flirted with me a lot. i just didnt recognise it. im just a little shy and i know shes NOT going with anyone so what should i say?





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You sound like a great guy. Girls like guys who are friends, then they can relax and trust you. When guys come on


too strong, girls usually clench up or are turned off.





Just be yourself. Sounds like you have a great personality. First you smile! Smile and LOOK her in the eye. You have to make eye contact.


Be genuine. If you mess up or say the wrong thing, just laugh it off; make a joke so you'll both relax. It shows you're human.





Girls love guys who make them laugh, so you could say something amusing, comment on something that happened at school. Ask her a question and LISTEN to her answer.





THEN compliment her on something, maybe something small no one else would notice, or ask about a book she's reading or holding. Keep it light.


It's nice to call her by name once or twice in the conversation.





If she starts talking a lot, listen, smile, look her in the eye, and DO NOT look at any other girls while talking to her. That's really disrespectful. :)





Maybe you could kid around, once you're talking to her, ';You know there's this prom thing coming up...'; Then jokingly say


';Would you do me the honor of being my date?';


Or something like that.





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be real sweet first of all. look at her not her body. Just let her know its friendly and because you were friends that won't be hard. Just say since you both don't have a date ya'll can go together.





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Well it depends how flirty you are you could get her a flower and ask her. or you could just ask her. dont get a friend to ask her idk its just a let down that you dont have the balls to do it(i know you know this) and your scared? yes most likely not of her but the rejection. just dont be afraid and go for it i would defiantly do the flower thing though
';hey, would you like to go to prom with me';





it'd be best if you also don't say this:





It's getting late so....


or.. i couldn't find anyone else so...





it'll make her seem like a last resort and she wont want to go with you at all.
Just ask her to go to the prom with you all she can say is no right so go and ask her in a polite manner and if she wants to think about it ask her to let you know in a day or two
Ask her out but don't be too formal about it...tell her you'll show her a good time and try to make her laugh because she's probably feeling down at this point....but you have to be sensitive to the fact that she recently broke up w/ her bf so she may still have hope for them two....
Go up to her and be like:





';There's a party in my pants, your invited...o **** sorry wrong question. Do you want to go to prom with me?





The most straight up question will get the most straight up answer.

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