Sunday, December 20, 2009

I need some really good date advice, It's my first date, PLEASE HELP!!!?

I am going on my first date with a guy named Patrick who I really like. He asked me out in a text message last nite. I REALLY like him. I want everything to go perfect. I need advice. How should I wear my hair? What clothes should I wear? How should I act? What should I talk about? Should I try to kiss him? If so, how should I go about doing that?





HELP!I need some really good date advice, It's my first date, PLEASE HELP!!!?
lol you're cute asking these questions.





If he asked you out, he likes you for who you are, so don't be any different than the person that he knows you as. =)





You want to wear clothes that are flirty, but not inappropriate for wherever you are going for this date. Do your hair how you normally would, I dunno? o_O





Talk about anything that comes to your mind. Asking a lot of questions is a good way to keep a conversation going with someone you don't know very well or feel nervous around.





Maybe kiss him if it goes really well, I dunno haha. Just be yourself. I know it's hard when you're nervous though ^^ But just try your best, he likes you for who you are.I need some really good date advice, It's my first date, PLEASE HELP!!!?
I would dress close to the way you normally dress, with a few small chages, like jewellry or whatever....same with your hair, style it the way you feel the most attractive. Be yourself, don't 'act' any way other than how you normally would. The reason I say this is because he already likes you enough to ask you out, so try not to change yourself. The things you don't like about yourself, he may find adorable. Remember that he is nervous, too! I know guys act way cooler...but trust me, he is nervous!


Talk about ANYTHING....ask if he has brothers, sisters, what his hobbies are, then branch off of that by adding in your own information. I wouldn't try to kiss him unless the date has gone AMAZINGLY WELL, and you can tell he wants you to. Then, you could try taking his hands and leaning in...hopefully he leans in too. Guys like when girls take control :)


Good luck!


Remember, even if it doesn't go the way you wanted, there will be more first dates!
well.. don't stress out just because you like him so much, if this date's a couple days in advance, be careful because stressing about something can lead to unwanted pimples.. and those are definitely not wanted..


for hair, i recommend you wear it in a way that flatters your face shape, loose hair always looks nice if its nicely styles or maintained. tied up hair can leave the face looking very severe, so be careful about that..


for clothes, be very careful to wear something you're comfortable in. if you're uncomfortable, you'll end up moving a lot and looking like you're uncomfortable with him or just like you have ADD or something =P


if you're going to be standing a lot, dont wear heels, even though they may LOOK stunning, they'll wreak havvock on your poor feat and you'll end up needing him for walking support.


act natural.. dont over-do casual though, because you might give him the impression that you just want to be friends.. flirty is always good, but be SUBTLE.. overly flirty girls look trampy or desperate..


talk to him about things that you know interest him.. if you dont know, ask him what he does in his spare time, and then you'll know what interests him.. dont EVER talk about ex's unless they ASK.. even if you're trying to play the jealous card, dont..


talk about light things, dont go into religion, or politics, and generally sex, those are general conversation dampers, because they can get very intense and t
Talk about random things (but not so random that he's all WTF) come up with some topic that both of you can relate with and have an intellectual discussion. Don't overboard to try and impress him in how you look. Be casual but nice enough to have him look at you and go ';wow you look nice';. as for the kissing thing, it should be you that makes the move, go for a cheek peck or peck on the lips, and if you to really had a great time then do one of those kisses that shows you did have a great time with him, he definitely will take it. I hope this helps. Answer mine please. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
First of all, relax. He already asked you out so he obviously likes you. I hate to use this cliche, but just be yourself. If you put too much stress on yourself, you won't enjoy the date. You might like this website that a friend of mine uses, it is http://www.datingtips247.com Good luck!
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just DON';T B prude!!!!!!!

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