One for the girls,help please on first date advice.?

Can any of you lovelys out there help me out What do you look and expect from a man on the first date regards conversation ie (do I make her laugh),presentation ie (dress sense) as im hopeless when it comes to fashion. I want to make a good impression and get her to say yyyyyyes and hopefully a second dateOne for the girls,help please on first date advice.?
You're going on your first date? How exciting! =D





Please check out my blog...The link to it is in my profile... it has a ton of helpful hints about what to do on a first date... exactly what to say and do...why going to dinner and the movies is a bad idea for dates, etc....





Firstly, don't put so much thought into this. You will only make yourself frustrated. The point of a first date isn't to see if this girl is your soulmate, if she is the perfect girlfriend, if she will make a great mother and wife.... it is to have a fun time with somebody.





With that in mind, keep the conversation light. Yes, you should laugh, but laughing will come naturally. You don't have to ';plan'; jokes. If you are having a good time, it will just happen, without any premeditated action. And if she has a good time, you will know...because she will say yes to a second date! =)





Speaking of fashion, that is not something to worry about, ***at all***. Girls realize that men do not have the sense of fashion that we do. We don't want you to know who Louis Vuitton is, we just care if your clothes are clean =P





Don't try too hard. Don't show up on the first date with a bouquet of flowers and a dress shirt and tie. Don't take her out to a fancy restaurant and spend bajillions of dollars on her. These moves will come off as insincere. ***A girl who is interested in you will like you even if you don't try to impress her***





Read my blog, it has great information for those who are just beginning dating such as yourself. Good luck! =)One for the girls,help please on first date advice.?
Ok, first realise that the fact she is going on this date with you means that she is obviously interested in you, so that's the hardest part over!


Making a girl laugh on a date is always a good idea and a few compliments never hurt! Just try and be as natural as possible. Keep the conversation balanced i.e. both of you should be asking and answering questions. If you just relax, it'll put her at ease and she will enjoy the date too.


Clothes-wise, it depends where you are going. If you are going to a bar or restaurant, then a nice shirt and jeans will make you look smart enough without over-doing it. If it is a more casual date, then a polo shirt or sweater with jeans is probably better. I would avoid trainers (unless they look quite smart, like tennis shoe types). The most important thing is to wear what you feel confident and comfortable in. Trust me, if you are relaxed and confident, that second date is yours!
It completely depends where you are taking her. If you are going to someplace nice then jeans and a nice button up will work just fine. If you are going for pizza or something similar than jeans and a t-shirt will work. Remember you want to be very clean and fresh as well as your clothes. Put on cologne but don't drown yourself and be clean cut. Most importantly you really need to be yourself because you want her to like you for you and not because you pretended to be someone your not. Ask her questions but give her time to ask some too. Smile a lot and tell her basic things about yourself. If you find opportunities to make her laugh the jump for it. Don't be pushy and don't forget to pay for the date. Trust me if it's right you two will naturally hit it off. Don't be nervous, there really is someone out there for everyone.
Well first just dress casually and maybe get her a small present to say i like you.Compliment her on her outfit she will like that and make her laugh and tell her how much you like her and she will say yes to a second date =) Good Luck hope you have fun x