My ex husband wow that feels weird to say and I were just divorced last Thursday. I have two little boys one who is seven and the other is two. My kids mean the world to me. WHen I am ready to start dating how do I bring them into the conversation? Do most guys get scared off by this?Recently divorced want advice for when I am ready to date again?
Don't be in a rush. And remember, the next guy you date probably won't be the guy you marry and spend the rest of your life with, so treat it for what it is at first -- a chance to be out of the house and enjoy some mature, adult conversation. Relax. Don't expect miracles right away. Enjoy dinner or coffee. If it makes you feel better, go dutch on your first few dates and be empowered to choose the place, etc.
Obviously your children will come up at some point. So will your divorce. But you want to know if the other person is interested in YOU, not your past, and all things will be discussed in good time.Recently divorced want advice for when I am ready to date again?
I think you're ready when you're ready. If you feel like you want to date you should. I wouldn't introduce a date to boys as young as yours until things get serious. Some men won't like that you have children but those aren't the ones you want any way. Plenty of men won't care or will like that you're a mom.
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