Friday, January 8, 2010

First date advice!! best answer 10 points?

I am going on a date this wednesday i have never gone on a date before


i have got what i am going to wear sussed out.


but i am not very good on small talk can you please give me some steps how to be a perfect date.


(east 10 points)First date advice!! best answer 10 points?
1. BE CONFIDENT! ((Confidence, to me, is the most attractive trait a person can have. Just make yourself have the mindset that you're a great date, that you're a hot guy/girl, that you have a great personality, and that you're accepted already. generally, when people feel accepted, they're more likely to lay back and let loose and be themselves. JUST DO IT!))





#2. FLIRT! ((Everybody loves to laugh, so throw in jokes, play around with him/her a little bit.))





#3. BE SWEET! ((Ask him/her how they're doing, ask if there's anything exciting going on in their life, ask simply ';so what do you like to do?'; or ';so what are you good at?'; just ask questions that show that you genuinely want to get know them more, but dont be sleazy and creepy and drill her for his/her address and stuff like that lol. People love to talk about themselves, though, so just ask questions and then branch off of whtever they says with your own personal experiences.





#4. HAVE FUN! ((Don't stress over it, they'll probably sense the awkwardness if you do. Just relax and be yourself and be honest!!!))





good luck :)First date advice!! best answer 10 points?
First, calm down. No one is the perfect date. Don't set the bar too high.





Second, ask what you're going to so you'll know what to wear.





Third, I know it sounds stupid, but be yourself. Don't try to pretend you like things you do not. Think about things you like to do, and be ready to talk about them. If you go to the same school, ask if he's ever had ';Mr. Jones'; for math. Ask what classes he's going to take next year. Ask him what he's doing over the summer (baseball, going to the pool, etc.).





Just relax and have a good time.





Good luck!





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ask him questions that use more than a yes or no answer


say ';mmm-hmm'; and ';yeah'; when he's talking to you it will make him more interested


talk about your interests


leave him wanting more like at the end of the date if he goes in for a kiss whisper in his ear you had a nice time instead
Where are you going? You need to give more details.





To be a perfect date. Are you a man?!?! If so, open the door for her. If you're going to dinner/lunch, find out what food she likes and take her to a new place. Wear whatever makes you feel confident.
Well you could ask them things about themselves.





Examples Include:


what they like to do.


what kind of music they like to listen to.


what kind of tv shows they like.
just like wat u would talk to a friend hey how was ur day (dont talk to much or he will get bored) dnt kiss on the first date and just be urself btw i have been on dates all the time trust me!!!!!!
relax and be yourself, find something in common to talk about - even if this is music or film, that way you can find some common ground and the conversation will flow naturally
- job


- hobbies


- family (they might not have one)


- movies


- music


- TV


- dreams
Just be yourself, don't try to act special or anything, that never works.
just be yourself! your date will like you for who you are. (:
act the way you would with a friend...be yourself..make sure you flirt..but not aggressively..and have fun:)

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