Sunday, December 20, 2009

Does anyone have any first date advice?

I'm going on my first date (ever) tonight. Does anyone have any advice on what I should or shouldn't do?





Thanks in advanceDoes anyone have any first date advice?
Wear clothes you look good in AND are comfortable wearing. Especially shoes - nothing comes off worse that trying to wear shoes or clothes and constantly messing with them because they bother you.





Be calm and relaxed as much as you can.





Think of several topics of conversation to have so that anytime it gets awkward you can fill the silence.





Ask questions that can't be answered with yes or no. Ask for details, and be interested in the answer. Most people love talking about themselves and love having an interested audience.





Go light on perfume or cologne. Wear something nice and flirty, but use it lightly. It is horrid to be on a date who smells like the bottle broke and they showered in musk. Put a little in your hair. It stays longer and smells better.





Brush your teeth, bring mints with you, and share them politely.Does anyone have any first date advice?
... Play pool or video games. It will go a long way of showing how the two of you get along together. It'll show if the other person is a competitive type or if they're a sore loser. My bf let me win the first time in pool, then played on my (less than average) level the next two games where I actually won one. Then we played air hockey and video games and just had fun laughing and joking because we are both the ';have a good time'; rather than the ';got to win'; types.
Be Yourself, as ';Mel'; said. That's the best advice. There are a lot of Do's and dont's, but isn't the point of dating suppose to be getting to know who you are with?? How would it be possible to get an accurate image or feeling about someone if we all went out following the SAME rules?





Be you, talk about whatever comes up, eat what you crave, and SMILE!





Hope you have fun!
Don't talk with your mouth full.


Don't pass gas.


Don't belch.


Smile at your date some.


Talk a little but let your date talk too.


Don't discuss sex.


Be positive.


Don't talk bad about others.


Hold your shoulders up.


Let your sweet self shine through.





cheeers.
=) be yourself sincerely don't pretend to be something your not and DON'T order just salad!!! guys hate a girl with no appetite =) hope it goes well =)
Don't expect to much, though be ready for anything.

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